Praying for a 2012 BFP and 2013 Baby!!!

[deafgal01]

Least I can enjoy my solo time without kids. I just go and not worry about finding a sitter or anything. I've taken up working out with a friend recently so hoping we can develop a routine/habit of working out together weekly (3 times a week actually). So that's what I'm doing right now while I wait...

How's everyone doing?

 

[30mummyof1]

Thanks ladies, well guess when i'm having the procedure..valentines day! She said i could either have a local or general..decided on local as its a quicker recovery. eek

Yes enjoy your time before babies dg, as even when you get a sitter you feel guilty for leaving them!

 

[laura_2010]

Thannks ladies, I'm reallly scared tbh.... But wil update asap, n piccys xxi

 

[KendraNoell]

Rach what does the leftover product mean? Like parts of the placenta or?

Laura holy cow your babies will barely be 34 weeks! Are you going to be able to take them home or will they have to stay at the hospital a while??

 

[30mummyof1]

Yes exactly that kendra, placenta/membranes. Googled it and apparently only happens in less than 1% of births, so i am just rather unlucky!

 

[MrsPTTC]

Hi ladies,

Oh wow Laura! Good luck chick! Great birthday! Can't wait to see your LO's!

30, oh no, sorry you were unlucky in that happening to you, but at least you have an answer to your bleeding.

Babyhopes, thanks for the progesterone recommendation, will have a look.

Mrsmm, not long til your early testing!

DG, I'm also starting to think about pre-baby life lately & how easy it is to go out, every cloud & all that!

I started my clomid last night, a few days late, oops will be taking it cd4-8 instead of 2-6 but it doesn't really matter. Happy weekend everyone x

 

[KendraNoell]

Rach is there a possibility that it could lead to an infection having that in there? That is some crazy stuff I am sorry

 

[30mummyof1]

Yes thats very possible, but i had a course of antibiotics last week so i should be covered fx

Oh and they have changed the day now to monday - bit scared now and thinking maybe i'm mad for having a local, there must be a reason they offer it under general as well. Oh well too late now

 

[Flowerbaby]

Eeeekkk Rach, think id be doing it under a general, your very brave! Monday will be here in not time and it will soon be over and done with honey, i cant believe you are that 1%, you poor thing! Am sure all will be fine though and you will be up and at it in no time xx

MrsP good luck with the clomid, are you doubling up?? x

How is everyone else??

Im good, having a house day today, washing, ironing, cleaning blah blah blah, bloody boring!!!!

Bought baby a gorgeous outfit from Baby Benetton yesterday, she has got a fab wardrobe now! Think i will start to wash it all after next weekend, do you think i will be alright washing her clothes in normal detergent like Ariel or Bold or do i need to buy special detergent for baby clothes?x

 

[30mummyof1]

omg hope i'm not being too brave! eek

I just use normal detergent, although my oh has sensitive skin so he'd already road tested the one we use first if you know what i mean!

 

[MrsPTTC]

Thanks babyhopes, no I decided to go with the flow, he said 6 months 50mg & have decided to stick to it, I know I o'd on 50mg first round so gotta assume its been ok since. I decided it wasnt worth the risk of overreacting to it. No idea about the detergent, though my hubby works with it so must ask him! x

 

[KendraNoell]

Claire I already washed all my clothes so I think you can go ahead and do it, LOL, just one of those nesting phases I guess!

Have you had a baby shower yet? I have a friend doing it at 38 weeks! I said, hopefully the baby isn't actually here by then!

 

[Flowerbaby]

Kendra, yes think im starting to nest now! Lol! Start nursery on tuesday so am excited to start getting organised! Am mtg up with my girlfriends on saturday to organise a final girly lunch before i have bubs, this will be like my baby shower, we dont tend too have them in the UK which is a bummer as they sound like fun!! My girlfriends will be getting me a few gifts as we do for each other and will give me them then, think that will be about 34 weeksish. What are your plans for your baby shower?? A bit OT but have you been getting any braxton hicks?? Ive had them on and off all day today, they make me stop what im doing and take a deep breath at times, not painful just bloody uncomfortable!! x

Rach, good luck with op tmor hun, thinking of you xx

 

[30mummyof1]

Thanks Claire, am so nervous

I had a baby shower when i was expecting Thomas, but yes not that common in england. Didn't want one with Harry as felt it would be a bit cheeky really considering i was expecting another boy. A girly lunch will be really nice though

 

[KendraNoell]

Claire yes I have had a few, especially after going up a flight of stairs or when I am over-exerting myself.

Wiped and had blood today (TMI) a little scared about that but I was out on the Harley with OH today and not sure if the pressure from the bike might have caused it.

No baby showers in the UK? Aww man you ladies need to bring it over there! So fun!

 

[MrsPTTC]

Hey ladies it was a year yesterday for the thread! Not that I was on it in the beginning, but happy anniversary x

 

[30mummyof1]

You wouldn't bloody believe it girls, my op was cancelled 15mins before!!It gets worse, the woman said to me but you can come in on wedneday and take some tablets and then go home to miscarry...um i've had a baby...its for a retained placenta.. then she says oh yes sorry! I really have no faith in them what so ever - what the hell are they going to do to me!
Plus they have no slots for procedure under local so gotta have a general now which i really didn't want but have no choice.
omg i am so angry right now, i hadn't eaten or drank all morning because the woman on friday said just in case they can't get it all out you might have to have a general so i could have saved myself feeling rubbish, lightheaded and dizzy.
After speaking to my other half - he said i'd phone back and just make sure of all the details as the woman didn't sound like she knew what she was talking about so i ring back to speak to someone in charge and guess who it is!
Sorry for the rant...just need to get it out!

 

[KendraNoell]

OMG WOW the fact that she didn't even know you weren't having a baby is pretty sad... maybe its a blessing in disguise, can you go somewhere else?

 

[30mummyof1]

Its the only hospital in the area unfortunately Kendra, but when i go in tomorrow for the bloods etc and to sign consent, i am going to read the paper work, word for word because i need to be sure they are doing the right procedure! Thats one of the reasons i prefered the idea of a local so i can still kinda be in control!

 

[MrsMM24]

RACH sooo sorry for the service and what you are having to go through, totally wish there was another place to go!


CLAIRE nesting phase, I totally remember that, thank goodness for it, because there was no time for straightening or anything once the LO was here!


KENDRA how are you feeling?


Hi Ladies :wave:


AFM... CD26/11DPO: Stalk my chart!! No tracking temp, just waiting on AF or BFP!! Was testing early today, but lost the nerve!! I am not feeling as hopeful, I have little to no symptoms really, but, you never know.... Trying to keep my focus. *FXD BFP before our angel's due date of 2.15.12*