pls help

[havefaith01]

I just suffered the loss of my baby. I was 10 weeks but the baby stopped growing at 9. I am Heartbroken. I had to have A d&c. My hubby and I decided we wanted to try again right away. I only bleed one day...the day of my d&c. Anyone get pregnant before first af?

 

[sweetB]

I am so sorry for your loss. I can totally relate, and it is devastating. I know how it feels to want to hurry up an try again- when it happened to me, I felt like I'd lost a lot of time I invested into the pregnancy and then I felt behind somehow! There are, however, a few reasons you may want to wait until after you have your first af to try again.

No matter what you decide, you may want to check out this website: https://www.pregnancyloss.info/waitingforaf.htm It really helped me to know what I might expect for my first af- because I had no clue when or how much blood might be on the way. It turned out to be not that bad, and my next cycle was more regular than it has ever been before (28 days, O'd on day 15- that's never happened before!). Anyway-wishing you the best of luck in this journey!

 

[InTheVerse]

I just suffered the loss of my baby. I was 10 weeks but the baby stopped growing at 9. I am Heartbroken. I had to have A d&c. My hubby and I decided we wanted to try again right away. I only bleed one day...the day of my d&c. Anyone get pregnant before first af?

I'm so sorry for your loss, it's so very shocking and heartbreaking. I didn't ttc yet (AF just arriving) but when I was pursuing all the forums I saw several who did with BFPs. For dating and to ensure my miscarriage was complete, the doctor advised me to wait for my first period but if i'd been ready I would have ttc. I did see it written somewhere something that resonated with me 'if you conceive then your body was ready for it.'

 

[AngelOb]

I'm sorry for your loss. I accidentally got pregnant before my first AF after D&C and it ended up being a chemical, I don't know if that's because my lining wasn't built up enough or my body wasn't ready. I would wait the first cycle before trying and listen to the doctors. I know a lot of people say its ok and the only reason to wait would be for dating purposes but I firmly believe in giving yourself a cycle to heal.

Whatever you decide to do I wish you the best of luck. Hope you get your sticky rainbow soon.