Awww no Rach, cant you go a bit later in year, maybe april/may time? Its bloody cold in NYC in Jan aswell! Eeeekkk! Have you explained why you dont want too go then? Why dnt you comprimise n say 4 nights if you think 5 nights too long? Awwwe babe am sure the boys will be fine though but i know what you sayin bour it being Thomas's 2nd week at school think id still wana be taking Poppy myself then at least for first couple months! xx