Praying for a 2012 BFP and 2013 Baby!!!

[MrsPTTC]

Rach, Claire & kendra, did you use those sleeping bags you get? And if so from what age? I have one but not sure it's worthwhile & am thinking of taking it back x

 

[30mummyof1]

Yes i swear by them for a good night sleep as they can't kick their covers off and get cold. Also makes it easier to know what to put them in at night as you can check the temperature and dress accordingly underneath! I think blankets can vary so much.

I waited till boys were a few weeks old to use them, although you can use them from birth long as baby is big enough. Thomas stayed in his till about 2

 

[MrsPTTC]

2years old? Wow! Thanks for the advice hun x

 

[Flowerbaby]

Hi ladies! Yes i use sleeping bags, i think theyre fab too! I started purting Poppy in hers at about 2-3 weeks old as she wouldnt keep covers on and it keeps them snuggly and warm when you do night feeds!

Well ladies, sad news from me, my DH has moved out! We are having a really rough time and things are goin from bad too worse, he just cant seem too adjust too family life and in his words is 'bored shitless' he still wants too do 'his thing' and its not working out. So hes packed his bags this morning and left It was a mutual decision and we will meet up after weekend and have another talk and see what we can work out but im totally devestated! My childhood dreams of having a lovely happy family life forever are slowly disappearing....

 

[30mummyof1]

Oh hun, i am so sorry to hear you can't work things out. So sad that he can't put his little girl before partying and going out Maybe the reality of moving out will be enough to kick him up the bum and sort himself out?

We are here for you anytime you need to chat hun Big xxx

 

[MrsPTTC]

Aw Claire I don't really know what to say Hun I'm so sorry he's not being the husband & father you want him to be (& that he should be) I do hope you can sort something out. But it sounds like he's got a lot of growing up to do! We're here for you chick any time you need to talk xxx

 

[MrsMM24]

CLAIRE I am so very sorry to hear that things are not going as you would have hoped. I don't know what to say really, I mean, your daughter as well as you needed him to step up when he became a father and a husband. I definitely hope that he really looks at life and you two are able to work it out soon Hun!

 

[deafgal01]

Oh Claire sorry that dh is not mature enough to adjust to family life. Hope the separation will make him realize he does want to be there for both of you instead of the life he thinks he wants.

 

[30mummyof1]

How you doing Claire? Hope you have something lovely planned for weekend

What's everyone else up to?
Just a quiet one for me, although i think i will have a few wines tonight after today. Thomas had a little introduction day at pre-school and it wasn't great. He started off well, but after a while just reverted back to his usual behaviour of snatching/pushing the other children around etc.. makes me so upset/angry to see him doing it. Just want him to get on with the other children and make friends but i can see them all avoiding him if he carries on and the teachers labelling him the naughty child. I don't know why he does it, i don't let him get away with it at home. I hope they will find a way to deal with it without it escalating further.

 

[deafgal01]

Oh 30! I hope that works itself out soon...

Weekend plans... Hmmm SLEEP sleep SLEEP sleep SLEEP homework EAT have some me time... Yep, nothing on my agenda.

 

[Flowerbaby]

Awww nooo little Thomas has been a tinker! Hopefully he will settle down after he's been there a few times Rach. Is he like that with your friends kids? Am sure he will be fine hun. Ive got a gurly weekend planned, although i really dont feel like going! Me and 3 gf's are off too Leeds tmor afternoon, doin sum shopping the going out for meal and on lash, staying overnight and home sunday. Feel like as soon as i have a drink i will burst into tears though, my heart is aching at the min IYKWIM....am missing DH but just feel that if he comes home we will be back too where we left off within 5 minutes! i just want too be happy and dont get why he cant settle himself down, he will end up a very lonely man in the end and i think he will regret his decision all his life.

 

[Flowerbaby]

Thanks for all your support ladies it really means the world too me

 

[30mummyof1]

Thanks dg, he can be so lovely on his own, just hope they see that too ��

 

[30mummyof1]

Thanks Claire, i hope so too. Sounds like a great weekend, long as your surrounded by friends a little cry is not all bad. Lets hope he realises before it's too late.how old is he again?
Just been asked for id girls, not bad for 33 in march!

 

[30mummyof1]

Oh sorry forgot to say about what he is like with friends children, yes exactly the same unfortunately. It's getting close to the point where I am scared to take him places. His gymnastics teacher has now had words with me twice, because he struggles to sit there and listen to instruction and being physical with the other children.
Fx just growing up and being away from me some of the time will help.

 

[MrsPTTC]

Oh Claire I'm not surprised you don't want to go Hun..but maybe it'll do you good? I hope you're ok. What does DH's family make of his behaviour?

DG you're 1 very sleepy lady hehe

Rach I'm not sure what to suggest about Thomas Hun, but I imagine its very frustrating for you. You've done your best & are a great mum, I'm sure his teachers will see that, he's just going through an awkward stage. You need super nanny

No overtime tomorrow for me for a change & DH & I are going kitchen shopping! Going for tea with the girls on Sunday too

x

 

[MrsPTTC]

Oh and as some of you might've seen on Facebook everything went fine today Was lovely seeing baby again, it waved t us again ha ha. DH was sooo tempted to find out the sex & I actually feel a bit guilty for not letting him, but I'm sure we made the right decision. I'll upload a photo over the weekend x

 

[30mummyof1]

Yes will be a great surprise Hun, defo worth it thanks Hun, i do keep worrying it's something i've done or not done. Time will tell hey

 

[30mummyof1]

Oh and ladies told my oh i am taking my last pack of pills starting Sunday so mid December i will be bc free till we start ttc April/may time and he agreed!

 

[MrsPTTC]

Eee Hun how exciting! So are you NTNP or are you using rubbers lol? x