Praying for a 2012 BFP and 2013 Baby!!!

[asibling4gi04]

YOU NEVER KNOW! Would be great to not have to go through all of the appointments!

 

[KendraNoell]

Jodi- I never thought you were being an ass, not sure why you said that.

Like I've said a few times, I do understand, and I understand why you're posting here and I never said you couldn't post here or anything like that. I am saying the same thing everyone else is saying but just in a more forceful way. Regardless of any of your past pregnancies you're pregnant NOW and you need to take care of that tiny been by not being stressed. You cannot dwell on the past no matter how much you want to compare this pregnancy to the others. I can't even count on here the times I have seen pregnant women say their recent pregnancy was different than their other ones. Just because you're having a lack of symptoms doesn't mean there is anything wrong, you could be having an entirely different pregnancy. Our symptoms are not set in stone, they are never guaranteed.

I know what helped me through my stress a lot was looking up my symptoms and learning about them. Do some research and find support in others who are going through the same thing.

I know 9 has went through your situation many, many times and even she has told you to take a deep breath and relax. I would consider those golden words of wisdom, if I was in your position.

But since you think I am trying to make it sound like you don't have a right to be worried I just won't comment anymore. This is how I am, blunt, take it or leave it, and since I apparently can't say anything right I will just silently watch as your pregnancy progresses.

 

[asibling4gi04]

Kendara. I like and need your bluntness Kendra, my intention wasnt to ask you to stop or to make you feel some type of way! I just wanted ladies to know and you, why I am spazzing out. I still am quite honestly so no matter what I read or who I talk to on here, I will not be relieved until I see that bean you are referring to! I am doubtful it is there..I believe I am carrying around a sac with nothing growing but if I am wrong I will be pleasantly surprised and I will try to buy you a ticket here to personally kick me in my ass..wear thick shoes though, I have a big badonk! lol..seriously, I am trying to remain focused on the date JAN 9TH! I spoke to clinic today and although I do not have a scan scheduled, the nurse said that if I express my concerns, they will prob squeeze me in that day for a early one.. fxd..sorry if I offended...I am just on edge,,,

 

[9babiesgone]

Officially have not just nighttime nausea but all morning. I can't keep the food I ate down. Yikes. It hit me bad this morning

 

[MrsMM24]

Hi Ladies! I hope everyone had a wonderful holiday!

I am reading and seeing hormone city in here! hugs: for everyone.

KENDRA, your bluntness is what we all have come to love so don't change that, I know AS didn't mean for you to change. So don't! I cannot wait to see you little man, you are looking great in that avatar pic preggars

JODI, I hope that you are able to calm, but I know that until you make it past 8wks whether you get a scan or not, you will be full of nerves, not to mention the hormones that are surging through you. We are here, vent away, but expect us to try and calm you the best way we can, especially since we know that you have a Sticky sticky bean in the oven!

BABYHOPES, hi Hun! How are you holding up? I am good, back in the TTC of things again and looving it!

30, how is little man? Awesome I am sure, and Christmas with a new baby must have been glorious!

9, sooo glad you got that appt started. I know that 17 days is a long time, so keep stopping into the free clinic as you can Hun, piece of mind is almost everything in the early stages!

:wave: to anyone that I didn't address! if that's what you needed.

AFM... we reserved donations for Jan! So, I am going to get a new thermometer tonight and we ordered OPKs and HPTs from eBay! I cannot wait to temp and SS, that sounds crazy right?? but I am excited for the hectic times! Let's get these BFPs rolling ladies the March testing thread has gone up!

 

[9babiesgone]

As, you really have ot stop worrying, it won't help. Ad I hate to say this but I can always count on Kendra's bluntness to put me in my place. N sometimes we all need tough love. I hope you take it as that. She means only the best for you. Love you all so much. I have been thru 15 losses, if I can be positive , you can try to. Just try you might be surprised how much strength you have

 

[9babiesgone]

Thank you sweetie. I am probably going to the free clinic as soon as hubby gets home. Cn not wait. I am only going in to see if they can look at my knees too, bc they are kinda swollen a bit. But not as bad as they could be.

Hi Ladies! I hope everyone had a wonderful holiday!

I am reading and seeing hormone city in here! hugs: for everyone.

KENDRA, your bluntness is what we all have come to love so don't change that, I know AS didn't mean for you to change. So don't! I cannot wait to see you little man, you are looking great in that avatar pic preggars

JODI, I hope that you are able to calm, but I know that until you make it past 8wks whether you get a scan or not, you will be full of nerves, not to mention the hormones that are surging through you. We are here, vent away, but expect us to try and calm you the best way we can, especially since we know that you have a Sticky sticky bean in the oven!

BABYHOPES, hi Hun! How are you holding up? I am good, back in the TTC of things again and looving it!

30, how is little man? Awesome I am sure, and Christmas with a new baby must have been glorious!

9, sooo glad you got that appt started. I know that 17 days is a long time, so keep stopping into the free clinic as you can Hun, piece of mind is almost everything in the early stages!

:wave: to anyone that I didn't address! if that's what you needed.

AFM... we reserved donations for Jan! So, I am going to get a new thermometer tonight and we ordered OPKs and HPTs from eBay! I cannot wait to temp and SS, that sounds crazy right?? but I am excited for the hectic times! Let's get these BFPs rolling ladies the March testing thread has gone up!

 

[30mummyof1]

30, how is little man? Awesome I am sure, and Christmas with a new baby must have been glorious!

Thanks mrsmm, yes Harry is really good thanks. Hoping for a bit more sleep soon but other than that great Christmas was really special yes, loving all the time we have had with Daddy before he goes back to work on Tues which we wouldn't have had if it wasn't Christmas

great news you have Jan donations sorted, can't wait for you to start ss and testing x

 

[asibling4gi04]

MRSMMS24 thanks for the optimism! I am so excited for you and DW to start your journey again and yes I will be a stalker again but not of a chart as I am no good at the temp/chart stuff. I buy opks, do the procedure, take an hpt and thats about it..oh, yea and preseed! lol...anyway, best wishes for your BFP! HUGS!

 

[asibling4gi04]

THANKS 9 AND GOOD LUCK AT clinic!

 

[9babiesgone]

Thanks as

 

[Flowerbaby]

Hi girls!!

AS glad to hear your test is nice and dark again! yaayyy! xx

MrsMM am so pleased you are back to TTC again, not long until you will be back in the TWW hun xx

DG glad all went ok at your appointment and they are going to scan you and take bloods, really hope they can help you out but in the meantime it would be amazing if you could get your BFP!!!! xx

Well ive been shopping today and bought baby lots of nice pink clothes, she is starting to have a better wardrobe than me!!! I would love to step out in some of the cute things i have bought her!! Am loving shopping but slowly running out of money! Ugh! Just got a tax bill in for £600 which i owe from 2010-2012, my stupid company have given me the wrong tax code so now i owe the government some dosh! Nightmare as i havent got any!!! So it will be deducted from my pay when i go back to work over a 12 month period, charming eh!

 

[asibling4gi04]

keep shopping hopes! Sounds fab! She is very loved and spoiled! As it should be! yippee! Yes darker test but no nausea, no food aversions, no vomiting just like last pgnancy....And trust me my body usually acts violent when I am preg with a fetus...Almost like an instant allergy! So Im gutted..

 

[Flowerbaby]

Awww hunny, well we know our bodies well dnt we after goin through so much. I always knew when i wouldnt have a sticky beanie as i had af pains constantly from my BFP's but this pregnancy was different as i had no af pains at all, well very little compared to my non sticky beans. But AS Please dont give up hope yet though as you might just have a sticky growing beanie in there!!! I really really hope this is your forever beanie hun! PMA PMA PMA, c'mon chick lets have some!! xxx

 

[KendraNoell]

Thanks ladies for appreciating my bluntness. I am constantly losing "friends" over it, and what's funny is most of those "friends" are the ones who talk about people who are shady or who can't be honest, blah blah... I thought being super blunt would kind of wake you up, asib, I know you can't be excited but my honest fear for you is even after Jan 9 when you see your bean is totally fine, you will always be worried about something else and worried that you're going to lose the baby the entire pregnancy. It's just not a way to live, you should be able to enjoy it, and I fear that even after you see its not a blighted you will still feel that you won't make it. I have to agree with Claire you have to HAVE TO have to have some PMA. Even just a little. Please?

 

[asibling4gi04]

SO MUCH FOR PMA LADIES...

Went to E.R. @ local hospital...My HCG is 185 and not only no baby, NO SAC??? So I have to go back Saturday for another HCG test to see if level rises or not. They diagnosed me with early pregnancy verses ectopic. Taking my ticker down,,I give up! I knew this was not right....

 

[30mummyof1]

oh as i am so sorry hun x but if they are checking them again then do they no think its still possible things will be ok?

 

[asibling4gi04]

there is no sac @ 5 weeks and my level is 185 they want to see if it doubles. My diagnosis states pregnancy: early pregnancy verses Ectopic. So IDK? Sad part is, today I feel nauseaus for the first time! Prob just nerves and stress killing my tummy. Thanks for being here.

 

[Flowerbaby]

Awww AS im so sorry honey.....i really hope that your hcg doubles at your next appointment and that your little beanie is a sticky one!! My thoughts are with you chick xxx

 

[deafgal01]

Oh no Asib. That sucks. Boo...