Over saw a supposed friend say i had an ugly baby today. It made me cry :(

[amygwen]

She's obviously just jealous, I mean.. the fact that she had to resort to making ugly comments about your daughter? Just goes to show how ridiculous of a person she is. A 'friend' of mine from high school told me I needed to 'fix my sons face'. I was SO appalled. I don't know what posesses people to come up w/ this sort of stuff! They're messed up in the head! Your daughter is gorgeous.

 

[mrsthomas623]

What??? Your little girl is a doll baby!! Sounds like she is jealous of you and just wants to be hurtful.

 

[Claireyh]

I haven't read the whole thread but just wanted to reiterate that your daughter is beautiful and has a gorgeous name.

I think you've done the right thing being restrained and just deleting her and not saying anything. I'm terribly hot headed and would have sounded her out on your mutual friends wall, sent her a shitty pm and then deleted her.

What a vile, vindictive, nasty person. Who says that someones baby is ugly!!

At least you have seen her for what she really is and won't be wasting yours or your daughter's precious time on her anymore!!

xxx

 

[sweetlullaby]

What a horrible horrible person! I'd be absolutely devestated if one of my friends said my LO was ugly!

Im glad you deleted her who needs friends like that! And your little girl is stunning!

 

[kellis]

Oh my god, the stupid cow! Your baby is just beautiful!

 

[kawaiigirl]

OMG I nearly cried for you!! Ava is absolutely beautiful!!! She is obviously just a sad jealous bitch!!!! Do not take heed. That is not the kind of friend you need in your life. You know your little girl is gorgeous, you don't need to listen to some evil cow!!! I would be upset too though. I'm so sorry you had to see those horrid comments xxxx

 

[Lauraxamy]

How rude! I can't stand it when people turn on babies like that, she's beautiful Hun honestly and as for your friend.. I'd ignore her and personally I'd never be speaking with her again!

 

[happigail]

I am not saying this to make you feel better, I would just leave this thread and say nothing but Ava is ADORABLE. she is such a bonny baby I can't get my head around how on earth this 'friend' can justify such a disgusting comment. Have nothing more to do with her and take some heart that the girlish have some deep rooted issues or jealousy towards you that makes her act put in such a way. X

 

[fluffyblue]

SHe is gorgeous x

 

[Wriggley]

what a disgusting person!!!
your little girl is very very pretty! take no notice shes obviously got some juealously issues

 

[ellers]

I thought I'd read this, see a pic and then think 'hmmm. what can I say, I suppose shes...' and make something nice up, but omg, she's such a perfect looking baby! Proper little girl baby, so cute!
It's amazing how deep a little comment can go - someone called LO a ruffian (because he steadied himself on this little girls shoulder - he's practising walking and literally put his hand out so he didn't fall!!). I was so cross!!
Is it possible that this 'friend' was trying to make the other girl feel better about her ugly baby?! If she even has one. Or is just trying to be 'big and clever' without thinking. What a dick. Good comment on the pic though, that should make her think and sorry that she's lost you.

 

[WanaBaba]

OMG i was so shocked reading this, i cannot believe that someone would say something as nasty as that about a baby! And she is meant to be your friend! She is obviously jealous as it is very clear to see your baby is not ugly, she is beautiful and i really mean that xx

EDIT** I just showed this thread to my husband and the first thing he said was she is obviously jealous!! as your LO is very very cute!

Hope you're ok hun xx

 

[Murphy98]

Who even does that? That would have hurt anyones feelings.

A. Your baby is clearly adorable B. All babies really are cute in their own way - they are babies!! C. Even if she didn't know you could see the message, why would anyone make such a rude statement?

WTF and I would let her know you saw that. Make her squerm a bit.

 

[mumandco]

Omg your daughter is beautiful,it hurts so much when people make horrid comments about our lo, my brother said a while back to my sister that ds1 is a fucking ugly twat!! I was sooo angry and hurt this came from a bloke who with his girlfriend neglected their 3kids and they ended up in care and being adopted

 

[yourstruly10]

Wow again ladies I am so overwhelmed by how my love you all have to share. I feel much better after getting it out on here and having a half decent sleep(only one night time feed lol).

Having a baby girl is scary thing. I know my highschool day were rough and had some pretty horrid things happen to me and I think the comment just made me realize how tough it is for a girl. I mean it's hard for a boy too but I'm not sure how as I've never been a boy lol.

I just want to protect her from nasty words and nasty people whole I can because I know when she is older I won't be able to as much and I will then have to teach her how to deal with nasty things. I just don't ever want to see her hurt.

Thank you all so much. I now get to go spend another day with my amazing little girl.

I still don't understand why she said it. Her daughter is quite cute as well and our other friend doesn't have children so it wasn't to make her feel better. I'm just not sure what would possess anyone to say someing like that publicly.

But again thank you all. I still can't get over how many people actually care. I never expected this. Thank you.

 

[babyblog]

Try not to think about it too much, she's obviously completely stupid (and wrong cos your LO is beautiful).But i think you should confront her, make her feel bad-maybe not face to face but maybe message her or something, don't let her get away with upsetting you and not feeling guilty x

 

[Odd Socks]

i would be so hurt if anyone said that about bella.
for the record, ava is absolutely beautiful
xx

 

[MissBroody]

Ok - is she BLIND? you have a beautiful baby girl, she's so cute! I'd have gone mental and probably said something to her! I have some nutcases in my family who I haven't seen for years and years but they're obsessed with my life and like to make up lies and spread rumours...anyway my cousin messaged me on FB (we're not friends- he's blocked, it was via his friend) that he'd ''seen me in town once and my baby is ugly with massive ears''. He's a stupid little **** but it still really hurt, and for a while I was really conscious of his ears (they're not 'huge' - at all, I can't believe I let him bother me...) but I was so upset - whenever I saw Harrison's little clueless happy smiling face I cried! How can someone call a BABY ugly?! I really would completely ignore her and feel sorry for how bitter she clearly is, and how shallow she is for comparing her baby's ''cuteness'' to yours! Obviously has deeper insecurities going on! Your daughter is gorgeous, she really is. And my boy is gorgeous, with perfectly proportioned ears and anyone else who dares criticizse him will be feasting on a knuckle sandwhich I'm afraid
xx

 

[MrsBandEgglet]

I expected to see something horrific only to be greeted by three delightful pictures of your truly gorgeous little girl. Your "friend" is a wacko Your daughter is beautiful. Pay no attrntion xx

 

[anawi]

Hmmmm I would give her nasty comments not one second more of your thinking time, she is quite clearly blind and/or insane. Ava is simply beautiful (and if I didn't mean that I would have simply not bothered posting), and she has such a very pretty name too.