positive opk @ 8dpo...HELP!!!

[mommapowers32]

Morning ladies. Yesterday was a busy day for me, so I didn't get to get online until night time.. I was out and about until around 8 p.m...Well my chart doesn't look so nice anymore. Oh well! Guess she is on her way. I did test and bfn. Not upset about that either. By now I am used to it. I did however find the "first signal" test at the dollar store. They changed the label from first signal to the DG brand of test. The Dollar General here discontinued the tests, so I had to buy them 20+ miles away. Needless to say now I know where to send DH to get them. I really like those tests.


Momma hopefully you will get your bfp this cycle.

Stacey I hope the bleeding stops soon. Is there nothing the Dr. can do at this point?

L.E. How have your opks been looking? I am so glad FF has taken off those crosshairs. These charting programs make things really interesting sometimes. TCOYF says I ovulated on the 29th instead of the 28th.

Anyhow at this rate, by the time MsSwizz gets back I will still be TTC and not pregnant. Isn't that something/ Someone can leave for a time and by the time they get back you are still doing the same thing, and they can just pick up where you both left off. I really thought that we all would have a bfp story to tell her. Well I won't be telling her one. Maybe I can narrate for one of you ladies?!

Well I'm glad you found the test that you like. My chart isn't that pretty either it dropped quite a bit... Your not out yet maam !!

 

[staceyj83]

No doc seems to think its normal bleeding and adding the fact that I just had a baby to it could be why im having the.spotting from not being healed up all the way so hopeful it stops soon im trying to be as lazy as I can and keep my feet up but its hard to do with a 5 year old and an almost 5 month old

 

[staceyj83]

I found the heartbeat woohooo 130 yayyyyyyyy

 

[L.E.]

Yay, Stacey!! I know that is soooo comforting to hear the little one's heartbeat! What are you using for that? When I was pregnant with DS, we had a garage sale Doppler but I never could hear much on it. Maybe because I'm fluffier, or maybe it wasn't that great... dunno.

 

[L.E.]

Fngrs, we know 1 temp doesn't mean much, but I don't like seeing that on your chart either.

Well if you don't get your bfp before MzSwizz gets back, you probably won't be alone. I can't even ovulate!! 6 months since my chemical and my body can't even ovulate. Once my drs office opens after lunch, I'm calling to have them do the referral for my pap and hopefully get it done with my actual OBGYN. I guess as long as it is a woman doing it, I won't care too much. The dr who delivered DS was a man and we really liked him, but if I've just met you, I'd rather not have you at eye level with my girly parts!!

So then after that, if I haven't O'd I'll do Provera again and hopefully Clomid, and of course get the SA done before that. Probably won't be til after our move though.

 

[staceyj83]

when i was pregnant with alice i got a sonoline b doppler because i use to have bad dreams best 50$ i every put out i had one dh got for like 20$ and i could never hear anything with iti didnt think i would hear anything yet because im on the fluffier side it was light but you could tell what it was

 

[L.E.]

I've seen your pics and you're not fluffy. I guess I'm more than fluffy but I was trying to be nice to myself lol.

 

[staceyj83]

You are my new bff lol I just wear it will im over 230lbs most people do say they cant tell im that big I have learn how to dress for my shape and that helps alot

 

[L.E.]

Well I'll just say I have you beat.... would've about matched you but I've gained back some of what I'd lost. And I'm waaaaaay shorter than you are so you don't look fluffy at all to me!

 

[staceyj83]

Thank you it feels off not to be working out anymore I was just getting use to lol

 

[mommapowers32]

Yay for finding the heart beat that is wonderful

My husbands alarm went off at 4 and now I'm wide awake and starving my bbq hurt so bad which I'm sure af is on her way. Honestly I hope she comes when she iS suppose to so I can have a normal pattern. My parents are moving back from Tulsa this weekend while I'm on my cruise I'm bummed out about it we loose all freedom .. living with ur folks has its upsides like free daycare but then their rules and mine are so hard too live with. o I cannot wait till I get a job and pay off debt so we can buy a house.

 

[FngrsCrossed]

Momma gotta' love when that happens with the alarm. My Dh's is good for that one. I starting thinking that maybe I should change my temp time when I start a new cycle. with him and his alarm i just may have to.

 

[FngrsCrossed]

Well ladies, my kiddos go back to school tomorrow! I am ready for that. I need to rearrange my furniture. And I can't experiment with kids walking back and forth. I love my O.C.D. Temp back up but it means nothing, still bfn and that means she is on her way, and I get to pee on opk's again. :/ Wow I spend more money on opks than I spend on hpt's... :/

 

[staceyj83]

remember youre not out till af gets you i didnt get my bfp till 2 days after my dip maybe im crazy or hopeful but im liking the dip

 

[mommapowers32]

Fngres are our bodies synced or something we had dip and rise together maybe BFP together too?

 

[L.E.]

Temps look good today ladies!! I almost freaked for a second when I temped this morning. Thought it said 97.7 but it was really 97.1. My temps look so nice, but I'm over the nice pre-O temps. I'm ready to see some legitimate post-O temps with some positive OPKs first. I think I only have 5 digis left. I was testing 2 or 3 times a day because I kept getting ewcm and low temps but then yesterday and today back to creamy and there's quite a bit of it. I think in Dec. I had fertile cm for a little while then went back to creamy, then back to fertile and I O'd during that patch. So hopefully that happens again. I'm losing hope for a bfp though with a late O... but that's so silly of me to day because I figured I conceived DS somewhere around CD70.

I'd said that I wasn't going to buy anymore OPKs and I'm trying to decide if that's a good idea. With the move I'm extra busy and tired and BD takes a back burner, so if I O, I'd like to catch it. But then again, I should have increased drive around O time anyway. So I don't know. Well I just re-thought it and I'm not going to buy them. See I chat with myself too. If I don't use OPKS, I will probably make an effort to BD more because I won't have that extra warning. I'll still temp and check cm and that will have to be good enough. I'm sick of peeing on sticks and sometimes it just plain ruins my day... like when I have ewcm, a low temp, and a negative and made an extra effort at annoying DH bugging him to BD.

 

[staceyj83]

Good morning ladies how is everyone doing

 

[FngrsCrossed]

Morning! got my kiddos off to school this morning. SO the house is very very quiet. Just me and the doggy's. I got back and the little Chihuahua was sitting on my couch. I don't believe in letting the dogs enjoy the living room furniture. I hate sitting behind animals, so I can imagine how guests would feel about coming over the get dog hair all over their clothes. Some people don't mind animals on a sofa, but i do. I think it's gross. That's why they make pet beds.

Well no bfp for me this cycle I am out. AF didn't show yet, but she has to be coming. If I haven't gotten (||) by now then it's not going to happen. All of my children were early implanters. I know that Masyn implanted on CD5. With the others I got positives way before my period was due. So I am out! (saluting you ladies) As a matter of fact, I have been thinking about throwing in the towel. Honestly. I am exhausted with the disappointment. I have a Rx for birth control that I may get filled today. DH may not agree with giving up, but he isn't the one that feels the worst end every cycle. It's just getting old now.

There is a show that is coming on DFH (Discovery Fit and Health) called Teen Mom. It was disappointing. Not to mention there was a teacher in full bloom, with baby bump and all. Glowing and happy this morning. She isn't my daughters teacher but she is right across the hallway. I turned to leave and when I spun around there she was! I could have hit the floor. She kept rubbing her bump with one hand and placed her opposite hand on her back. :'( I was happy to get out of there. So I confirmed this morning that I am ready to give up. I have to discuss it with DH though, not that his opinion matters...I would just be discussing it to be polite. Maybe it's just not our time. Or maybe God is saying you have enough children. Oh well, I guess.

I don't think this is one of "those" moments. you know...the moment of self pitty? I think this is me being realistic. 1 second tri loss, 2 miscarriages, and months of trying after that?! This is unreal and a punch to gut, every cycle. This train isn't going good places and I think I need to get off of it. Heck I have a 9th grader, 5th grader and a 1st grader. maybe that's all God intended for me.


Anyhow I am babbling. How are you ladies?

 

[L.E.]

Hugs to you, Fngrs! I surely know the feeling and I think about it all the time. I can't say to do it or not to, but they say there is a 20% chance of conceiving every month. So I was thinking about that and since you did conceive in Feb and Mar, it would be reasonable to think it would take a few months for it to be your "turn" again, though we know our bodies don't function based off of statistics. I think I may consider stopping the temping and opks after my birthday at the end of the year. I know I'm not ready yet because just the thought of stopping makes me really sad, though so does not ovulating. My body can't even ovulate.

Anyway, we're the kids excited to start school again? We won't start for almost a month because of the move. I suppose if I finish packing early, we might start some school, but I really don't see that happening.

 

[staceyj83]

i know the feeling that is how i was feeling before we got alice and by then i had given up and wasnt trying like we were before then you never know what god has planed for you