Sorry, this is probably gonna sound more like a rant than anything but... How are you guys finding people are reacting to your fantastic news that you're pregnant? I told people at work due to various reasons and although everyone knows me and my OH have been together a long time (6ys in Dec), they are all completely and utterly shocked to hear that I'm pregnant and I'm getting sick of that horrible silence after I've told them and then I have to say "don't worry, it was planned" before anyone shows any kind of happiness for us! It's kinda getting me down in a way because all my friends when I was at school used to call me the most un maternal person who hates kids... when in fact I love kids I just hate spoilt brats - there's a difference! Just makes me feel like maybe everyone else sees me and thinks that too I just can't help but think why is it so hard for everyone to believe that I could actually want children of my own?? Sorry, rant over!