Pregnant again after mmc

[Deniz]

Hi, maybe you remember me from mc support forum. I had a mmc in late July, it was my first pregnancy and at the end of the 9w brown spotting started to alarm me. My baby was 6th week old, I started to mc soon naturally .

Now I am pregnant again & today is my 6th week. I worry a lot, and especially today. The cramping started very early this morning with a backache, it should be normal as I don't have any spotting yet!

Maybe it was a coincidence but last time when I was in 6th week, I had itchy water blisters all over my hands, and a bad dream that I was completely in blood and crying to my husband for losing our baby. We thought then it was just a dream; but then when I learned that my baby had died at that time I was quite shocked. Normally I don't believe dreams etc, but it was just like a sign...

It would be wrong to say I am looking for signs this time; but I don't know. I just want to see my baby with a heart beat. I have a dr appointment Tuesday for my yellowish dc (hope it's normal), & an early scan 11 days later... I wish I could sleep 10 days without worrying. Thanks for reading...

 

[flump34]

Sorry to hear of your loss - a very similar story to mine... I now have a beautiful little girl and another baby in my tum.
It's impossible to not worry - just set yourself goals - each day is one day nearer the scan, so each day of "knickerwatch" without any show is a positive step forwards.

Good luck with it xx

 

[hb1]

It's so hard after a loss to imagine that you're going to be so lucky this time but the chances are that you will be holding your baby in 9 months time.

So sorry for your loss

Congratulations on your BFP

hx

 

[Mummy2Angel.]

I had a mmc in march and here i am almost 4 months gone good luck hun x

 

[Lollipop]

I am sorry for your loss. I had a mmc in june. It is so hard to act sane when preg and even more so when u have experienced a loss!

Your dream may have been your subconcious talking, I started having weird thoughts the day before i found out about my mmc. i just knew something was wrong even tho I had no symptoms at all! on my way home from work that afternoon, I just suddenly thought that my baby was gone. our womanly intuition can be so strong!

i do think tho that once u have experienced a loss like that, your internal communicators are a bit skewed and most of your worry is just paranoia!

I wish u all the best 4 this pg!

 

[Deniz]

Thank you. I am sorry for your losses. Good to share known stories.

You're right about paranoia Lollipop The good news is my dr is really understanding & because of my cm he arranged an earlier scan for Friday. 3 days to go!

Have a healthy pregnancies.

 

[Kas75]

Sorry for your loss.

Good luck at your scan, fingers crossed all is well xxx

 

[MadamRose]

Hi, maybe you remember me from mc support forum. I had a mmc in late July, it was my first pregnancy and at the end of the 9w brown spotting started to alarm me. My baby was 6th week old, I started to mc soon naturally .

Now I am pregnant again & today is my 6th week. I worry a lot, and especially today. The cramping started very early this morning with a backache, it should be normal as I don't have any spotting yet!

Maybe it was a coincidence but last time when I was in 6th week, I had itchy water blisters all over my hands, and a bad dream that I was completely in blood and crying to my husband for losing our baby. We thought then it was just a dream; but then when I learned that my baby had died at that time I was quite shocked. Normally I don't believe dreams etc, but it was just like a sign...

It would be wrong to say I am looking for signs this time; but I don't know. I just want to see my baby with a heart beat. I have a dr appointment Tuesday for my yellowish dc (hope it's normal), & an early scan 11 days later... I wish I could sleep 10 days without worrying. Thanks for reading...

i had a mmc in august 2009 my LO died at 7weeks but i carried until 11weeks like you then things happened naturally.

I fell pregant again jan 2010 and now have a lovely little girl. it isnt easy but gets easier once you get to 12 weeks.
In the pregnacy when i went on to have a healthy little girl i even had brown discharge 3 times at 5,6 and 8 weeks.
Just becuase you have had one miscarriage doesnt mean you have a higher risk of having another.
Hope all goes well for you, the scan will make you feel alot better x

 

[Deniz]

What a relief to hear nice stories after mmc. Thanks & congrats on your baby.

 

[bonnie08]

aww huni im sorry for your loss, i miscarried in April and fell pregnant again straight away which i again lost but i am now 17wks +3 with a little girl, once you have your altrasound you will be able to sleep easy, good luck ad i hope the next 10 days fly by for you lots of hugs xxx