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[Mom2mmcjg]

Davies & Florida, So happy for you! Congratulations on great scans!

FiFi- Welcome, congrats on your pregnancy!

Charmer- Where are you girl? Is everything okay?

Can't wait to hear about more scans!

 

[heart tree]

Yes, where is Charmer? We haven't heard from her in a while. I also hope everything is ok.

I posted pics of the flannel blanket I made yesterday in my journal. Take a look at https://www.babyandbump.com/pregnan...-blooming-after-4-losses-12.html#post16067919

 

[hopeful23456]

congrats and welcome fifi!

awesome scan pic florida, congrats!!!! I'm willing to bet, just based on the hearbeat old wives tale, that your baby b is a girl.

my 2 usually have the same or very similar heartbeats so the old wives tale didn't apply there.

heart - i LOVE your blankets!

 

[heart tree]

Speaking of wives tales, every single one of mine was correct (unless they tell me on Monday they were wrong and it's a boy).

The pee in the baking soda said girl. The needle trick said girl. The hb was always over 150 - girl. The Chinese prediction calendar said girl. And my acupuncturist said my pulse was caused by a girl. Interesting, eh?

 

[filipenko32]

Bumps so pleased that your mw appt went well or more to the point that you made it! I think i would have had wet paperwork from blubbing so much! x x

 

[Mon_n_john]

Florida congrats on the scan! A boy, how cute!!!

 

[heart tree]

Mon, you're reaching the end! How are you feeling?

 

[FloridaGirl21]

Thanks ladies.. I'm so happy right now.. We were hoping for at least one boy, so we're on The scan tech told us the HB's first, and I said I wonder if Baby A is a boy because of the slower HB & she was quick to say that it's just a myth.. But he ended up being a boy! I do have a feeling Baby B is a girl.. I hope so anyway cause this is it for us.. Would be nice to have one of each

 

[FloridaGirl21]

oh and Embo, they haven't told me yet.. They are in separate sacs, but apparently there is still a chance they could be identical.. But I think they are fraternal. Forgot to ask about how to find out for sure today.. Will have to ask at my next U/S

 

[ttclou25]

Florida - congrats so good to hear both bubs are doing so well - yay a boy!!! Xxx

 

[heart tree]

Lou, every time I see your name pop up I'm hoping it's because you are going to tell us you are having contractions! LOL! Come on baby! We need a new addition to the family!

 

[heart tree]

Croy, I see you lurking. Is your final done? I hope so! Now just 4 more hours until you see your baby!!!

 

[3xscharmer]

No heartbeat, measuring 8 weeks. D&C set for tomorrow going to have another ultrasound done before just so I can't torcher myself with what if. Thank you ladies so much for your support during this difficult time and I will be taking a break from b&b for a few weeks so I will not be on to see your condolences but I thank you for them anyway. My midwife has referred me to a neonatal fetal maternal specialist of some sort who actually takes my insurance instead of an RE who doesn't so most of my testing should be paid for. I am having this baby tested too. I really hope you ladies will let me pull a fili and allow me to come back in a few weeks to update my results and to ask questions about this or that when it comes to the testing as you guys seem to have so much info.

As far as me and DH, instead of leaving we had a 4-5 hour conversation and I just basically felt like my thoughts, feelings and opinions didn't matter to DH and I was being ingnored and ignoring my feelings on the porn was just the last straw. Of course DH had no idea I felt this way and was really sorry that he'd been taking me for granted and has promised to start including me and my opionions in his life...which is when he agreed to see an RE if necessary (good thing too) These past couple of days were great, DH has been spending more time with me and Olivia and he's making a real effort, even agreeing to use his money he's had saved up for testing!

Thank you ladies so much for all the advice and support.

 

[heart tree]

Oh god sweetie, I'm not sure if you'll read this but I'm absolutely devastated for you. I'm glad your husband is being more of a support to you, but I know nothing will ease this pain. You are most welcome to come back and ask questions any time. My heart is with you right now honey.

 

[Embo78]

I'm so sorry charmer

 

[puppycat]

Oh 3x i'm so sorry. That's so hard

 

[ttclou25]

3x I'm so so sorry to hear your news, I hope you and OH can get through this together. My heart really goes out to you hun. I do hope you find out what's happening with the testing xxxxx

 

[daviess3]

Charmer I'm so sorry I am thinking of you an ur family xxx

Am pleased you sorted things with hubby an he's there to support you, an please come back when you feel ready we love being able to support each other in good times an bad xx
Massive hugs x

 

[jenny25]

I'm so sorry charmer if there is anything I can do let me know xxx

 

[croydongirl]

Charmer - I can't believe it. I really truly can't. I am so very sorry for your loss. I know that words are not able to make this any easier for you but you are in my thoughts and prayers. I hope you will come back in a little while and let us know how you are doing and if they find anything with the testing. I am so glad that you are your husband were able to figure things out so you can be there for each other in the hard days ahead.

Heart - yes, I was lurking. Final went great. Just have the paper one to go and take on Tuesday and I am done! So excited. Starting to get really anxious about my scan. I am excited about it but I think the reality that it might uncover something scary is on my mind too. I guess I will know one way or another in just a few hours. Why is time going by so slowly????