suffolksarah
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Hi Ladies.
Just a little moan/rant i am afraid.
Now one of my best friends is neally 30 weeks pregnant, and i am so happy for her, i just find it quite hard sometimes.
I went to visit her yesterday and she spent a whole 2 hours moaning about how sick she feels, how she has to eat every 10 min to stop feeling ill, how shes up and down in the night for a wee and how 'stressful' he weekend was sorting through all the baby things shes been given and having to do hard work sorting the houise out for when baby arrives. There i am 'laughing' when i am suppose to, and 'sympathsizing' with all her hard work. Also she said she was pleased as she had only put on 4lb (shes quite a big girl) and i have managed putting on about 9lb though comfort eating!! GRRRR!!!
It really got me down, how i would give anything to be in her position, re-decorate and sort the house or be sick every 5 min for the whole 9 months, at least she gets to hold her baby at the end of it.
She keeps saying 'i wanted our babies to be best friends' i mean i did to but i cant do nothing to change that, can i?
Other friends run up to her and touch her tummy, hug her, and ask if shes chosen names. How i long for this to be me!!
It doent help that i had to go to hospital yesterday, just to have some Moles removed, had to cancel the first appointment because i had just found out i was preg. yesterday the nurse can up to me and said 'congratulation, we herd your news' and did a bump shape with her hands (as if i didn't know what she meant!) so i had to tell her 'no not any more!' I mean it was the same hospital i went for my ERPC 5 weeks ago, it must have been on my notes!
Anyway sorry for the rant, i feel it helps to get it out of the system, esspically as you guys understand, if i told my friends how i felt i would seem jelous and unhappy for her!
Thanks for reading, fx'ed we all get there soon xxx
Just a little moan/rant i am afraid.
Now one of my best friends is neally 30 weeks pregnant, and i am so happy for her, i just find it quite hard sometimes.
I went to visit her yesterday and she spent a whole 2 hours moaning about how sick she feels, how she has to eat every 10 min to stop feeling ill, how shes up and down in the night for a wee and how 'stressful' he weekend was sorting through all the baby things shes been given and having to do hard work sorting the houise out for when baby arrives. There i am 'laughing' when i am suppose to, and 'sympathsizing' with all her hard work. Also she said she was pleased as she had only put on 4lb (shes quite a big girl) and i have managed putting on about 9lb though comfort eating!! GRRRR!!!
It really got me down, how i would give anything to be in her position, re-decorate and sort the house or be sick every 5 min for the whole 9 months, at least she gets to hold her baby at the end of it.
She keeps saying 'i wanted our babies to be best friends' i mean i did to but i cant do nothing to change that, can i?
Other friends run up to her and touch her tummy, hug her, and ask if shes chosen names. How i long for this to be me!!
It doent help that i had to go to hospital yesterday, just to have some Moles removed, had to cancel the first appointment because i had just found out i was preg. yesterday the nurse can up to me and said 'congratulation, we herd your news' and did a bump shape with her hands (as if i didn't know what she meant!) so i had to tell her 'no not any more!' I mean it was the same hospital i went for my ERPC 5 weeks ago, it must have been on my notes!
Anyway sorry for the rant, i feel it helps to get it out of the system, esspically as you guys understand, if i told my friends how i felt i would seem jelous and unhappy for her!
Thanks for reading, fx'ed we all get there soon xxx