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[daviess3]

Haha Croy! Love griffin! I like sunny Riley frankie for boys or Isla arianna Matilda darcey for girls hubby is fuss pot?! We gotta start looking! Had worsed night sleep ever hubby snoring an Practically pushing me out bed! When I tell him coz he was tired he gets all shitty with me! So I throw a strop get up sn go downstairs where my st Bernard is snoring! I sleep on sofa which I love but whilst pg compared to my memory foam bed is soooo uncomfy! Then need a wee so come back up at 430 kick hubby out by now backs killing! Just had worsed ligament pain when I coughed! Soooo tired an hVe work soon! Men can b so selfish. Not talking today! Lol!

Lou any news that's y I popped in pls b today ? Thinking of you my lovely. X

Pip thanks hun defo will ask x

Mrs m thank you for info how r u? X

Morning ladies x

 

[heart tree]

Morning Davies! It's still night for me. Thought I'd check in as my mom just went to bed. You need to kick your husband to the couch tonight! You should get the bed! How is your tooth feeling? Love all your names!

Love yours too Croy. We haven't thought of many and are keeping them a secret.

Glad you had such a relaxing time Croy. I want to do something like that before baby is born.

Hopeful how are you feeling? I hope better.

Mom2 good luck with your scan tomorrow. Same for you Just!

Lou, I hope you are snuggling with your boy!!! Can't wait for the update!

I also can't wait for my scan tomorrow. They'll do proper measurements. I hope all is well and I hope she's still a girl! My scan is at 1pm.

Missing my hubby. He's back in London after being in Paris. He told me he's not going to travel again without me. He misses me a lot. What a sweetie. Can't wait for his hugs again. Having a great time with my mom though!

Hi to everyone else. Fili have a great trip!

 

[Grapey]

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I went for my dating scan on Friday and was told that there was no baby or fetal pole so i must have lost it during my bleed at 6 weeks. I went for a scan during the bleed which saw a heart beat so I assumed everything was ok. At my dating scan directly after giving me the bad news i was told that there was a gestational sac measuring at about 5 weeks and it contained a yolk sac so i could be pregnant again. Is this possible and has it happened to anyone else, I feel so lost and cant stand the not knowing. I am due for a scan in 10 days to see what is happening and see if im pregnant.

 

[daviess3]

Grapey it's not happened to me personally hun, but anythingd possible good luck my lovely xx

Heart ah hubbys on our side of pond! Bless him I can send u mine he's available for nighttime cuddles but comes with a warning sticker that he snores like a fog horn!! Lol!

Ah I hope Lou is having snuggles like you said! Good luck at ur scan not that u need it will be lovely having ur mum with u! Mine wants to come to my next one do she can find out the sex!! I was like er no!! Don't think so mrs! X

 

[jenny25]

Aww grapy this ain't happened too me personally Hun sorry xx


Well finally got the balls and started a pregnancy journal going took me long enough lol xx

 

[Grapey]

my profile pic is my 6 week 4 day scan and then at my 12 week scan there was no fetal pole but there was a 5 week gestational sac and yolk sac does this mean im pregnant again or that i didnt miscarry fully

 

[x_Rainbow_x]

morning ladies how r u all?

xx

 

[petitpas]

Grapey, unfortunately both options are possible: either you didn't miscarry properly (babies can, ahem, shrink after they stop growing) or you are newly pregnant. I really hope it is the latter! Did they mention anything about the shape of the sac? I don't want to give you false hope but if all was normal looking (for a 5-weeker) then that is a promising sign.

Big hugs and lots of strength during the waiting time

 

[petitpas]

Mrs M, thank you for the advice! I was wondering when I could go again myself. I remember my reflexologist telling me that she could help out towards the end of pregnancy. That would fit in with what you said.
In the past I have reacted quite strongly to my reflexology sessions. I found them especially useful when I had retained tissue. The lady stimulated my uterus and within hours I would start contracting, which was amazing and exactly what we wanted at the time but not something I would aim for at this point.

 

[ttclou25]

Morning - still here had the WORST night sleep ever, contractions every 10 minutes throughtout until I get up and they have gone Everytime i lie down they start but as soon as i sit up they go.

Looks like inducement 2moz if contractions don't start kicking off again - come on baby boy

Tracie - love the new pic

Grapey - so sorry to hear your news

Jenny - I found the pg journal really helpful, especially to look back on.

Davies - that was my name if Ethan was a girl I would have had Isla - its so pretty. DH snores loads too i bought him some snoring strips on ebay and they are proving to work!

Heart - yay to scan 2moz - bet you cant wait to check out that girly again! Hope time goes quick and DH gets home soon

Croydon - Elliot is cute, i found boys names tough to choose i had a long list of girls but a very short list for boys

Morning everyone else I cant remember much more what was said - hope everyone is well and blooming!

 

[jenny25]

Lou try to keep mobile it will help hot baths etc xxx

 

[petitpas]

Ah, Lou!
Methinks you need to lie down and watch some telly while your contractions pick up again
I'm going to have to investigate snoring strips, too. What is it with all these snoring hubbies?!

 

[bumpyplease]

morning everyone!

Oh Lou, i hope the contractions start progessing again soon, i know how much you want to finally meet your little man. I also know how much a home birth means to you so keeping my fingers crossed for you.

Grapey, i dont have any advice either really im sorry, but hoping that it is a new pregnancy!

tracie - cute pic!

love everyones names! Interested in how everyone revealed their pregnancies on facebook? I like the way of paying respect to our losses but not sure how to word it so if anyone wants to share how they did it then that would be great. No worries if ppl feel that its personal and dont want to share though!

booked my 12 week scan and screening today - its thursday 5th April just before easter, cant believe that is just over 2 weeks away!!!! exciting! got a scan on friday first though!

fili will probably be getting on the plane now lucky thing, hope she didnt get her bags searched! lol

hope everyone is good today, i love it when the sun is out!

 

[x_Rainbow_x]

Im with jen lou hot baths... i lost my plug after a hot bath and dilated very quickly after the heat from the bath in hospital

 

[x_Rainbow_x]

Thankx shes a cheeky little madam now. Not very well again. Teething so constantly chomping things and very irratated horrid to see but shes still high in spirits

 

[daviess3]

Gorgeous pic tracie!
Lou hope ur not in to much pain my cousin said the contractions were the worsed bit so hope the most painful bit is done!! I tried spray strips he's had a gum shield a machine with a mask! He has diagnosed with sleep apnoea!! The machine with mask is fab but he kept waking up feeling like he was bein suffocated!! So now were back to sleeping separately last night was a trial that didn't go well lol! Told him he gotta go doctors again!! Coz I want to have him in my bed I miss him! We cuddlevetc then I go to bed! Just doesn't feel right! X

 

[hopeful23456]

I'm super sick, was up all night coughing and checking temp

Do they have breathe right strips over there? They stopped my dh from snoring. Hard to keep them on the st Bernie though...

Tracie- super cute pic!

Lou- hope that little guy comes soon!

Grapey- i haven't had that happen, hope it's a new pregnancy. Have you had mc/s before this?

 

[bumpyplease]

sorry you are feeling rough hopeful, hope you are taking today off and putting your feet up? x

 

[heart tree]

Grapey, I’m so sorry honey. I haven’t had this happen, but like the others said, I’m rooting for you that it’s a new pregnancy. But it really could be either option. Only another scan will help you figure this out. It will be a long 10 days. Hang in there and take good care of yourself.

Lou, sounds like Tracie and Jen have been through this and a hot bath is the way to go! Come on Ethan! I’m so excited for you. Sorry the contractions happened all night.

I agree, Tracie that is a very cute new pic!

Hopeful, you poor thing. I’ve had 2 colds since I’ve been pregnant and it sucks. Are you taking anything? I didn’t. I just suffered through them. Just keep remembering that it will pass. Glad you are keeping an eye on your temp though..

Davies you can keep your hubby! LOL! Mine doesn’t snore ever. I’m lucky that way!

Jen, a pregnancy journal is a big step. I didn’t start mine until almost 19 weeks. So glad you did. I’ll go have a look.

Bumpy, I’m making my FB announcement after my scan today and plan to mention my losses. I’ll post what I wrote here after I post on FB. I already know exactly what I’m writing. Yay for your 12 week scan! I’ll update the front page!

Hi Pip! You gorgeous 3rd trimester lady, you!

I’ll be seeing my baby in less than 6 hours. Can’t wait! I’ll update when I can. Have a great day everyone. xoxo

 

[Grapey]

Grapey, unfortunately both options are possible: either you didn't miscarry properly (babies can, ahem, shrink after they stop growing) or you are newly pregnant. I really hope it is the latter! Did they mention anything about the shape of the sac? I don't want to give you false hope but if all was normal looking (for a 5-weeker) then that is a promising sign.

Big hugs and lots of strength during the waiting time

Thanks for you kind words and yes they said that i had a normal 5 week gestational sac with yolk sac and that they couldnt quite understand it because there was no fetal pole at all like there was in my first scan so there shouldnt be a yolk sac either after all this time so they think there is a possibility i had got pregnant again. Thank you for the glimmer of hope.xx