Our baby boy Victor **Updated pg 11**

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  1. mugzy

    mugzy Mummy to 2 beautiful boys

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    I’ve been trying to figure out how to put the events of the last few days into words. There is no easy way to say it, and I need time to process it all, so I will be writing more later. The short story is our baby boy was born on Sunday morning 12 weeks early. He weighed 820g and hung on for 3 hours but was too sick and too little to make it :cry:. They say he had a silent intrauterine infection, and by the time there were any real symptoms it was too late to save him. We named him Victor, he was the tiniest most perfect little person I’d ever seen. He had my nose but the rest was all Dan. I got to hold him after he died, and say goodbye. Dan was in Sweden at the time and got back yesterday, he’s been fantastic, and I don’t know what I’d do without him. I know that somehow we need to move past this, but I can’t leave this little baby behind.
     
  2. Serene123

    Serene123 Guest

    :hugs: Oh hun, I can't even imagine how you are feeling. So sorry for your loss x
     
  3. Ema

    Ema Mummy :) xxx

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    :hug: aw hunni im so so sorry XxX
     
  4. Magenta

    Magenta Active Member

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    :hug::hug::hug:

    I'm sooooo sorry to hear about little Victor

    my thoughts are with you and your family

    xxx
     
  5. Jem

    Jem Mummy of 2

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    I'm so so sorry :hug: xxx
     
  6. ellasmummy

    ellasmummy Well-Known Member

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    :hugs: I am sorry for your loss

    xx
     
  7. alio

    alio Well-Known Member

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    So sorry to hear this. Thinking of you all.... xx
     
  8. Younglutonmum

    Younglutonmum Mummy To Maya & Bump

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    :hug:

    So so sorry hun

    xxx
     
  9. Samo

    Samo Well-Known Member

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    so sorry for you and Dan's lost :hugs:. Victor is a lovely name! Take care hun.
     
  10. Mervs Mum

    Mervs Mum Doula & Mum of 3!

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    leedsforever Kerry!

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    so so sorry for your loss :hugs:
     
  12. charliebear

    charliebear Mum to AJ & Pumpkin

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    :hugs: I'm so sorry. x
     
  13. alyxzandra

    alyxzandra Mom to Sebastian

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    Oh no!!! I am so sorry for your loss. Poor little Victor. There is now another little angel.
     
  14. alice&bump

    alice&bump mummy to katie

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    i'm so sorry for your loss. my thoughts are with you and your family xxx
     
  15. XKatX

    XKatX Well-Known Member

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    So sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

    RIP Victor. Enjoy playing with all the other angels x x x
     
  16. Crobsonrobson

    Crobsonrobson Well-Known Member

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    We are so sorry for your loss. Please take care. Our thoughts and best wishes are with you.
     
  17. aurora32

    aurora32 Mum to my Angels

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    So sorry for your loss hunn :hugs::hugs:
     
  18. AC81

    AC81 Proud mum of 2

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    I'm so sorry for your loss :hug: :hug: :hug:
     
  19. ribboninthesky

    ribboninthesky Proud Mum of 3! :o)

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    Oh I'm so sorry :(

    My thoughts are with you both (and your familes too).

    Please take care xxxxx
     
  20. Blob

    Blob Sarah :)

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    Aww hun i'm so sorry for your loss :hugs: :hugs:
     

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