Pregnant women everywhere!!! argh!!

[iheartcookies]

i need a rant to cheer me up; ive abandoned facebook recently due to so many pregnancy status' even my friend since school who never wanted kids and has been with her partner a few months is pregnant and every 10mins writing a status about this pregnancy! im already living next door to pregnant girl and today somebody in the other house next to me has moved in....and shes pregnant!! im only 22 but she looks a LOT younger than me! i just want to move!

 

[mize]

Dear iheartcookies and everyone else out there that feels awful everytime they see a pregnant woman, a baby, baby things ect. I may not know everything (heck i'm still sans baby) but one thing I did to shift my thinking away from all these ill feelings is, I turned it around, flipped the switch. I know think of these as signs that are being sent to me trying to say "see this pregnant woman, that is going to be you soon" I know try to stand near them, ask to touch their bellies, get excited for them, because I know that one day (soon I hope) that will be me.

 

[nautegesocks]

im feeling the same the evil came yesterday so been feeling down and had to work today must have had at least 5 pregnant people come into my shop made me wanna cry a girl i know got pregnant after telling me and oh were crazy for trying as were still young..... ..... shes 3 years younger than me grrrr



good luck

 

[iheartcookies]

i re read what i wrote and my god i sound like a bitch! i think im too quick to jedge, i see a pregnant woman and get depressed because its not my turn!..they may have been trying for way over a year just like me! or longer!! and really really deserve this baby. i once read on this site somebody said 'how great it will be to tell our children we loved them way before they even existed' which makes me smile, thanks for your comment ladies, i always wish us luck, but screw luck 'the middle-man' i wish us happy healthy babies!!

 

[opera_lady24]

I was at church today sitting in the lobby and this dad had his six month old with him.I overheard him say "honeymoon baby...we just got married last year!" I know how you feel hun. One of my friends just had a baby in April, one is due in June...and I think just about every young couple in my church is either trying, pregnant, or new parents. Sigh! I see babies everywhere! I agree with Mize though. One day it will be me!

 

[ty11]

I was saying exactly the same thing yesterday, my sister in law who is round my house every weekend has 8 weeks left until she has her baby girl, I was saying I am struggling to put on a brave face, I know its not her fault but it is just so gutting when she was not even trying and came off the pill in the Aug and was pregnant by the october ggrrrrr
At least you know you will find someone on here who can sympathise and totally understand how you feel!! Hurry up the BFP!!! xxxx

 

[kimberly17]

I totally agree!! Here's my rant: I work in a hospital where 5 of my coworkers are pregnant and last night another one comes in all "oh by the way im 6 weeks pregnant and the dr thinks it might be twins"
And none of these 6 women planned or were even trying to get pregnant!!!
But I just keep reminding myself that my time is coming soon!
5 days till i test!!

 

[Cara89]

Oh, how I know what this feels like. DF & I have been trying for over a year and it seems like someone, who was either not trying or didn't WANT to get a BFP is announcing the good news. Within a month I found out my cousins gf, one of my friends and 3 of my co-workers was pregnant... and not one of them had wanted to be in that situation. Of course I am excited for them because I love everything related to babies, and i am friends with them all, but i can't help but thinking... When is it my turn?!

 

[Mac82]

Wow, it is such a relief to know that I am not the only person that finds it so utterly heartbreaking when you see another woman walk past with a beautiful baby belly. I get so upset over the littlest things like walking past a shop full if baby clothes and then feel like a bitch when I see a pregnant lady and wish it was me and not them. I have even got angry with my sister in law because she has just had baby number 4 and I can't even get out number 1. Well thanks for letting me rant and I wish you all the best of luck on your journeys over the coming months.

 

[misslissa]

My SIL announced she is 14 weeks pregnant ladt week, one of my best mates announced she is preggo with her THIRD and I went to a wedding on sat and was the only female not pregnant on my table. It's been a hard couple of weeks! Especially as I've been questioning the timing of us having a baby.

 

[kimberly17]

My SIL announced she is 14 weeks pregnant ladt week, one of my best mates announced she is preggo with her THIRD and I went to a wedding on sat and was the only female not pregnant on my table. It's been a hard couple of weeks! Especially as I've been questioning the timing of us having a baby.

I would take this to mean that you are next!!
I am the last person at my workplace that isnt pg or doesnt have a child. Currently there are 6 pgs where I work!!
I just know that I am next!!
Praying for that
for you
Stay positive!!

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[ADQ]

It is definitely a relief to know that that I am not alone with the heartache that can surround ttc and having everyone suddely becoming pregnant. Since I've been ttc at least 5 of my friends have come out preggo, along with the 1000 other woman I see everyday! I feel so happy for them and yet so jealous and sad inside I try to keep a positive outlook though, I keep telling myself that it will be me and my love walking around with a beaner in this mobile incubator (me) lol... I hope we all get our healthy babies soon!!!!!

 

[iheartcookies]

My SIL announced she is 14 weeks pregnant ladt week, one of my best mates announced she is preggo with her THIRD and I went to a wedding on sat and was the only female not pregnant on my table. It's been a hard couple of weeks! Especially as I've been questioning the timing of us having a baby.

that must have been hard being only one on table..i feel out of place atm being the only one on street not preggo, excluding the old girls that live down here....i really dont want to be in the granny gang...and these walls are paper thin so once theve had their babies ill be hearing the night cries..thatll be the hardest..im already looking into moving as i cant handle that!!

 

[mg80]

I heart Cookies, aww you poor thing. You must really be upset by it to be thinking about moving. I think I would feel the same as you tho. I hope you get your Big Fat Positive soon xxx

 

[court.]

I'm so glad there are ladies that understand

I am currently living with my inlaws as our house is waiting to be built. He has a younger sister ( just turned 19) and she is pregnant.... so I'm literally around it almost 24/7. I really just try my best to spend time outside the house and have my alone time cries everyonce in awhile My turn will come, hopefully soon.

 

[Armywife84]

i need a rant to cheer me up; ive abandoned facebook recently due to so many pregnancy status' even my friend since school who never wanted kids and has been with her partner a few months is pregnant and every 10mins writing a status about this pregnancy! im already living next door to pregnant girl and today somebody in the other house next to me has moved in....and shes pregnant!! im only 22 but she looks a LOT younger than me! i just want to move!

Ugh, don't even get me started on FB. I've deleted every pregnant woman on my list who brags about their pregnancy. I got sooo fed up with the statuses, bump, and ultrasound pics that I had to do something to cope. The very few pregnant women left on my list don't boast about their pregnancy, hardly get on, or this is their 2nd child. I still hide their feed just in case.

I've been trying to patiently wait my turn for the last 16 months..my SIL who is already blessed with 1 yr. old twins on her first round of Clomid is unexpectedly pregnant with her third. I'm married to the oldest and we are still childless.