paranoid :(

[welshmummy2be]

since having 2 miscarrigs im finding myself very paranoid. i have to wear white/ light coloured undies so that i wont miss any posibble spotting or discharge, when i go to the loo i wipe check and wipe again and check again to make sure, im constantly checking everything for signs of another miscarriage, im nearing the date where i had my last miscarriage and this is making me worse im driving myelf crazy...constant checking is making me ill any one else feel the same?? all i want to do is cry because im so scared of losing agiain

 

[meow951]

I'm feeling like this too!

Last time i was really really ill with sickness and migraines. I'm not feeling sick yet, probably because i'm too early, but i keep thinking that i haven't got enough symptoms.

I'm convinced i'm going to have another missed miscarriage and the thought that i have to wait until the end of October to be told that my baby has died or is ok is horrible.

I have anxiety anyway, but it's making me feel a lot worse. I'm trying to be chilled for babies sake but it's so hard.

I find it quite hard in 1st tri as well as there is a lot of threads of people leaving due to people worrying about mc and i find it quite upsetting because it is a real issue and we can't help losing our babies.

 

[mislaww]

Awww, Welsh and Meow - please take care of yourselves. I know how you're feeling - that's how I felt the first couple months. It's truly awful. Try to relax, if you can...get a massage, get your hubby or friends to take care of you, watch a funny movie....whatever you can to do to get your mind off of it and yourself calm. The stress isn't good for you! But it is completely normal. And you'll be okay.

Hang in there and hold on to hope. A few weeks and you'll be out of the woods...

Good luck and hugs to you both!

 

[hb1]

Getting past your previous mc point takes forever and the 12 week scan

Stay strong ladies

hx

 

[welshmummy2be]

thanks girls, i keep telling myself to calm down that every pregnancy is different and that what happens will happen no matter what...but im so desperate for a baby and having two losses (and even with the one in my previous preg i was the same) just makes me more desperate. i think im going to book a scan at epu at 9 for late next week as this will be past the date of my last mc. supposse it dont help that its human instinct to protect yourself in any way you can and there fore im preventing myself from accepting this pregnancy and enjoying it to the full because im so worried it will be snatched away from me

 

[mislaww]

I know what you mean - until we passed the point of our loss last time, we referred to it as "a mass of cells", never a baby or even fetus. We made absolutely no plans and weren't excited at all. It was what we had to do to get through it! But you'll get there. Don't worry.