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[Ummi2boyz]

Squig, I'm sorry to hear this. I am sending you loads of hugs and positive thoughts. I really hope they will find how help you and baby.

 

[Mrs Reineke]

Squig, I am sending all of my thoughts and prayers your way. I can't even begin to put into words how sorry I am. I will pray there are options to help your baby. Tons of prayers are headed your way.

 

[dairymomma]

Squig-sending lots of and prayers your way. Hopefully there's something the doctors can do to help. Thinking of you.

 

[floridamomma]

I got my results back. My Hcg level was 290 at 14piui. My progesterone level says >200 whatever that means. I think it's high as I take 400mg of progesterone a day

 

[Tasha]

Squig, give them a ring on Monday, the sooner you're on it the better.

Fab news Florida x

 

[Squig34]

I actually still have some 75's from my 5th pregnancy Tasha, so maybe I'll start taking a couple of those from today & then follow up on Thursday. Thanks.

Great news Florida

 

[blueblue]

squig - I'm sorry to hear your news, my thoughts are with you and I have everything crossed for you

florida - that's great about the progestrone

 

[floridamomma]

Squid so they have on call md available?

 

[petitpas]

Squig, so sorry to hear that things aren't going well

A friends of mine's daughter was extremely growth restricted. A scan showed two notches and the mother was put on heparin and aspirin right away. She was given a 50/50 chance of survival but the treatment worked and she grew! They wouldn't let her go to term and she was born by c-section but she is absolutely fine now.
I'm keeping everything crossed that the amniocentesis shows that your baby is healthy and that you are given some treatment to improve your placenta function. Grow, baby, grow! Fxfxfxfx

 

[DSemcho]

Squig I hope everything works out.



So. I'm rather annoyed right now with my mom. This is by far the most pissed I've been with my pregnancy. So back when I had my 11w ultrasound she took the pics from my FB and posted them to hers. Okay no big deal. And someone commented today telling her congrats another one to spoil and she said this.

Also she meant to say that I was told I couldn't carry one. Like really?? I've never posted on my personal FB any of the fertility issues we've had or that I've had miscarriages... I'm seriously pissed she's putting something SO personal on FB.

Spoiler

https://i53.photobucket.com/albums/g55/blissfully_rebellious/image.jpg1_zpst6gyq993.jpg

 

[floridamomma]

D that's not ok if you aren't ok with it. Moms get really excited though

 

[Hope39]

Squig based on what Pip has just said I would call them Monday to see about starting back on the clexane immediately , I wouldn't wait till Thursday hun x

 

[DSemcho]

Getting excited is one thing, but telling people I was told I wouldn't be able to carry a baby and that I've had several miscarriages,when I haven't even posted those things, is way inappropriate. Idk how to approach her.

 

[Tasha]

Yep I agree with Hope and its what I've been trying to say. I honestly feel like Clexane would of made the difference with RR. When it's such early onset it needs to be done asap x

 

[floridamomma]

D my mil and mom have both done it at the total wrong times. I confronted them once both didn't understand why I was upset so I just don't tell them

 

[Squig34]

Ok thanks for that advice - it's good to hear such a positive success story Petitpas, thanks. I started aspirin today so I'll ring about the Clexane on Monday. I still have some from previous pregnancies so I won't even have to wait to get a prescription once they give the go ahead!

Florida, no doc on call, I just figured I'd start the aspirin since I had it, I don't think it'll hurt & it might make all the difference.

D, sounds like you need to have a stern word with your mum

 

[DSemcho]

This is what I sent to her on FB.

'Listen, I love you and I know your excited. But I need you to take the comment off of the ultrasound pics on your FB about my fertility issues and how many miscarriages I've had. I haven't even posted about it on my personal FB and I don't feel it's right that you put something of mine that's so personal on your FB. Instead of giving details you could have just said, 'she's has problems in this area.' But I realllllly do not like that you put something so extremely personal and emotional for me on your Facebook.'




I told my sister I'm pretty sure she's gonna flip and say something like she'll stay out of my pregnancy or something. Back when I married my ex, she flipped because my maid of honour bought her own $150 dress. And I told my mom as long as my sister wore a black dress I didn't care what kind it was. She took the David's bridal magazine with the pic of my MoH's dress and scribbled across it saying she wasn't coming to my wedding because I wanted my 6 month pregnant sister to wear a black dress in June. I told her fine don't come lol

 

[wookie130]

D, I don't think she was thinking when she posted that...it seems like she was just sort of living in the moment, and not putting a lot of thought into how personal the info was that she was sharing without your consent. That doesn't make it okay, of course, but I would just tell her that you would appreciate her not posting such personal information on her FB...if it's something YOU YOURSELF have not shared with others, it is certainly not her place to do so.

Squig, I am still praying like crazy for you and your LO. I so much want your baby to pull through...thank goodness for ladies like Tasha and Pip, who have direct experience with these issues, and can share their knowledge that could possibly help you in this situation.

 

[Hope39]

Squig if you have clexane at home already then I would start immediately, if your consultant tells you to stop on Monday (or you don't even have to tell her you've taken it) then you've only taken it twice which I don't think would do any harm to the baby whatsoever, if anything it seems it would help you based on Tasha and pip experience

Time is of the essence with little squiglet

I hope you've had your feet up so far all weekend xx

 

[Ummi2boyz]

Squig: I would say the same as Hope. 2 days can't hurt, but on the other hand it could help (check the use by date though, just in case).
My own doctor had growth restriction issue in all her pregnancy, she lost one when only on aspirin, but the other ones were successful with aspirin and clexane combined.
On the other hand, a friend of mine had the same problem, and baby and mum were fine afterwards with just aspirin.
Hth.