PND Support Thread

[Jkelmum]

Snetty hope Jake gets better soon xxx

 

[elm]

everyone xxx

Carolyn - I found meds really helpful even though the first lot I was prescribed made me ill. I'm finding now though that I don't want to be on them because I don't know how I'm actually feeling (what's down to the tablets and what's because I'm dealing things better that sort of thing if that makes sense?!).

charliebear - you've posted here and it seems like that was a big step for you be proud of that and give yourself time. I was reading that loads of women are scared to tell anyone because they think that someone will take their baby off them. It's really difficult but you'll get there, we're all here to help you if you need us x

Hi dippy dee sorry you're here too xxx

well done serina - you've done soooooooo well today x

Hope Jack is better soon snettyb x

Hello everyone else - hope you're all ok x

 

[ALY]

Snetty am soooo glad jack is feeling a bit better x

 

[charliebear]

Thanks everyone.
I can see myself in so many of the posts you have written. Massive to everyone.

I've made a list of how I'm feeling, so I can take it to the Dr's, going to go sometime this week. (I dont chat about feelings and stuff - this is even new for me!)
I'm soo nervous, what do I say?? What if I word it wrong??

 

[Rach276]

Does anyone else OH not understand?

 

[ALY]

Charlie bear xx
I wasnt very good at saying how i feel x
if you have made a list why dont you give him that and then he will ask you some questions
If you dont want to do that then am sure you will be fine even if you start crying like i did x
just tell him how your feeling
good luck hun

 

[charliebear]

charliebear - you've posted here and it seems like that was a big step for you be proud of that and give yourself time. I was reading that loads of women are scared to tell anyone because they think that someone will take their baby off them. It's really difficult but you'll get there, we're all here to help you if you need us x

I've read that too, but I'm soo scared I love my baby to bits.
I'm worried that I'll word everything wrong.. x

 

[ALY]

Does anyone else OH not understand?

Yeah my hubby doesnt understand he says he does but he doesnt cos of the stupid remarks he makes
how you feeling hun xx

 

[charliebear]

Does anyone else OH not understand?

I havent even told mine!
He's the suck it up and get on with it type. I'm going to try and talk to him tonight when he gets in.

Thank you all, I'm sitting here your helping sooo soo much x

 

[Rach276]

Low. I was feeling ok ish for a while. Im sick of having to justify the fact im feeling down to OH. its not my fault. I just want to feel myself again.

 

[ALY]

Rach karl is the same wen im having a bad day he will keep asking me wats wrong and sometimes i dont no y i feel down i just do if that makes sence

Clairbear talk to your oh he might surprise you

 

[Rach276]

Exactly. Its making the relastionship so strained. I think hes geting abit sick of it all. Like he thinks im being abit of a drama queen

 

[ALY]

Hun we are the same
can you make time for each other without little one i find that if we do that once a month then our relationship is still getting some effort if that makes sence
we dont go out everytime sometimes we sit and watch a dvd or just sit and talk to each other about stupid things

 

[Rach276]

Thats a good idea thanks hun. i dont want to lose him

 

[ALY]

Thats a good idea thanks hun. i dont want to lose him

It does take time and effort hun but it does get easier

 

[Rach276]

Thanks hun
How are you ? x

 

[ALY]

for the last few days iv been feeling fine x
i have ahd a few small things to deal with over them few days but for some reason iv been able to deal with them with out getting myself all worked up x

 

[lillysmum]

hugs to everyone who needs them

 

[ALY]

Hiya lillysmum how are you feeling hun xxx

 

[Rach276]

Thats great Aly! X