Hi all, I have a 4 year old and an 8 month old. Iv always had a lazy side to me but I always looked after myself and was an out door type person I love horses and being on the yard. When I had my first everything was fine apart from low my sex drive and it never came back. Now after my son all I want to do is sit on the sofa with a brew, I can't be bothered to clean tidy get dressed go out etc. I just can't be bothered. It was 13:30 before I even got the kids dressed. I don't feel like hurting anyone or I don't cry all the time I just simply can't be bothered to do anything. I just felt so guilty as baby is in bed and my daughter wanted to play a game but I turned her down for a brew on the sofa. I work full time. I have an appointment with docs Tomorrow but do you think I have just become lazy or somthing more? X