positive opk @ 8dpo...HELP!!!

[mzswizz]

thanks L.E. I just went for a jog and I must say I feel great. I guess that beat some of my depression I guess im going to be sticking to exercising (which i suppose to be doing anyways). Well, this time i ran more than i walked so thats progress i must say. Wish DH was here to see the improvement. Still waiting for his phone call. Cant wait to tell him i got AF Starting tomorrow, Im going to go hang out with my best friend. We already made plans. And i will have 17 days left before boot camp. So im ready to start the workout regime. Hoping to be in decent shape going into boot camp.

 

[FngrsCrossed]

So today is a crabby and crampy day. I have been sulking all day and not really getting anything done except put the laundry in the washer, took some things to ups and emptied the garbage cans inside the bathroom and kitchen. Im just patiently waiting by the phone so i can hear DH's voice one last time. Everything i do and think about puts me back in a sad mood because it reminds me of him. Hopefully, this is the withdrawal stage of DH and im going to cope better as time passes on. Well with that being said, my friend was texting me about drama with her newly husband (got married last month). TBH, i really didnt want to talk because im like right now, im thinking about my dh and you want me to sit here depressed and have to sit here and listen to the drama?! not a good combo at the moment. For now, its hard. I didnt even eating anything yet. I need to do better than this.

Sorry you are down..Hope he calls sson so you can feel better. The way your feeling is to be expected. I would just tell my friend that I am feeling to down to be helpful with her problem. If she can't understand that then something is wrong with her. There is no need in focusing on someone else with issues right now, so you are doing the right thing by focusing on yourself. And if you have to have a good cry then have a good cry, take a warm bath, maybe have some tea and wind down with a good book. Only answer the phone for DH.

 

[mzswizz]

i just got off the phone with DH. He has landed and he is excited. He will be calling again once he gets into boot camp I feel so much better now. And i feel excited more than sad now seeing that he is happy. I just went for a jog and I must say I feel great. I guess that beat some of my depression I guess im going to be sticking to exercising (which i suppose to be doing anyways). Well, this time i ran more than i walked so thats progress i must say. Wish DH was here to see the improvement. Still waiting for his phone call. Cant wait to tell him i got AF Starting tomorrow, Im going to go hang out with my best friend. We already made plans. And i will have 17 days left before boot camp. So im ready to start the workout regime. Hoping to be in decent shape going into boot camp.

 

[staceyj83]

Oh good happy he called your time to leave will be here before you know it

 

[mzswizz]

yes i know. now just waiting for him to be able to call when he gets to boot camp eeeekkk cant believe we actually are going in! For now, i have paused my FF account so i can continue using my vip membership once we start ttc again.

 

[mommapowers32]

Well I posted a comment last night but it didn't go thru I guess.

With my temp spike I had bfn opk what do I follow ??


Mzsw- I'm glad u got to talk with him that always helps exercise always makes me feel better too!!

I'm exhausted all Thai traveling and wedding stress is really making me tired ahhh

 

[staceyj83]

Your temp because you could of just missed you LH

 

[mzswizz]

momma-i say follow your temp because the temps are more accurate and when you tested with your opk, you couldve caught the end of your surge. Yes talking to him made me feel great and yes exercise makes people feel better and i didnt even know it.

AFM, im on cd2 and af is still heavy. 5 more days before it suppose to end I spoke to DH when he made it to boot camp and he sounds like he is military already but is happy so im happy and today i am happy. I only have 17 days left Today, im going to exercise and do work around the house. So im feeling really good and very excited!! Cant wait to see DH and start the journey in the U.S. Navy!!!!

 

[mommapowers32]

My temp spiked yesterday morning but the opks are neg the opk was bfp on Sunday tho. Weird ...

 

[mzswizz]

so with the opks being negative and the temp spike, im assuming that you o'd when ff said you o'd

 

[L.E.]

Momma, you did have a positive, just a few days before the spike, right? Maybe your egg just got held up a little bit. I say since you had your positive, assume you O'd as long as your temp stays up and you're not sick.

 

[mommapowers32]

I had the positive on Monday and he spike on Thursday my test was neg this morning

 

[staceyj83]

Maybe your egg didnt feel like leaving home till later welcome to the crazy body club

 

[L.E.]

Well that would mean O for Wednesday, so only 2 days after the + opk, so that's normal.

 

[staceyj83]

Yayyyy for crosshairssss

 

[FngrsCrossed]

Yayyyy for crosshairssss

Yay!!! Glad that you got em'


I got mine this morning too. Either way I will get them on Cd12 or CD15
(CD15 is dotted though) Which makes me wonder if I ovulated on CD12 (CD12 is solid corsshairs). I guess because of the smiley I got. So I am not sure which one I should go with. CD12 or CD15.. I could go with CD12, given I did not get another positive or nothing similar to one after that. What do you suggest?

 

[mzswizz]

stacey yay for the crosshairs!

fngrs-i would say go with cd12 because your cm doesnt match the pos opk. i had that once so im thinking its more likely you o'd on cd12.

AFM, im on cd3 and af is heavy like usual so its happening like clockwork right now. I had fun with my best friend yesterday. We went to the pool and just relaxed there and we went out last night to just have fun. She didnt want to see me sad because she knows how much i miss my dh so she trying to make the best out of the 16 days i have left She is also leaving in August to move to New Mexico. Big change for her too but we know we will stay in contact. As far as FF goes, i placed my account on pause (hold) until im able to start ttc again with dh. I have 33 days left of the VIP membership so that should be enough for a cycle. So im just ready to go to boot camp. Happy that AF came on time this time and looks like my LP is now extended to 12 days so thats good. Well, thats all for now.

 

[staceyj83]

Fngrs i still say cd12 for you

Msswizz its good to have someone to help keep you busy

 

[L.E.]

Fngrs... maybe I'm missing something, but I don't see why you'd think CD15 since all signs point to CD12. Is it that little temp drop? I say it's just a little varied temp... if you remove it, you see a steady rise. I think you are just having a slow rise, but that's my opinion. I guess it's possible your egg was delayed, but I think CD12 was O day.

 

[FngrsCrossed]

Thanks MsSwizz and Stacey...looks like I am halfway through the TWW. Nothing to report but sore boobs and shooting nipple pain.

L.E. Thanks...The reason I started thinking Cd15 was because of the obviousness in the thermal shift. I didn't know what to think with the CD15-CD18 spike (it just looked more like ovulation on Cd15). I did shift CD13 and CD14 but it wasn't major. I think the 97.61 on CD10 made it look a little loopy. I can discard that though. My opk's are just obvious that it did detect a LH surge on CD11. And they went super-stupid-negative, and down to one line on the test by CD14. Another thing that had me, was if I was going to ovulate on CD15 and the other opks were a fluke then CD14 would have rendered a positive opk, and that didn't happen...So I guess it is 12.

MsSwizz- So glad you had fun going out. It's nice to have a friend that can make you smile.

Stacey- Do you think that you guys caught the egg this cycle?