Pregnant, happy! Scared! What now?..

[Tishty]

Hello everyone...

6 months ago I had a tfmr after results from my cvs confirmed our baby had various problems. I was assured that it was a fluke of nature and nothing hereditary. After getting through the last 6 months and most of my due month very sadly I happily found out I was pregnant. Days after my due date in fact! I am over the moon. However as many of you know you try to stay calm as the worry of it going wrong is never far away! I am keeping positive though! But!! I'm 39 my partner 45 and I am worried about the health of my baby of course. I suppose I will be automatically considered for cvs considering my previous results. I guess I'm just asking for someone to comment... Talk about their experience... Or just say how you get through... I don't know anyone who has been through similar and everyone just says oh it will be ok but I suppose I would like to 'be around' people who understand a bit more how I'm feeling. Im here too if anyone else wants to just make contact.

Thanks for reading x

 

[scarolinarn04]

I haven't been through what you have. All of my losses were very early (before 7 weeks) and the cause is unknown. I just wanted to say that I am sorry for your loss and that I hope you have a happy & healthy 9 months. Welcome!

 

[Tishty]

Ah Thankyou for replying and your kind words. I'm very pleased to see your status is pregnant after your losses. They might have been early but I know I'm only 6 weeks now and feel v attached to this tiny dot already. It's always tough.... It might be worrying all over again but isn't it nice waking up and remembering your pregnant! X

 

[scarolinarn04]

It is great! I'm just hoping to see a heartbeat next Tuesday. I've only seen a heartbeat on one ultrasound and that one resulted in my wonderful little boy. Fingers crossed.

 

[Tishty]

Ah it will be fine, hopefully hear it too! How far along are you?

 

[scarolinarn04]

I should be 6 weeks 5 days today. Starting to feel very anxious- I've had 5 losses, but only two of those had an actual embryo develop. With both of those pregnancies, development stopped at 6w3d and 6w4d. Truly hoping this one is the one. Thanks for all your kind words as well and I hope you are doing well.

 

[Tishty]

Wow I'm 6+ 4 today! due date sept 2! You gotta think this is your turn for a successful pregnancy. God knows you deserve it! I feel very nervous but let's just look forward eh. We deserve this! Ok I will think of you on Tuesday. All the best luck in the world. Let me know how it goes. X

 

[natalie11char]

Please can I send you a link to my thread to give you my story...

https://babyandbump.momtastic.com/g...pre-natal-tests-please-help.html#post24617381

we are currently deciding on whether or not to try for a second baby knowing that there is a 50% chance it will end in TFMR due to a medical condition. It is something I am really getting stressed about and would love to talk to someone that has been through it... please read my post to get my story xxx

 

[Tishty]

Looking at it this instant. Be in touch xx

 

[natalie11char]

Incase you don't see it on my thread I saw your message Hun thank you, but cannot find how to reply or send you a message. Please do private message me if its easier you can email. [email protected]

Thank you Hun xxx

 

[Tishty]

In your in box now I reckon!

 

[pip2009]

Hi,

Sorry to hear of your loss but congrats on your pregnancy. I had a tfmr on 10th Nov as our little girl was diagnosed with T18 (Edwards syndrome) and we were devastated. I just found out yesterday that I am pregnant again and as well as being over the moon I am absolutely terrified that something will go wrong again. Its such a worrying time but I guess until our little ones are here with us it is natural to worry xxx

 

[Tishty]

Hi,

Sorry to hear of your loss but congrats on your pregnancy. I had a tfmr on 10th Nov as our little girl was diagnosed with T18 (Edwards syndrome) and we were devastated. I just found out yesterday that I am pregnant again and as well as being over the moon I am absolutely terrified that something will go wrong again. Its such a worrying time but I guess until our little ones are here with us it is natural to worry xxx

Congratulations!!! I'm sorry that that happened to you too...life is hard sometimes. We are lucky though to be here again and here we are excited scared happy nervous! You just have to get through the coming weeks one way or another. The early weeks are going slowly but I'm just enjoying being pregnant without anyone disturbing me and the baby. Stay positive. I'll keep an eye out for you pip! Good luck xxx