PAL - August 2012 Rainbow babies!

[MrsMoo72]

Yeah that's what i thought - haven't had any pain or anything just that brown spotting last week. Assuming i'll need a erpc this time round...nice xmas present.

 

[filipenko32]

You don't necessarily need an erpc. I've had all three types now, natural, erpc and medical and by far the most pain free was the erpc. I should think you will misery naturally and in my honest opinion that was my best option even though it was a tad more painful than the erpc, it was like period pain. The medical was the most painful by far. If you start to cramp you may miscarry naturally anyway. I hope that's helpful and so sorry you're going through this x x x x x

 

[MrsMoo72]

Thanks fili. It was natural last time and started after i'd had the scan so hopefully the same will happen again. I've worked on the day surgery unit so don't really wanna go there as a patient.... I know it's not a nice thing to go through at any time of the year but at xmas - jeez gimme a break! Got parties etc to go to and most of family don't even know so i will have to put a happy face on when all i feel like doing is hiding in bed and crying.

Sorry for bringing the thread down guys. Good luck to everyone else xxx

 

[jd83]

I am so sorry MrsMoo, that is terrible news

 

[bizzy27]

I am so sorry to hear about your loss.

And you are not bringing down any thread. We are all here for eachother no matter what we are going through. I am truly sorry you are exp. this during the holidays and I hope that you remember you have lots of people praying for you and your family.

 

[struth]

Oh MrsMoo - I've only just logged on and seen this. I'm so so sorry honey You must be gutted. What a crap thing to happen and at this time of year too. Don't worry about bringing the thread down - we have all been there and are here to support each other through good times and bad. I wish I could change this for you honey

Are you still spotting or has it stopped?

 

[MrsMoo72]

Thanks struth, i haven't had any spotting since friday morning really. That's why i'm thinking it might not happen naturally.

Hope you have a better outcome hunny xxx

 

[struth]

Your hcg will tell you something - my mc I had spotting from 17dpo until 22dpo and then is stopped. I then found out I was having a mc (by the hcg reducing). It was really quite low (143) so I knew it wouldn't take too long. I started bleeding on 28dpo.

I hope you don't have long to wait honey x

 

[MrsMoo72]

I just don't get why my tests were getting darker and my nausea got stronger over the last week????!!!! That's just cruel!

 

[struth]

Hmmm - that does seem odd. Are they doing a follow up scan or are they just monitoring your hcg?

 

[MrsMoo72]

Hcg check again on friday then i guess we'll decide after that. Just don't know how i'm gonna get thru xmas....

 

[struth]

Oh honey - can you cancel some of the do's that you are supposed to go to? Or do you think they would be a good distraction?

 

[MrsMoo72]

Can't really, they are all family ones so there would be lots of questions asked. Will just have to tough it out. At least dh is abe to make the parties this yr so he will be a good help to me. And we will have ds with us so won't have to stay too late. It will be just when people are asking if we are trying again...

 

[struth]

Aw honey - what an awful situation. I really feel for you and wish I could change this. When will you get your Friday hcg results? Will you get them on Friday?

 

[MrsMoo72]

She said we should know what's going on by friday night. Obvs everything will be closed for 4 days over bank hol so i hope they tell me before. I know it's over anyway if there wasn't even a gest sac or anything.

 

[struth]

My heart goes out to you honey I wish I could change this for you

 

[bizzy27]

MrsMoo.. I am soo sorry ... if I had one wish it would be that all the ladies here on BnB would be able to have their forever babies.

My prayers are with you honey.

 

[StephBord]

I'm sorry MrsMoo.

 

[jd83]

Just spoke with my midwife's office, HCg levels went from 429 on Monday to 796 this morning, so things are looking okay for now. Still spotting, so don't know what is causing it, but at least numbers are still rising. She booked me a scan for next Friday to see how things are looking in there. Can't wait, I am still feeling so stressed about the spotting.

 

[NewbieLisette]

Moo honey I know I wrote on another thread but I just wanted to say again how very sorry am I and that i will be keeping you in my prayers! Do whatever you need to do to get through the days sweetie...I know it seems very dark and bleek right now...just believe in your heart it will get better...I hope you can get some answers and run some tests!