Sammyrose334
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Hi, ladies. So my boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half and we talked about trying for a baby. Well he’s a smoker of 20+ years & I have asthma and absolutely hate smoking more than anything. So we talked and I explained to him how I felt and how I did not want to have a baby with someone who smokes. He reassured me over and over again that he would quit smoking as soon as he seen a positive test. He promised me over and over again that he would quit smoking cold turkey because “a baby changes everything”
Well here we are 6 weeks pregnant and I’ve already found him lying and hiding cigarettes and smoking behind my back twice. I don’t know where to go from here. I feel lost and broken over this and he calls me crazy and says it’s the pregnancy hormones making me act coo coo. He says he doesn’t care about how I feel or lying to me since it’s over smoking. But this is why I told him so many times before we even started trying how I felt about smoking! This isn’t right for me and I don’t deserve this! But he doesn’t see it that way and says I’m taking this way out of hand! I don’t know where to go from here and could really use some advice please. I feel so lost, hurt and broken on the inside. I constantly sit here and think is he smoking, is he lying to me about smoking, I just don’t know what to do.
Well here we are 6 weeks pregnant and I’ve already found him lying and hiding cigarettes and smoking behind my back twice. I don’t know where to go from here. I feel lost and broken over this and he calls me crazy and says it’s the pregnancy hormones making me act coo coo. He says he doesn’t care about how I feel or lying to me since it’s over smoking. But this is why I told him so many times before we even started trying how I felt about smoking! This isn’t right for me and I don’t deserve this! But he doesn’t see it that way and says I’m taking this way out of hand! I don’t know where to go from here and could really use some advice please. I feel so lost, hurt and broken on the inside. I constantly sit here and think is he smoking, is he lying to me about smoking, I just don’t know what to do.