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Jen - sending pink thoughts your way! I bet that scan can't come soon enough for you!

Pup - you are looking great! i need to take another belly pic I keep forgetting. I want lots of proof for the time baby yells at me that he's sure he's adopted!!

Heart - glad to hear you have been keeping yourself busy, I wish I could do something to make the time pass more quickly for you. If only we all lived closer, we could pop round and keep you company!
Yes, we got the city mini. It is super easy to fold up. We got orange and grey because that was the one babies r us has on sale. I will be exploring the infant adapter thing you talked about. We are planning to borrow a car seat convertor from some friends which is the bar that the seat sits on.
The BOB is a jogging stroller, you should check them out online. They are much bigger, all terrain strollers. My hubs is a big runner so he can take the babe out with him and when I walk longer distances from our house to the parks and such, there are not a ton of sidewalks so its pretty bumpy. The little girl i nannied had the city mini which i loved for being out and about but when she was at my house for the day and we took walks it was not idea, she got bumped around and the I felt sorry for the poor stroller. But the BOB is bigger and not ideal for in stores or the mall or anywhere there are lots of people or smaller spaces where the city mini is perfect. I hate that we have two but there wasn't one that did everything we need. Hubby really needs a proper jogging stroller with a good stride length to be able to run.

I liked the arms reach co sleeper, but the bed frame we have would make it impossible for it to actually attach and I am scared about him getting stuck. I think we are going to try this out for a night before the baby and see if it could work. https://www.toysrus.com/product/index.jsp?productId=11525629 It's called the snuggle nest. You can get an extra piece which has them sleep at an angle, plus we can travel with it, and when it is time to transfer him to his real crib, we can use that in there at first to help him adjust. As long as we can all fit in the bed, its sounds like a good idea on paper! ha ha

We also did some investigation into cloth diapers, and we have a local diaper service company which charge $20 a week for 100 diapers. So you don't have to even do any of the washing, you buy some of the diaper covers and then just keep your dirty diapers in a pail or something and each week they collect it and give you 100 new clean ones! A friend had suggested it for the first few months just to have one less thing to do when we are adjusting, but my hubs is telling me with all the time and effort to wash the diapers at home plus the water in all the laundry he thinks it wold be worth it just to use the service. I can't believe those words came out of his super frugal mouth! It feels like such a luxury and i always imagined doing my own, but this company use environmentally safe, mild cleaning products and detergent too, everything I would do without having to actually do it. We'll see but its on the table.

We are having a lazy day today. Hubs is still a little under the weather and I am just feeling lazy.
 
Mon I have no use for the progesterone. In fact I just realized they sent me double of what I need! I was wondering why it was so expensive! I'm going to try and return the extra bottle.

Pip, it's funny you should mention my subconscious. Actually I picked out everything I want to buy, but since this cervix thing, I'm too afraid to order anything. I told my husband yesterday that I can't even talk about name options. The worst part is that there are some good sales going on for some of the items I want to buy. I'll probably miss the sales and end up buying them at full price at the last minute. Funny how I was scared that I was going to carry her longer than 40 weeks and now I'm praying she stays in until 37 weeks.
 
Croy I think that nest looks good if you can all fit. Do you have a king bed? There is no way we'd be able to do that with our queen.

Ok I don't think I need the big jogger. We have sidewalks everywhere and neither of us jog. My knees are too bad. How tall is your hubby? That's my concern with most strollers. My hubby is 6'3" and I'm afraid he'll have to stoop over to push. I think the city mini is adjustable. Just wondering if your hubby took it for a test run.

That diaper service sounds awesome! Yay for hubby loosening the wallet. I have a feeling we'll be washing our own but I might look into a service just to see prices.

I hate typing on my phone but it's so much easier than a laptop when lying down. And you girls keep me entertained!
 
Heart- what got me past the worry of ordering stuff was a 90 day return policy... ;)

Croy- did you get the cherry palisades? It's on sale today, buy 2 pieces of furniture and get 50% off of one. The stuff I got qualifies too as its still babi italia brand but with my other discounts it wouldn't be saving more to get 50% off of 1 piece. You might be in the same boat? I am on bru email list and the email special came this morning

Now that I read it again, it says save 50% On the crib when you buy 2 or more furniture pieces...for Europa baby and Babi italia. The pic on it is the crib I'm getting and I love the neutral paint so that's what I'm painting ! No more green....
https://trus.imageg.net/graphics/me...=1964555&camp=CME:EM032512A%20BRU%20Superbuys
 
Thanks Hopeful, we saw the sale but we only wanted the crib and one dresser. BUT we got to use a 20% coupon on the crib and the dresser with drawers and cupboard is being discontinued so it was really reduced. Just hoping when we got to pick them up they don't stink! ha ha
The Europa is a gorgeous set too! And I love the colour in that picture, perfect for your babies! We are doing a classic Pooh bear theme so we are doing fairly neutral cream/light brown/light green and light blue. We are off to look at paint sample later, trying to find the non toxic paint that doesn't cost a fortune. Can't wait for us to start posting nursery pics!!!

Heart - hubs is 6 foot and he didn't have to stoop at all with either of the strollers. The CM is a good height, I don't think your hubby will struggle to push it comfortably. I totally understand where your fear to buy is coming from. i had moments yesterday where I thought to myself, 'we are going to be having one hell of a garage sale if this doesn't work out'. I am just desperate to get past 24 weeks. Not that I want any of our little ones to show up that early, but at least they would have some chance medically.
Thinking of you xx
 
Good point about the return policy Hopeful! Maybe I'll be brave and order some things today.

The neutral paint color is lovely and the nice thing is that you can add color with other things like a dust ruffle, art on the walls, curtains, etc.

I bought some cute fabric that matches one of the blankets I made. I framed some of the fabric to hang as art. I'll take a pic when I get up to pee. My mom is going to make a dust ruffle with the remaining fabric and I'm going to make a cover for the changing pad with some if it. Since we're in a rental, I don't want to paint. But luckily I love the color anyway. It's a sage green and I wanted to do a green room but in a subtle way.
 
Thanks Croy that's good to know about the stroller. I may have to order it online without test driving it if I'm confined to bed for the rest of the pregnancy. And there is no way my husband will walk into Babies R Us to test it by himself! He might have a panic attack! :rofl:
 
Heart- Can't wait for pics! Now your making me want green again... Lol ;) I have 2 rooms to paint as one is dark brown and the other dark brick red now and we want them both lighter, my mom and dh will paint. Maybe one green?

I'm so glad you can type, although it does suck typing on a phone, I do it most of the time and all the time on weekends. Probably why the touch screen got messed up on my old phone...

Croy- yeah! The dresser with the cupboard on the right didn't stink! Just that 6 drawer dresser stunk so I think you will be fine. Just have the crib out for a couple weeks. I don't think my crib smells anymore but it's still going back...
 
I have the Babystyle Oyster and hubs was fine with it on the extended setting. He's 6' 3"
 
I'm going to google that now Puppy. Thanks!

Here's a pic of the fabric art I did with a bit of the blanket below to see how they match. Obviously I haven't hung them yet. They'll be spaced apart on the wall a bit, but you get the idea.

https://i1234.photobucket.com/albums/ff419/ahartrey/57b6e821.jpg
 
Heart - I love that idea!! Those pics are great. I know she is going to love her room!
 
Omg I LOVE them heart!!!! I love the animals too.
Do you play angry birds? I'm not obsessed and hadnt played for a long time but dh plays and he got us angry birds space (its a newer one) Helps to keep busy playing that if you are into games at all :)
 
Framing fabric is a super cheap and cute way to make some art. Feel free to steal the idea!

I LOVE angry birds! I bought the space version the day it was released! It couldn't have come at a better time. I've been playing it quite a bit. I'm not into video games bt for some reason this one grabbed me. So fun. It helped me get through some of my losses too. A fertility life saver! Lol!
 
I totally think I am going to steal that idea! I want to do the classic pooh but I don't want to have to pay the high prices for the decor so I know I can do fabric like that. I made be trawling Joann's this afternoon.
 
Just another thought ladies: Amazon has a 365 day return policy and free return shipping on baby items. You can't go wrong! I have ordered a LOT of stuff off of Amazon.
 
Pups it looks like you can only get those strollers in the UK. It's ok, I love the one I picked. Thanks though!

Croy, I bought the fabric and the frames at JoAnns. The frames were on sale. I couldn't find regular frames that were square. I ended up getting shadow boxes and then cutting cardboard out of old boxes to wrap the fabric around. I just taped the fabric to the back of the cardboard. Super easy. They have a great selection of nursery fabrics. You don't need much. A yard or less depending on how big your frames are. If you can't find pooh fabric you like there you could always look online. I bet you'll find something cute.
 
Amanda your so talented xxx make me something ;-) xxx

Well I've just been feeling baby again it's like little flips it's doing so cool xxx
 
Good point Mon! I found my stroller on Amazon. I love that site! I'll look for some other items on there too.

Jen it's so cool that you are feeling the baby so early. I could feel mine exactly at 16 weeks but it was faint. Now it's unmistakeable. Love it! Haven't used the Doppler in a while since baby girl is always letting me know she's around.
 

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