KayeChay
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So this week alone (it's only Thursday too!) I have went to two baby showers and today is my BFF daughters birthday and her party is this Saturday. I went to the store today to buy her daughter a gift and I started crying in the aisle! I had to leave the store. It's starting to get to me..
I work with 3 girls (one just went on maternity leave) that are pregnant! THREE GIRLS! All younger than me too! I know I should be happy for these girls but how can I? When one girl said she couldn't afford condoms or BC so they were using the "pull out method" (you know, since having a baby is WAAAAAY more cheaper. SMH). Another girl still lives with her parents and her boyfriend lives there too (because they can't afford to live on their own) and yes, they WERE planning on having a baby. And the other girl, her boyfriend just left her (which, I feel sorry for her).
I'm sick and tired of going to these baby showers, these birthday parties. I'm tired of being "Aunt Karen" (I'm blessed to be an "Aunt" My friends all call me that for their children btw). I'm so SICK of seeing these irresponsible people having babies!
Some girls REALLY just don't understand the struggles some women have. The pain we have to go through. The sadness. The happiness we have to pull through for our friends. It sucks to see both my best friends have beautiful babies.. twice. With no problems!
It sucks for people to ask "So when are YOU going to have kids?"
And the whole "It'll happen when the time is right" is a total bull.. I really really hate THAT SENTENCE!
Sometimes I feel like I am the only one that's struggling but then a few girls I know were struggling, so I'm like "Well at least I'm not the only one" but then the next week BAM! they are pregnant. So yeah.. maybe I AM the only one.
I'm starting to think I'll never have children of my own.
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I'm going to the doctors on the 20th. the last time I went there I told her that DH and I are TTC. She said that she couldn't do anything until a year. I told her that I won't have my period because I am sooooo irregular. She still said she couldn't do anything and that you can still get pregnant without periods. HMMM it's been exactly 310 days since my last period. I swear if she doesn't do anything I WILL GO OFF ON HER!
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Thank you for reading. God Bless.
I work with 3 girls (one just went on maternity leave) that are pregnant! THREE GIRLS! All younger than me too! I know I should be happy for these girls but how can I? When one girl said she couldn't afford condoms or BC so they were using the "pull out method" (you know, since having a baby is WAAAAAY more cheaper. SMH). Another girl still lives with her parents and her boyfriend lives there too (because they can't afford to live on their own) and yes, they WERE planning on having a baby. And the other girl, her boyfriend just left her (which, I feel sorry for her).
I'm sick and tired of going to these baby showers, these birthday parties. I'm tired of being "Aunt Karen" (I'm blessed to be an "Aunt" My friends all call me that for their children btw). I'm so SICK of seeing these irresponsible people having babies!
Some girls REALLY just don't understand the struggles some women have. The pain we have to go through. The sadness. The happiness we have to pull through for our friends. It sucks to see both my best friends have beautiful babies.. twice. With no problems!
It sucks for people to ask "So when are YOU going to have kids?"
And the whole "It'll happen when the time is right" is a total bull.. I really really hate THAT SENTENCE!
Sometimes I feel like I am the only one that's struggling but then a few girls I know were struggling, so I'm like "Well at least I'm not the only one" but then the next week BAM! they are pregnant. So yeah.. maybe I AM the only one.
I'm starting to think I'll never have children of my own.
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I'm going to the doctors on the 20th. the last time I went there I told her that DH and I are TTC. She said that she couldn't do anything until a year. I told her that I won't have my period because I am sooooo irregular. She still said she couldn't do anything and that you can still get pregnant without periods. HMMM it's been exactly 310 days since my last period. I swear if she doesn't do anything I WILL GO OFF ON HER!
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Thank you for reading. God Bless.