Praying for a 2012 BFP and 2013 Baby!!!

[deafgal01]

Well, they were checking his hormone levels in his blood (namely prolactin and testerone). He's scheduled to do the 2nd SA on the 19th (2 days after my consultation appt). I'm not holding my breath that it'll be any better than the 1st SA.

I'm not too worried to be honest... The dr has said they will do everything they can to help us get pregnant if there's any issues and they're really checking out stuff... I mean, they are giving me a free 3d scan just to explore my uterus more? Hey I'll take that if they want another peek... Just means another torture of bearing with a "full" bladder. But hey, I'm not gonna complain if I get to peek at it again. Think they want to know how exactly my uterus is shaped so they know the "risk" factors and how to help monitor me once we get me pregnant. I think... I really have no idea what I'm doing but they must know what to look for and how to help with different cases.

 

[KendraNoell]

Having some horrible back pain the last couple days, so much so that I was rolling on the floor in pain last night... had a friend and the nurse say it could be kidney related as that would be a mid-back issue possibly, but I dunno I don't think that's what it is?

 

[deafgal01]

Kendra- it won't hurt to have the dr take a look to make sure it's not kidney related or if it's just related to your back the next time you go in?

 

[asibling4gi04]

Ob called..DNC in the morning..after that, they will decide if I ..need shot or not...oh showing No emotional support what so ever!

 

[Flowerbaby]

DG thats great news about scan, good luck and hope all goes well......wont be long before you have your BFP i just know it! xx

AS im sorry about OH not being supportive, thats not fair on you at all.....i wish i was there to give you a huge hug....let us know how you get on at hospital today and dont forget we are all with you xxx

Well my dh is being a prize prick at the moment, i dont know what is wrong with him, welll actually i do, i think he is having withdrawl symptoms from not going out with lads at weekend and staying in with me instead! He is being an effing arsehole.....we had an argument over nothing last night, he came in from the gym winging and then decided to have a go at me because i didnt give him a straight answer to a question he asked, which was 'is the salt and pepper in the front room', i shouted 'naaa' rather than just saying NO and he went off it with me, so i screamed back at him and told him to get a life and stop being a miserable twat! So we havent spoke since last night, there is an awful atmosphere in our house...glad he has buggered off to work. He is picking his daughter up from school and they will both expect there tea on the table well they can both fuck off because im going round my mates for tea but as we not speaking at mo he dosent know this! lol! I dont know what to do with him to be honest and im getting a bit nervous about having this baby, i feel very lonely at the mo as its me doing everything to get organised for babys arrival and i feel he just isnt arsed at times. I hope he will change once she gets here but im starting to feel very worried.

Sorry about the rant girls........hope you are all okay xxx

 

[30mummyof1]

ahh hun, i do really feel for you - you need support more than ever when you are pregnant not someone going off at you. Like i have said before my oh was quite similar to yours before Thomas going out all the time and i really did not expect him to change anywhere near as much as he has. Now he only drinks every couple of months on a lads night out and nothing in between! So there's every chance he will change once your little girl is here, men don't become fathers until baby is here where as we have to be mothers from the day baby is conceived.
Sending massive hugs and yes like you say go and have dinner with your friend and hopefully you will have both calmed down by timee you see each other next x

 

[Flowerbaby]

Thanks Rach, sounds like we have been in similar positions with our blokes and its great to hear that your oh changed as it gives me hope for mine!! He has just text n apologised, so i text him back n said id be out when he gets home and will see him when i get in. I just cant be bothered with the stress tbh.....gosh i soooo hope he follows in your oh's footsteps!! I do think he will settle down, i almost feel like he's trying to cram in as much lads time as poss at min before lo arrives. There a strange breed men arent they!! Lol! Hows things with you today hun?? xx

 

[30mummyof1]

Yes he might be doing that hun, really hope so.

Tired today, oh didn't get home from work till 11.45pm last night so had the 2 of them all day by myself - having to do everything dinner, bath, etc then Harry wouldn't settle after 2am feed for ages. Not sure what time he will be home today

 

[30mummyof1]

oh and congrats on 3rd trimester hun

 

[Flowerbaby]

Thank you!! Oh bless ya, you having a busy time then chick. Does Thomas go to nursery yet?? Motherhood is such hard work isnt it, but so worth it. You should get kiddies to bed then go and lay in bath n have a long soak with sum nice candles!!Xxx

 

[MrsMM24]

RACH so sorry that you and DH are not getting along well at the moment. I hope it subsides and you are ok again. CONGRATS 3rd Trim Mommy!


30 I vageulely remember you saying what RACH is .... SMH, Men!!?? Thanks GOODNESS I don't have to deal


KENDRA I think you should let the doc check ya out. If I recall, you had alot of back pain before BFP too, things get to changing when your preggars, and it never hurts to get some relief to be comfy


DG Good luck with appt tomorrow! I hope all is well with DH's appt next week as well.


JODI Sometimes OHs can behave incorrectly. Unfortunately, this is one of those times. You need all teh support you can get. Will you be going alone? I hope not, if I were there, I would try my hardest to go with. I hope all goes well and as 30 said, please keep in mind that you've got a HUGE support system only a click away! We are here Hun!


AFM... Still no AF... Donations in 3 days. Hoping I have a chance whether I get AF or not... I have been reading about studies of women being fertile on CD1 and CD4 so I think that I am going to try to be one of them. I also have been wondering, before the MC my cycles were "long" but what I called irregularly regular.(read in journal) I had AF every other month since getting af but had confirmed ov every month.... hmmm, i'm grabbing at all types of straws.

 

[MrsPTTC]

Eeee babyhopes I'm so sorry but I couldn't help but laugh when I read your rant 'they can both fuck off' had me tickled . You tell him girl!! Seriously though I'm sorry he's doing your head in, but I think most men aren't that interested until the baby comes. I've seen it with my friends, & they're doting dads when the time comes. Hope you make up soon hun

AS I'm so sorry, dont really know what to say other than I hope it goes ok & we're here for you & 9

DG, GL with your scan!

Mrsmm, sorry AF hasnt come yet, when was it due?

30 - do you have any new pics of harry?

x

 

[KendraNoell]

I didn't go to the Dr cause today I felt a little better until about 2-3 in the afternoon. It totally sucks though I just hate feeling like I'm making it up or trying to get drugs but I am legitimately in pain. I have a regular appointment on the 27th hoping to make it to then but who knows anymore.

I did go see my chiropractor today though and he said I had some areas out that I usually don't so that could explain it too. In terms of kidney stuff I think the pain is too high for that plus I'm not having any issues with urination or anything. I dunno what to do.

Asib and hopes- sorry about your asshole OH's. Asib, I dunno, maybe this is like 9's situation and its some way of saying that it's not meant to happen with the person you're with. Hopes I would kick his ass- as a pregnant woman you officially have the right to. LOL. At least that's the rules in this house.

 

[asibling4gi04]

Kendra lol thanks..well all OH cares about is PS3 and video games!! U r also not the first person to tell me maybe wrong person...anyway FINALLY saw the tinyest sac today as.my numbers were 1400 but bleeding and.the growth rate meant early miscarriage, d and c showed Villa, meaning fetal tissue in uterus so deffo was not ectopic..dizzy n crampy. Good night. Thank you all n love u all..

 

[KendraNoell]

so what does that mean did you get the d and c or are they waiting?

 

[asibling4gi04]

No i had d&c ob said pendng miscarriage

 

[KendraNoell]

I'm sorry Jodi I wish I had words that would make you feel better somehow but I don't

 

[asibling4gi04]

KENDRA JUST BEING HERE THROUGH THE ROLLER COASTER WITH ME WAS NICE AND HELPS ME OUT. BUT, WITH THAT BEING SAID, THE NEXT TIME I SAY. I JUST KNOW SOMETHING IS NOT RIGHT, BELIEVE IN MY WORD LADY! LOL..HOW IS THE BACK PAIN?? IS JACKSON KICKING YOU BETTER TODAY??

 

[MrsMM24]

MRSPTTC Hey, AF was due on the 4th.... I am not asking for her now, I am going to get donations so hopefully I won't see AF until December 2012!


KENDRA I hope that back gets to feeling better....


JODI I believe love is love, but I think that we have chatted before, if it is meant to be it will be.... cliche as it sounds. I say, take care of you an GI 1st! OH will get on the boat or sink! I am so sorry for your recent loss. I hope that your body heals quickly and you are able to explore TTC soon, whether with OH or not!


AFM... Still no AF... Donations in 2 days. Now I am hoping AF stays away for another 10 mos as I plan to move forward as if I am gearing up to OV. Hoping I have a chance...

 

[asibling4gi04]

thanks mrsmms..why no AF??When were you due?