LynAnne
Mum to 2 Boys
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I've been waiting for DH to agree to start TTC for almost two years now and whilst we're probably a long way from actually setting any sort of date we had a bit of a chat tonight. For the first time he admitted that he still feels like a child himself and worries that he won't be any good as a dad. I thought that he felt this way but he'd never actually said it out loud before. For the record, I'm positive he'll be an amazing dad. I know he is just scared. He's also a bit worried about money when it comes to having a baby so he's going to see if he can negotiate a pay rise in the new year. He works with his dad so it can be a bit hit or miss there!
I still have no idea when we'll actually start TTC, baby fever is still at an all time high and I know we haven't actually sorted anything out but I feel like we made a little bit of progress tonight. He finally spoke to me about how he feels instead of just brushing me off with the usual "not yet" response. Maybe we will be able to start trying sometime in 2015. Who know? I've got my fingers crossed.
I still have no idea when we'll actually start TTC, baby fever is still at an all time high and I know we haven't actually sorted anything out but I feel like we made a little bit of progress tonight. He finally spoke to me about how he feels instead of just brushing me off with the usual "not yet" response. Maybe we will be able to start trying sometime in 2015. Who know? I've got my fingers crossed.