Porn

Me and my OH have a very honest relationship, And he knows i am not okay with him watching porn behind my back, if he really wants to watch porn the only thing i ask is we watch it together, I dont watch porn without him so i dont think its okay for him to do that to me.

Not that its a big deal he isnt big into porn and never had been, he would rather have sex then watch porn and touch himself. And our sex life isnt lacking even if im uncomfortable there is other ways of pleasing him then intercourse.
 
Boys will be boys wont they! lol! I had been feeling very insecure myself thinking other half wasnt interested in me anymore. used to have very wild imaginations but since my bump arrived it has all been abit dull for him (thats how i feel anyway) OH has just gone for a new look also so is looking sexier than ever right now! It made me feel really insecure because i already know about so many girls that have wanted him while hes been with me! But i spoke to him about it and he reasured me that he feel the same about me, hes worried that hell lose me too! And also mentioned how im soooo emotional now im pregnant lol He suggested to treat me to some retail therapy (: which i wont say no tooo! And weve also been bk in the bedroom with not sex but lots of foreplay which can sometimes be just as satisfying! Feeling soooooo much better right now! Trust me things will get better! xx:hugs:
 
gosh i can soo relate..i swear, i found out years ago bout my bf and porn and i still feel low about it:/...honestly im a b**** when it comes to guys and this subject if i were u i would look at guy porn on the net and "accidently" leave it on for him to see lol, but thats just me:)..but hey what makes me feel better is knowing that them girls the guys are watching are just fake!im 99% sure all of them get boob jobs, lipo, edit videos. fake tan and all that stuff, just picture her without the fake stuff, then shes nothing but a s***:)
 
Weeell girlies i spoke to him!

And it was amazing, i'm not really an open emotional kinda person and i find it difficult to talk to anybody [except you lot obviously but thats because you're not real anyways :haha:] and we spoke for aaages and he completely reassured me that it was me he wanted and that porn for him was just a release when we weren't having sex.
Tbh i knew it all already but to hear it from his mouth just made me feel 100% better. I can seriously recommend talking!
We came to the conclusion the thing i didn't like was the fact that porn had become a dirty secretive thing between us because he didn't want to upset me in my over emotional state and i didn't want to talk because, well, because i'm a weirdo!
Aaand we even had sex :shock: he didn't know what had hit him but i think i can finally say my sex drive has come back with a vengence! :blush:

Just thought i'd let you all know what was happening in my private and sex life :haha: and thank you all for your amazing comments..xx
 

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