Stickyplum
Praying it sticks tight!!
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Hello
I am 9 weeks pregnant and we were not going to tell my husbands (10 year old) daughter until we had the scan and knew if everything was ok. We have just found out that she overheard him and his mum talking on friday but didnt say anything despite staying with us all weekend but saved it until she saw her nanna and then the tears came and how upset she is that we didnt want her to know and we were keeping it from her!!! THis isnt the first time she has done things like this rather than speaking up she waits for the person who will give her the best impact!!
My husband has invited her for the scan now and i am quite annoyed!! HE may have done all this beofre but i havent and i would have liked to do all the firsts with just him.
His family think we should have her with us at all times to do with the pregnancy but i am sorry i dont want her there for everything. They dont seem to realise that this is my first pregnancy and i need to get my head around everything but to them the whole world revolves around their little princess. To the point of hearing how she will always be the favourite etc etc!!!
I may sound terrible but i feel like they are making my pregnancy totally about her when for the first time in my life it should be about me!! She did the same at our wedding did the tears of how she missed her dad so much (despite seeing him every other weekend and never ever phoning him in 3 years we have been together) so she got bumped up to the top table to sit next to her nanna. His entire family pander to her like she is so badly treated and sometimes i just want to shake them and say oh my god !!!
Does anyone else know what this is like? can anyone help?
Thanks
Vix
I am 9 weeks pregnant and we were not going to tell my husbands (10 year old) daughter until we had the scan and knew if everything was ok. We have just found out that she overheard him and his mum talking on friday but didnt say anything despite staying with us all weekend but saved it until she saw her nanna and then the tears came and how upset she is that we didnt want her to know and we were keeping it from her!!! THis isnt the first time she has done things like this rather than speaking up she waits for the person who will give her the best impact!!
My husband has invited her for the scan now and i am quite annoyed!! HE may have done all this beofre but i havent and i would have liked to do all the firsts with just him.
His family think we should have her with us at all times to do with the pregnancy but i am sorry i dont want her there for everything. They dont seem to realise that this is my first pregnancy and i need to get my head around everything but to them the whole world revolves around their little princess. To the point of hearing how she will always be the favourite etc etc!!!
I may sound terrible but i feel like they are making my pregnancy totally about her when for the first time in my life it should be about me!! She did the same at our wedding did the tears of how she missed her dad so much (despite seeing him every other weekend and never ever phoning him in 3 years we have been together) so she got bumped up to the top table to sit next to her nanna. His entire family pander to her like she is so badly treated and sometimes i just want to shake them and say oh my god !!!
Does anyone else know what this is like? can anyone help?
Thanks
Vix