hi thanks for your replies, I feel slightly better today although my Angel Sounds doppler broke and the other is useless !
I have a scan tomorrow with my consultant so am gonna talk to her in detail, had a good chat with Noel and it was like talking to the cat, he just dont get it !
Anyway think im gonna have the bloods and amnio - I just cant afford the private scan at the min with going away and by the time we get paid I will be over the nuchal scan limit.
I think my consultant will have a good look anyway as she is the expert in this field (well meant to be ) so i shall just voice my concerns anyway.