pregnancy buddies due in June 2009!

[happy mum]

Ok so i have a question/dilema!!

I'm not sure if i'm being negative as i don't like SIL. .... She has arranged a surprise 79th birthday party for FIL, its on Evie's birthday party day from 5pm her party finishes at 5pm then we have to clean and tidy hall. The in laws are coming to Evie party then going homw to find SIL has done a surprise party for them in they're home without either of them knowing. I have 2 main issues with this.... 1. its his 79th why not wait til80???? does she think hes not gonna make t?? seems well atm. and 2. I think its a bad idea doing it in their own home whilst they are out, bit wrong i wouldn't be happy. o and 3 they are gonna be knackered after going to a 3 year old s party. they are both 79 by the way!! I personally don't want to go as 1, will of seen then anyway half the day, and 2 i really don't need any stress hate moat of his family, o and 3, well all be knackered from doing party and just want to collapse!!
so what do you girls think???

 

[happy mum]

Cath I wont be annoucing anything about a name until the birth as how many times people dont like my choice does my head in also they dont seem to say anythin once baby is here x

Totally agree with you there!! i;m not saying any names till its here!!
Great news about scan!!!! before mine too i'm jealous!!! lol!! XX

 

[happy mum]

I know, it gets me really upset. I know sound petty but they are in door cats and I dont want them being fat, also when they have treats they dont eat their normal food! I had a cat before these two who only ate treats and flexi cat food but only the beef one and im not going back to that!

still undecided on a name............I think its prob going to be Bronwyn tho, but not announce it till the birth cos i cant stick people moaning at me!

Agree need to stick to your guns, or they'll walk all over you with baby!!

 

[ClaireyF]

oh my...as soon as i leave my desk for lunch everyone becomes really active!!

Nats i think you have the perfect excuse not to go to the party if you don't want! after all the kids will be tired after the party and so will you!

Cath, i can agree with what your saying about your cat! they need to know that when you say 'no' that you mean 'no' especially when you have your little girl.

We haven't told anyone josh's name except you lot

Well my galaxy bar is on the radiator at the moment, it wasn't the right temperature or texture so didnt satisfy my craving

xx

 

[Jkelmum]

Does SIL law know about your lil ones party ? if so then she should understand all what u are sayyin !
Also wont all the family at ur lil ones party be shatterd and not want another party in one day wether they are old or pregnant or not x

 

[Jkelmum]

Lol claire u know what the thought of chocolate makes me wanna puke its very strange i used to love chocolate !! OH always buys me thorntons for valentines day and i told him plz dont ...i want bath stuff lol

 

[ClaireyF]

Serina, id be so happy if DH bought me some bars of galaxy!!! x

 

[happy mum]

Does SIL law know about your lil ones party ? if so then she should understand all what u are sayyin !
Also wont all the family at ur lil ones party be shatterd and not want another party in one day wether they are old or pregnant or not x

I havn't spoken to SIL since my wedding 3 and half years ago!!
its just mil and fil coming to party. I think i'm just gonna bow out with kids saying we're too tired and i really don't need my bp to get any higher. its a good excuse think i'll stick to it!!
they all think the worst of me no matter what i do so i can't win so may as well do whats best for me and my kids!! god i can feel my bp rising just thinking about it!!

 

[happy mum]

Serina, i'll have the choc if you don't want it!!! LOL!!! only i prefer crunchie to thorntons!! cheap tastes!!!

 

[mrsholmes]

I wouldn't go Nat, but thats me Ive given up doing things I dont want 2! very very stange doing it a year before the 80th!!

Mum came back with box of Chocs, all sorted had a chat and I think she realises im not backing down! my father hasn't said much lol

serina really jealous of ur scan! I sooooooooooooo want one!

I think we are going to go for Bronwyn, it just seems right!

 

[Jkelmum]

Sounds like a good idea x

 

[happy mum]

I wouldn't go Nat, but thats me Ive given up doing things I dont want 2! very very stange doing it a year before the 80th!!

Mum came back with box of Chocs, all sorted had a chat and I think she realises im not backing down! my father hasn't said much lol

serina really jealous of ur scan! I sooooooooooooo want one!

I think we are going to go for Bronwyn, it just seems right!

Thanks, i think i've pretty much decided i'm not going, perhaps i'll arrange an 80th next year!!!

great you made up with your mum!! chocs always work for me!! XX

its lovely Bronwyn!! XXX

 

[ClaireyF]

Bronwyns a lovely name Cath

Nats i think you should host the 80th next year that would put you SILs nose out of joint lol xx

 

[happy mum]

Yeah i think i will!!! and you know what it'll be bigger and better!!! lol!!!
i mean for gods sake who has a 79th birthday party!!! unless they are really ill and unexpected to make 80!! i think i'd be offended that they though i was about to die!!

Clare if your chocs too cold i'll eat it for you!! lol!! god i really want some, why didn't i get any choc when i was out!!! arghhhh!! i also want a jammy dodger!!!!

 

[happy mum]

do you think we've filled in enough posts for jue when she gets back???? LOL!!

 

[Jkelmum]

No idea where as she gone ?
Its snowing fast and big flakes grrr

 

[ClaireyF]

i think youve filled enough for everyon Nats!!! don't worry about my chocolate, i left it on the radiator a bit too long and it was gooey but ive still eaten it xxx

 

[happy mum]

No idea where as she gone ?
Its snowing fast and big flakes grrr

she went to take katie to pre school!

argh! we havn't got any snow, send it my way!!! i love it!!

 

[happy mum]

i think youve filled enough for everyon Nats!!! don't worry about my chocolate, i left it on the radiator a bit too long and it was gooey but ive still eaten it xxx

that'll teach em being cheaky!!!

oo i like it cold, too messy when gooey! wish they did special deliveries for pregnant ladies....... its a chocolate emegency!!!!

 

[Jkelmum]

You can have it Nat I hate it it sets mine and katies asthma off !!