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PAL Winter Babies 2010/11 - ** Waiting impatiently for our remaining babies! **

I'm so scared and devastated..

I went to the docs.. one baby died and there is a possiblity that as I misscarry, the other baby might come with it. I just don't know what to do... :cry: :hissy:
 
awww sweetheart - im sooo sooo sorry :hug: :hugs: :kiss: - hold on lil babba - mummy needs to to be strong :kiss:
 
I always thought it was a boy too! Although, let's face it, you do have a 50/50 chance of being right! :dohh: We clearly saw what the sonographer called a 'little frankfurter' too but he could have pointed at any appendage and we'd have believed him :haha: You have such faith in these people, but it is amazing what they see. Just like when they are looking at your placenta and highlighting stuff (mine is anterior and was low) but you can see diddly squat on the screen and they are busy highlighting and typing away. They must have regular trips to the optician :wacko:


Tulip - you made me laugh out loud!! Lucky you for having a pram to push, if i had one the tyres would be worn by now!! Thanks for the congrats re double figures - 99 still seems an awful long time tho, eh??

Aaaaand, i see you are the magic 24wks tom!! How cool!! :hugs:
 
W2B I'm so so sorry to hear this hun. Are they going to monitor you closely? I don't know what to say to reassure you but I will be hoping and praying that your baby stays strong and fights on. :hugs: xxx
 
I'm so scared and devastated..

I went to the docs.. one baby died and there is a possiblity that as I misscarry, the other baby might come with it. I just don't know what to do... :cry: :hissy:

OMG! I'm so sorry, sweetie! :cry: I still stalk this thread, and I'm absolutely gutted for you! Sending all sort of positive, healing energy for your remaining twin! Hoping with everything I have that s/he is able to hold on during this hard time! :hugs: :hugs: :hugs:
 
Oh my god, wish2bmama, that is just devastating. I am so so sorry.

Can they not do anything to help the poor little angel along without harming the other LO?

:hugs:
 
W2BM - I am so so sorry :hugs:

- a girl I know at work has a twin that has passed away at 9 weeks and the other is going strong ( she is now 20 weeks ) - so there is every chance that the remaining twin will hang in there.

Take care

hx
 
Oh my darling I am so sorry :cry: Hoping that your darling angel is reabsorbed safely into you to protect your little one. Thinking of you and sending hopes and prayers your way. Please rest up xxx
 
Thank you for the kind words ladies

Hb1, thank you for telling me about her. :hugs:

I really hope my body just resorbs the material.. the docs say there isn't anything they can do for me. Just to come back in if I start to bleed or cramp. But I have an apt with the high risk ob on the 3rd.

I can't stop crying.. DH's work gave him the day off. He is just gutted. He is so worried about our other baby. :cry:
 
My friend has a gorgeous little 2 yr old daughter and she was a twin where the other little one didn't make it. I have no idea how far along she was tho, but i'm sure she said firt tri. Incidentally - both of her girls were conceived with IVF too.

Sounds like you have no choice but to put your feet up, try to think positive thoughts and let people look after you. I'm so glad DH is with you, sounds like you both need lots of cuddles.

Thinking of you X
 
Just a very quick one as very tired from being away. The wedding was amazing and so was the honeymoon
Will post pics tomorow when i feel more awake.
I am 30 weeks today also only 10 to go really can't beleive it.
Have i missed any big news? x

W2B :hugs: on your loss and hope the other bubs hangs on x
 
Morning ladies, how are we doing today?

w2b :hug:

due - welcome back MRS! :)
 
Welcome back Mrs Due and congratulations :kiss:

Big news is.... Munchkin is viable today! :wohoo: And has established an additional waking time in the night to celebrate - 3.30am :cloud9:

Thinking of you and OH W2B. Please hold on, little one xxx
 
Congrats Tulip!!

Congrats Due1 - pics please!!

Wish2bmama - how are you feeling today? Sending you hugs and all the PMA in the world. X

Have a good day ladies!

Michelle X
 
it hot sticky tired and bored -- my usual lol - and ive become the crazy lady that feeds stray cats . .
 
Stray cats?? hehehe! My hubbie rescued a baby turtle today who was stuck - he thinks he is Dr Dolittle now! Maybe it's a nesting thing?

Need a mini rant - SIL!!! Grrrrrrrrr! Their world REVOLVES around their LO and i know that our worlds will all revolve our around our babies to some extent, but they let it rule them and sorry, but it is bull***t!! Can you tell i am angry?:blush:

Just chatting online to her and mentioned xmas as i was wondering if she still had a monitor we could borrow (in W.Indies the voltage is same as US so ours won't work in UK) and i mentioned that we will be going to both sets of grandparents over xmas. Bear in mind - we do this every year, plus this year we are living abroad AND will have their precious grandson, so we want to do the rounds. She laughed at my comment and then wrote 'Just be prepared to alter plans just incase little one doesn't feel like it or has a bad day...'

WTF?!! Sorry for being so angry, but i could scream and am alone.

I wrote back saying he will be a tiny baby so asleep most of the time and we expect him to cry. How can a 7 week old 'not feel like' doing anything??!! Come on!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! If he has a bad night and we are tired then we will just delay plans by an hour or two, we will not suddenly be missing our flights cos baby is crying.

God, please give me strength!!! He will be my angel - but even i know that he will cry, feed, poop, sleep, cry, feed,poop.....

their 4 yr old GENUINELY picked their new car for them. Nutters.

Ok, sorry ladies, am counting to 10 and considering a choccie bar :blush:
 
ur SIL sounds daft - its not like we're idiots, we know that babies cry n winge, n poop n get u up thru the night hahha but ur baby will b fine to travel hhaha

theres a litter of kittens that are really tiny and starving and i cant not feed them - even tho they are now bringing their friends! but i cant listen to them crying for food!
 
aw, we had some stray kittens at our apartments a few weeks ago and they melted my heart but luckily they were too shy to come anywhere near us and mum was on the scene to keep them fed. What are yu feeding them?

Re SIL - i hate the fact that all parents are soooo smug about how hard it's gonna be for new parents - even if you say 'oh yes, we know it's gonna be so hard but we'll survive like everyone else does' they still think they can laugh and look at you as if you are thick.

Jeez, i need that choccie now!! Must have to count to a 1000 cos 10 is not working
 

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