pregnancy buddies due in June 2009!

[mrsholmes]

thanks Jue! I just cant make cake......it always goes wrong

Hope u enjoy claire!

Finally got a doctors appointment 4pm! so im off work again I feel bad but it cant be helped!

 

[happy mum]

Thats great news you got an appointment at last cath!! and scan pic is great!!!

Clare glad you had great day at christening, wow they did it quick at 6 weeks!!!

Jue cake sounds great, did you get the shed up?? Dh did nothing to appologise we ended up having not too nice discussion, me crying mainly, had spent all morning crying then he comes home after lunch when i've fed and put kids to bed. told him i was thinking of divorceing him. jolted him abit. really fed up, so knackered. just thught one day of the year he could do something for me, i know we've got no money but, there are other ways of being romantic. anyway enough moaning not sure where this is going.....
anyway i need to try have lower blood pressure for midwife at 11am so stay calm!!! good job she didn't take it yesterday!!!
we all went to bed at 8pm last night we're all knackered slept till 7am so hopefully we'll all be in a better mood today! and only went the lou once a miracle!!
anyway i need to go back in post and get my june bugs logo... just couldn't be bothered yest! XX

 

[Jkelmum]

Hi all
cath great u have an appointment dr may sign u off
Nat sorry things with hubby are not so good
Hope ur BP is lower
Today we are not going anywhere i am doing the big clean my house is like a shite tip cos ive not felt like doing much nothing has got done
bk later xxx

 

[mrsholmes]

massive hugs Nat I can see me and oh having murders b4 the weekend as Im sure he still thinks he's single like his friends thats a dfferent story tho

same here serina, my house is a tip but not really up to cleaning, so im doing ebay as that does not involve moving!

Maybe he'll sign me off I cant see me getting better this week, and I have visitors the weekend, OH is on a stag do so my two friends from uni are staying and one has a little girl whos one (shes lush) and is bringing her. Gone are the days of 3 day benders, it will be pop for me!

 

[kittiekat]

Welcome back Hayley!! Have a good time today at your scan hun.

Hope docs goes well for you Cath

For nats

I am clearing up the spare room today then we can start to decorate it for Isabel

 

[mrsholmes]

how exciting! we are starting in march, have no idea what we are going to do tho......and i wish we coud settle on a name! lol Isabella/Isabel is out front runner still tho, but i dont like calling her/she/baby etc

just seen on this morning that Jade Goodys cancer is terminalits so sad for the two boys and her family

 

[kittiekat]

I know what you mean, no-one deserves cancer and to have to leave two little boys behind is just heart breaking

I can't wait to get started on the room but probably won't start it offically just yet. I haven't even thought about what colours, furniture etc lol. It is painted bright pink with playboy on the walls at the moment from when my foster daughter had the room lol.

 

[Jkelmum]

My lounge as been gutted lol if it wasnt away its been binned ...kids and hubby wont be happy but sick of tellin them all they need to learn ive hid katies DS let her think ive binned it as i found it under the setee....i had siatica when i had ethan and it feels like its coming back i cant walk up n down stairs

 

[mrsholmes]

oh pity! her face will be a picture!

oh no serina! I kills me to walk up and down the stairs 2. I want to have a shower but im worried ill get stuck! lol
will u get sick pay if u go off work?

U on half term Kat?

where everyone this morning?

 

[Rosella]

did u enjoy claire?

heres my 20w scan pic..........a bit late

awww, those are soo cute!!! i am so behind the times as ever! haven't time right now to go back on all the pages i missed, but hope you all had a lovely and romantic valentines!! x

 

[happy mum]

YIPEEE!!!
back from mw, bp down to 130/73 so much better than last weeks 139/92!!, you know the difference, i made dh come back from work and have the kids!!! hes working local!

Cath its tough on men to make the transition to being a parent, what age is he? that is one thing i can't complain about dh he only goes out with lads once every 2-3 mnths. shooting the same. My big complaint with Dh is i think he forgets me, and that being romantic isn't about having sex...... but i guess thats the old men are from mars thing!!
finally remembered to ask for mat b1 form and get other sure start form signed so can hopefully get some money soon!

it is quiet on here wheres Jue? i know clare said shes out for the day!

Hi Rosella, its tough catching up on this thread, speed read !! XX

 

[happy mum]

My lounge as been gutted lol if it wasnt away its been binned ...kids and hubby wont be happy but sick of tellin them all they need to learn ive hid katies DS let her think ive binned it as i found it under the setee....i had siatica when i had ethan and it feels like its coming back i cant walk up n down stairs

good idea, i feel like binning most of kids toys!! but they are too young to threaten.... yet!!

Hope your sciatica doesn't get worse thats a real pain!!!!!

i just nipped to co op to get some bits whilst dh had kids my bump really sore now from carrying heavy bags..... 3 4pt containers of milk, beans etc!

 

[Jkelmum]

Jue will be busy this wk due to it being half term

Cath i wont get sick pay but off this wk as its half term ...I didnt get it until after the birth with ethan they said it was sumat to do with me tryin not to push as they put epidural in ....At least then they drugged me up i cant have anything its come on suddenly so hubby will go mad as he will blame me cleanin up but sombody as to do it

Nat glad ur BP is down xxx

 

[happy mum]

Of course, half term!!! we've no play groups and the play centres get mad busy so i avoid them. just got a few play dates with friends this week, quite nice to just see friends one to one as never get to talk properly at playgroup its usually chaos!! if weather stays like this nice and sunny may even venture to park.... wooo hoooo!!!

 

[mrsholmes]

Hiya Gail, I know I got lost when im in work too!

sorry Nat forgot u was getting ur bp checked, glad its ok!

Just had a tect my best mate has had a baby boy 8.4oz all ok!

hes 26 im 4 months older than him. I think its hard for him to chage over night as b4 I was pg we were out every weekend and neither of us thought I would be pg so quickly. He plays football and he has a pint on a saturday and i normally pick him up about 8 which is ok as im normally out and about as well. But hes got a stag do the weekend and its friday and saturday however hes also going out on the thursday and sunday! all his friends are but NONE of them have a morgtage let alone a pg wife!
hes not romantic either but im not one for romance either so thats ok.
m just worried about when the baby comes we are going to be so skint we are not going to have the money for even a few pints on a sat!

Plus im a little jealous I cant drink go out

 

[happy mum]

Hiya Gail, I know I got lost when im in work too!

sorry Nat forgot u was getting ur bp checked, glad its ok!

Just had a tect my best mate has had a baby boy 8.4oz all ok!

hes 26 im 4 months older than him. I think its hard for him to chage over night as b4 I was pg we were out every weekend and neither of us thought I would be pg so quickly. He plays football and he has a pint on a saturday and i normally pick him up about 8 which is ok as im normally out and about as well. But hes got a stag do the weekend and its friday and saturday however hes also going out on the thursday and sunday! all his friends are but NONE of them have a morgtage let alone a pg wife!
hes not romantic either but im not one for romance either so thats ok.
m just worried about when the baby comes we are going to be so skint we are not going to have the money for even a few pints on a sat!

Plus im a little jealous I cant drink go out

hes still young, my dh is 47!! he could be your dad!! no wonder your a bit worried 4 nights on the trott!! mind i used to do that when i was 26 too!! i'm sure he'll realise he just won't be able to go out so much when bb arrives i'm sure he won't want to either, perhaps try get him to cut down to once a week? theres just no money in our pot for nights out, although do have a curry night planned on sat with girls i know from playgroup, they are going on to pub and dancing, i'll be going home to bed!. god i feel old!!! but i havn't been out since xmas so think i deserve a night out!!

 

[tink]

Serina,i think i just added you on facebook?????lol!from the bnb group.x

 

[Cariad_bach]

Lol nice to see i was missed
Been outside with the kids all morning, its soo nice and sunny, were not even wearing coats, just playing out will all there mates and im chatting to the neighbours .... had to pop in and see what you guys were up to tho lol xx

Nat you OH needs a slap lol, sorry things arnt great still, im sure he will start the groveling soon bless him, hows Dylan now?
Glad your BP was ok tho hun xx

Cath at last a Doc appointment now remember don't be fobbed off, how are you today? even if your a bit better remember how bad it can be and stress that today's just a good day because you had time off work to rest xx
Massive congrats to your mate by the way ... as for your OH i cant advise really, mine isnt one for going out and never has been (part of the reason i liked him lol) his EX wife used to call him (and still does lol) a grumpy old git but its the way i prefer him, im not one for going out either so were the perfect pair lol.
As soon as he hold his little girl for the first time he will realise what he needs to change in his life im sure xxx



Aww Serina i hope your sciatica isn't comming back ... take it easy hun and try not to do to much wont you xxx


Kat enjoy your redecorating hun ... hows things with your foster daughter? did you talk with her or the school?

 

[happy mum]

Hi Tink where are you from in Cheshire? i'm Audlem nr Nantwich?

 

[happy mum]

Thanks Jue, not sure what was up with dylan, just a cold i think but he is a boy after all!!! he was just up once in night 10 mins so not so bad!! don't you worry i've given him kick up ass!! dh that is!! think thats why came home for hour whilst i had bp checked!! we'll see, but i don't really fancy being a single parent the grass isn't much greener either!! so i think i'm better the devil i know!! just needs a few pushes in the right direction!!