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[silvershadow]

Hi guys, I'm feeling so low at the moment. Like i'm a big fat failure because i cant even seem to come on! (for those of you who havent seen my previous posts its been 11months since my last AF) I'm reading on here about all these ladys who are proactively going about TTC, whereas all i can do is sit here and wait. I'm not the most patient of people, but this is taking the mick! I mean I'm young and healthy but my Dr's have warned me that it could just be my body and they may not be able to do anything. I feel like a failure. My o/h is a supportive guy, but i cant help but beat myself up over it. Will it ever happen? Will my body ever figure out what it is supposed to do.

some days i feel like giving up and throwing the towel in, and others i sit there longing for it to happen. *sighs*

 

[Freakycactus]

 

[Want2bMum]

Hi hun,

i'm so sorry! I know it's frustrating when AF doesn't show, 11 months is a lot! have you tried with herbal medicine or acupuncture? Or even just yoga and massage. I found out that my missing periods always coincide with periods of high stress, so my body does not ovulate. sometime even worrying about it can add stress. I usually try to calm down, as far as it's possible of course and I know that it is much easier said than done. If you think maybe some stress can be the case, I usually do: hot baths with scented oils, take time off work and of course cinema and friends.... try to find something that can work for you and also consider herbal medicine, sometimes it can be more powerful than traditional one.
hope this helps
good luck