Praying for a 2012 BFP and 2013 Baby!!!

[KendraNoell]

From her FB wall to someone else: Hi, Its going okies.... been in/out hospital.. with blood pressure and Finding out they may come early! soo got my scan 2nd feb to see if twin 1 is still breech if so they will book me n for c-sec 35-36 weeks... sooo not long at all, unless they wanna come before, as iv had steriod jabs to help develop their lungs, keep getting pains tho, soo jst taking it easy and, rewady when they are lol...

 

[Flowerbaby]

Hi girls, i heard from Laura yesterday and she is out of hospital and doing ok, if you want to check my visitor messages there is a message from her there similar to Kendra's. Thanks for updating us about 9 hun, she does have bad luck doesnt she bless her!

Well i hardly slept a wink last night, my dh decided he couldnt get back to sleep around 4am, then bubs got hiccups for half hour and was having a party in my belly and then my bloody dog was snoring sooo loud until about 6am.....he is getting worse! Cant wait for the summer nights so he can sleep in his kennel in the garden! So im tired today. Gona go for a swim with my mam this afternoon then go for a cuppa around MIL's as i havent seen her for ages.

Wot is everyone else upto?? xx

 

[30mummyof1]

i will check that out, thanks Claire

Me too, little man was great fed at 9.00 then 3.30 then 8.00 so i would have had a great nights except Thomas woke up crying, boiling hot and not feeling well at all. Took me completley by surprise as he fine when he went to bed so up all night trying to comfort him, tried sleeping with him in spare bed but didn't work so then back to his cot and he eventually dropped off poor thing.
He seems to feeling better now, or maybe its just the calpol thats keeping it at bay so going to have a dvd day

 

[30mummyof1]

ahh bless her, poor thing. Hope twin 1 has turned so she doesn't have to have cs

Oh and forgot to mention, its my bloody mil's fault for coming round with a cold. I wish i had been strong and told her to not come in now, but its hard when its family isn't it! I understand she wanted to see them but now i have 2 boys that are poorly.
Harry is doing pretty well so far considering he's bunged up and still managing to sleep.

 

[MrsMM24]

30 hope everyone gets through the cold well....


KENDRA thanks for th updates from 9 and LAURA, I sure hoep twin 1 gets to moving and 9 can get a competent paper filer so she can move forward.


BABYHOPES it's almost time, you are getting there Hun, I am excited for you!


JODI Your chants are absolutely the best. I hope that I can come here and shout a BFP soon! On another BFP note, I think that you should give it another try! We can be Bump Buddies!! It is only right! You will get yout rainbow forever Baby


DG I hope AF comes in and scoots out quickly so that TTC can be in full force for you!


AFM... CD8: Just waiting, nothing new to report. Trying to keep my focus. Temps are pretty steady. However they are looking like last cycle when I had the long wait and no confirmed OV.... Hope not. I am useing the CBFM too though so...FXD!

 

[deafgal01]

Haven't been up to much- just sleeping all day haha... I was that tired plus the internet wasn't working right or something- it wasn't finding any of the websites. So I just decided to just go to sleep and not think about it all day. It's fixed now haha... DH said he just had to reset the router, that's all. My poor tired brain couldn't even think to do that this morning.

How's everyone?

 

[MrsPTTC]

Thanks for the updates Kendra and Babyhopes! Pleased to hear Laura is out of hospital bless her.

I'm ok DG, just had a text off a friend who's just had her 12 week scan, obviously I'm pleased everything is ok, but I feel a bit knocked back at these milestones, BFP's, 12 week scans, 20 week scans, babies being born. It's the same friend who got pg 1st month off the pill, so it hit me harder than some of my other friends. How's you?

I love not knowing how many DPO I am!! Much more relaxed

x

 

[deafgal01]

Mrs I know what you mean...

 

[KendraNoell]

Hmmm... found out my sister is 10 weeks pregnant. I love her to death but it sucks because I really feel like she's going to overshadow the rest of my pregnancy and hers will be in the "you really aren't stable enough to have a baby are you sure you can take care of it" kind of way. I feel like a horrible, horrible person but I really feel like she took away all the fun I was having of being the first pregnant one in my generation of my family and was looking forward to all the special time with the new grandparents and all that. Now, her kid will be less than 4 months younger than mine. It just feels like she couldn't let me have the spotlight and had to match herself with me. Am I terrible for thinking this way? Its really got me stressed out. Her and her boyfriend both work minimum wage jobs and hers is only part time. On top of that she recently dealt with a prescription medication addiction which included stealing pills from my mother. She's the type of person who doesn't clean her house or car and her car is constantly breaking down or she's switching jobs or getting fired and I just don't know how she is going to take care of a child when she can't take care of herself.

And then I'm upset because she is able to get WIC and food stamps and free medical. I am struggling like no other right now but because mine and hubby's income is above average we don't qualify for anything. I don't even have medical insurance at the moment and I can't get any through the state because we make too much. So I have to pay out of pocket or buy private insurance. I feel like I waited years to have a baby so that I would be stable and that we can provide for it, and we planned this and then after we decided to try it took us over a year to get pregnant... then my sister comes along and accidentally gets pregnant barely 4 months after I do.

I have so many mixed emotions and I am happy for her because she seems happy and maybe this is what it will take for her to stop being a bump on a log and making something of herself but I am scared for her and the baby and her 20 year old boyfriend who is seriously immature and I feel like he's gonna run for the hills...

Ugh... I dunno.

 

[MrsPTTC]

Hi Kendra, my friend felt like that too, her sister started trying after her & got preg straight away so her baby is the first grandchild. Then her sister in law got preg so her baby will be a few months old when the SIL's baby comes along. It's not just you, & you've got good right to feel a little put out, & worried about the welfare of the baby too x

 

[30mummyof1]

I don't have a sister so that might be why but i think i'd quite like having someone so close to share all the milestones with. Also being a little in front means she'll come to you with questions sometimes and you can give her advice because you've already been there.
I can understand not liking the situation its happened in though, and thats fair enough because you want the best for family and friends but it has happened so you just got to be there for i think

 

[30mummyof1]

mrsmm how you doing? Whats the cbfm saying today? x

 

[MrsMM24]

KENDRA Hun!


30 Hey Hun! CBFM is saying LOW today, which is all fine, since we have donations set for next week. Hopefully we can give a call on Wed as it takes 24hrs to deliver. I'm so excited to turn this thing on every day now... How are you Hun, sleepin anymore?


AFM... CD9: You can stalk my chart. Just waiting, nothing new to report. Trying to keep my focus. Temps are pretty steady. I am using the CBFM and OPKs...FXD! I hope you all have a wonderful weekend and get some great BFPs!!!

 

[30mummyof1]

ahh thats good then, yes i used to get excited too!

Thomas was back to normal last night but Harry not quite as good as he was weds night..however feeling more alive today though.

 

[Flowerbaby]

Kendra xx

Hi girls how are we all??

Well i had a bad night the night before last, i woke up at 2am with terrible braxton hicks!! I started to get a little bit of tummy/back ache then they started and went on for 2 hours! I was almost on the verge of ringing the maternity ward and getting myself down there and then they stopped! I wasnt having any real pain with them so thats how i knew it wasnt labour contractions but they were bloody uncomfortable and worrysome! Baby was dancing/kicking/punching around in my tummy all the time i was having them so i think my uterus was getting irritated and thats what was causing them so often.....scarey though Reality is hitting me now that its not that far away until they are happening for real! eeeekkkkk

Slept really well last night and feel better today so am a bit happier

 

[30mummyof1]

ahh bless ya, yes its getting close hun but you will be fine

Got a good night sleep here too, harry managed 8 hours before wanting a bottle with just a dummy after 5hrs. Plus oh was on feeding duty so didn't even have to get out of bed!

 

[KendraNoell]

I slept like total crap last night. Woke up several times with excruciating hip and butt cramps, then woke up this morning and blew up on my husband because I was getting bill collectors calling me about an account of ours at the jewelry store and he figured since he didn't have any money he just wasn't going to pay the bill

And today is the two year anniversary of my fathers death. It was a lot harder than last years for whatever reason

 

[asibling4gi04]

Kendra,

I know how you feel! I do not qualify for anything through the state they say I make too much and get this...I make under $11.00 an hour..lol..I am a mother of a child with AUTISM and I still do not qualify. I am a SINGLE mother with NO child support (donor sperm) and guess what, ...STILL DONT QUALIFY!! I cannot even pay for ins. through my employer it is wayyy too much! So I do relate to your upset.

As far as your sister goes, I understand your concern about addiction and irresponsibility but feel that should be your only concern. You still are the FIRST pregnant, and you have to keep in mind when it comes to babies, there is always more than enough room in everyone's hearts and thoughts for a baby no matter whos and no matter in which order of arrival! You keep your chin up hun! Big hugs..Worry about Jackson and your health. Do not stress..things have a way of playing out and working out! BIG HUGS!

 

[asibling4gi04]

30, love the avatar ! PRICELESS!

MRS PTTC, I AM SO EXCITED FOR YOU! Just have a great vibe and the fact that you are so relaxed is half the battle! Cannot wait for your BFP!

MRSMMS, I AM THINKING about you daily and waiting and chanting and routing for your BFP! I CANNOT WAIT for your CBFM to show that RIPE egg! hugs to you~

Hopes I hope you get some rest soon! Thnking of you! I remember when Gianna used to have hiccups all of the time after 5 months..It was so reassuring but at the same time, annoyin after too long! Love ya!

DG, HOW R U??

Hugs to all! - ASIB

 

[MrsPTTC]

Babyhopes, sorry about your pains hun, hope it goes soon.

30 love your avatar!

Kendra

Asib, thank you sooo much sweetie, I am SS but really tryin hard not to! Really hoping its our month, but don't want to be too disappointed! Not testing til the weekend, assuming my spotting stays away!

Hope everyone is ok x