Praying for a 2012 BFP and 2013 Baby!!!

[MrsPTTC]

Ah no Rach! Which hospital are they in now then? Did she give birth in the Newcastle RVI? Hope they get nearer home for xmas!

Tonight I'm working til 8pm and tomorrow I'm not sure if I'm doing overtime yet - I put my name down but it's names in a hat, will find out later - could do with doing it as baby fund is rather depleated! Then tomorrow night DH and I are round our friends house for a takeaway, then visiting my parents for tea on sunday night. Oh AND DH is putting the nursery furniture up tomorrow! x

 

[30mummyof1]

That's very nice of you dg, top friend
No mrsp, middlesborough, she said she was really scared, getting moved at last min.

Afm, out with my friend tonight for lots of drinkies! Can't wait as its been ages since i have seen this friend. Then sun am visiting a friend in her new home. Pm roast at inlaws

 

[Flowerbaby]

Hi ladies! I think it will be James Cook hospital in Middlesbrough, i was gona have Poppy there if there was no beds at my local hospital (as its really small mat unit) but i ended up havin c-sect anyway. Hope the triplets are doing well, shame bout the roundtrip they have too do every day, what a night mare for them!

Not upto much this weekend, been stayin at my mams for cple night so heading home this afty then goin too see MIL tmor for chat then out with my BFF and her little girl on sunday, think we gona take girls too softplay then i will stay at her sunday night. Spoke too my OH a few times, we trying too share house at min but im finding it hard staying with my parents as my dad is just in my face about the whole thing and wants answers and decisions too be made right NOW! And we just cant do that so i feel my dad is pushing me away from staying at theres as i cant do with bein around him at min, hes really pissing me off! Been looking at mqybe renting somewhere after xmas as Matt said he will buy me out house if it comes too that so i will get bit money but think i will just rent for 6 months too start with. Think i should get sum sort of workin tax credits etc too help me out with me bein part-time. God there is just so much too think about when you become a single parent, really quite scarey!!! On the otherhand at least its happenin whilst Poppy is still so young so she wont know any different as shes growing up. Just so sad isnt it!

Thanks for number Rach, i will keep in touch xx

Will defo be joing Facebook shortly as soon as i get chance! Xx

 

[30mummyof1]

Thanks for the update hun, yep facebook is ace for keeping up with everyone
Yes I can imagine there is so much to sort out, I've had quite a few friends in the same situation recently.

Took Thomas to softplay this morning, he played really well with the other kids there so I did relax a little thinking he can do it when he wants to. I love my couple of hours with just the one boy on a Friday morning

 

[30mummyof1]

Oh forgot to mention about Harry naughty Mummy!, his weight gain was much better this time after the 2oz in 4 weeks previously. This time 1lb 2oz and he's now over 20lb finally so he can get ready to go in the new car seat although will be sad to put the baby one in the loft

 

[MrsMM24]

CLAIRE, I can only imagine how difficult it is to try and share the house. I can imagine it is even harder to have to deal with "daddy and his babygirl" going through something like this and wanting answers. Hang in there! I know things are destined to get better soon.


Well, because I know you all can keep a secret.... Yes, we are hoping for a boy, need a little testosterone in the household, but will be EXTREMELY happy with a healthy baby of any gender! First time we spoke that "outloud" by the way so good luck "hearing" us speak it again until we find out next month....


I hope everyone had a wonderful Thanksgiving holiday that celebrated yesterday. Really kinda a good holiday for a pregnant woman

 

[MrsPTTC]

Hope you enjoy your night out Rach. Yay for Harry & his weight gain

Claire I feel so bad for you hun I really do My BFF has gone through the same this year, her LO is 18 months. It's horrid, I'm so mad at her DH, we were all so close . I can understand your dad annoying you, if only it was as simple as he thinks eh?! Hope you enjoy your time with your friend on Sunday. Glad you hear you're joining Facebook

Mrsmm did you feel guilty when you said aloud your sex preference for the first time? I felt awful! Even if it was just a teeny teeny preference!

x

 

[Flowerbaby]

Well hes just text n said hes goin out tonight, saturday and sunday, fuck me can he fit anymore lads time in this weekend? So much for wanting too see Poppy! I fucking hate him at the minute. Sorry bout my language am just so angry! He aint ever gona change and i need too face facts, hes a fuckin tosser! Grrrrrr.....rant over!!!

Awww MrsMM your secret is safe with us! cant wait for your next scan! what date is it so i know too look on here? so excited for you xx

Thanks for support ladies! Think its doin me good just too come on here n rant away! Lol!

How is your friend now MrsP? Did she completely split with her DH? xx

Great news about Harry!! Awww Rach it wont be long n the carseat will be back out for number 3 xx

 

[MrsPTTC]

Aww Hun What a tosser! I could slap him for you Hun Do his friends have kids? Do you think he's having some sort of mid life crisis?! Poor Poppy not seeing her daddy all weekend. My friend is doing ok thanks Hun. She's keeping herself busy, going out every week or two & has uni work to keep her going. It's definitely for good. Her DH cheated on her (once) they decided he'd move out for a bit but she had every intention of taking him back. He must've decided he was happier when they were apart & went all cold on her & they ended up arguing whenever they saw each other (also wasn't making much effort to see the LO) so she told him she had to make a decision & he chose his single life. I couldn't believe it, they hadn't been married 3years. I tell you what she did find helped, she read self help stuff on the Internet & said it helped her put things into perspective & move on - though I know this is early days for you & your dh. I'm praying that he'll see the light though Hun & realise what a prick he's being & come crawling back! X

 

[30mummyof1]

omg Claire, what a tosser that is well out of order I would be livid.

Yes had a good night out, well I say out it was more in! we stayed at mine till 11 walked around the corner to the local had 1 there and then walked to my friends house! oh well saved money on booze
but my oh had a few drinks with us last night and who is suffering this morning, yep him! I mean I don't feel fantastic but as a woman you just have to get on with it, especially with kids. men. You are so lucky mrsmm!

Your secret is safe with us mrsmm hope you get your wish

 

[deafgal01]

MrsM I hope you get your wish. It's always a nice thing when all of us get just the gender we hoped for with our babies. Even if we don't, we still love the ones we are blessed with.

How's everyone's weekend going? Sounds like everyone's having a ok/good weekend. I had some wine last night- didn't get buzzed but it was a fun night as I had 4 other people over and we were chatting and playing games. I have a girls' night in at a friend's place (she's single so it makes sense to do it at her place) for Magic Mike and drinks. Looking forward to that. It's not for a while yet but I'll be ready for it. Dec. 14th I've marked my calendar!

 

[MrsPTTC]

Rach! 1 drink at the pub! Ha ha. Glad you had a good night though .

DG Magic Mike is brill, you'll enjoy it! Channing Tatum, Mmm!

My plans have changed tonight, my friend who's also pg is ill so we're not going round anymore. So I'll be having a nice night in with dh & a takeaway

x

 

[30mummyof1]

yep we're doing that too mrsp nice indian and I think we're going to watch dark shadows with Jonny Depp

 

[deafgal01]

Oooh dark shadows is good!!!

 

[MrsPTTC]

Not seen that one will look out for it! We started watching Jack and Jill as DH is a big Adam sandler fan but he fell asleep so I stopped it & am catching up.on x factor instead I'll not be able to lie on the sofa with DH much longer, sooo uncomfortable & I swear I feel like I've put on another stone today! Bump is definitely starting to get in the way now haha x

 

[30mummyof1]

Just catching up now on x factor then have i'm a celebrity to fit in today sometime! as off to my friend's house this morning and roast at inlaws later

We didn't get round to watching dark shadows in end, but the curry was lush in my hungover body!

 

[MrsMM24]

Thanks! I guess we will find out soon. The gender scan is suppose to be December 31st... New Year's Eve.... We have an appt on the 4th but that is just a regular 16 wk appt.

 

[30mummyof1]

That will amazing finding out on new years eve mrsmm, lots to celebrate either way

How is everyone doing?

 

[MrsPTTC]

Aw yeah a happy new year that'll be!

I'm great thanks Rach. Finally decided on my nursery soft furnishings Mamas & papas have 20% off the Once upon a time range so I ordered it last night. No matching curtains though as still far too pricey so going for plain ones with the m&p's tie backs . How's you hun? X

 

[30mummyof1]

ahh lovely hun, I have m&p stuff with blue gingham curtains

Yes good thanks
Thomas has been such a sweetie recently. Always telling us how much he loves us and that we are his very best friends!
Harry took his first few steps yesterday, not done it since but still proud of the little fella! ahh love my little boys.