Problem - it's molar (quick update p4)

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:hugs: Dan-o I'm so sorry for you. I hope your luck gets better and I'm praying for you. I hope you find out more answers soon.
 
sweetheart i just saw this!! im really sorry :( big huggles to you and if u want to chat hunny pm me lotsa love xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
 
So sorry Dan-O, we are all here for you if you need us, keep us updated :hugs:
 
Oh hun, im so sorry to hear this.... ive been kinda following your story
we pregnant near the same time also m/c near the same time... i am
truely sorry to hear this if you need to talk just PM me anytime :) :hugs: :hug:
 
Hi Dan-o - so sorry to read this :(
Sending :hugs: to you chick.

I don't know anything about molar pregnancy, but did want to say that although it may not feel like it right now you do have time (I am 37 - this is our first child). I really hope you get really good medical help and support. :hug:
xxxxxxx
 
Oh Dan-o, just read this properly after leaving you a message in team angels - so sorry. I know how absolutely gutted you must feel at this point.
I wanted to let you know that I had my first pregnancy 3 years ago when I was 35, so although I recognise how you feel about time, body clock and all, you have lots of time still so try not to be too disheartened. One day you'll have a LO in your arms and you'll want to stop time passing so you can just hold them forever. Wishing you the best for now:hug:
 
Really sorry to hear your news Dan-o. I know how hard it can be to try and get your first pregnancy as I too am still waiting for it to happen after 3 mcs. I don't know much about molar pregnancies but a friend of a friend went on to have a baby after something similar to what you've got. Don't give up hope x
 
im so sorry hon it must be so hard we are here for you xxxxxxxxx
 
Thanks guys & for all your advice & hugs.

I've spent the whole day wondering what happens next... & wondering why..

Why after 6 ultrasounds did they never see any sign of a mole?
Why have I not had any symptoms of a molar pg?

Maybe I can't see the wood for the tree's, but I'm actually starting to doubt the diagnosis until I get concrete evidence.

Sitting around waiting 4 weeks for the report from the specialist isn't going to do me any favours either. Ugh!

I called the gyne ward today so I could get my hCG results from yesterdays blood draw & they wont tell me even though it's there on the screen :growlmad:

For gods sake it's MY body, why am I not allowed to know whats going on? :grr:

This is all getting too much, I think my heads going to explode :hissy:
 
I've been reading through this post trying to find some words to make you feel better and to take away your pain. But there aren't any. There are just lots of ladies who are thinking of you and hoping that your physical problems are solved very soon and that your emotional pain becomes more bearable.

Hang in there :hugs:
 
I often wondered if you were ectopic.... the HCG, no sign of foetus etc. Have they ruled that out for sure? i am sorry if I am adding to your confusion by adding another option, however from what I have read you are consistent with ectopic, more so than the little I know about molar.
I am thinking of you.
XXXX
 
I know what you mean mazza, I wondered about it too. They thought I was possibly tubal at first, but then ruled it out, especially when I told them I'd had no bleeding.

I think if it was an ectopic now, it would have to be a new pregnancy, owing to my dates.

Unfortunately, this is slight possibility, as we were told there was no need to prevent until yesterday & my progesterone quants suggest ovulation has occured.

I'll just have to wait that one out, hCG goes up a little bit with an ectopic doesnt it?
 
Dan-o I'm so sorry you are still going through the mill, I really hope this resolves itself for you and you don't need further treatment xxxx
 
Hi Dan-O

I just wanted to send you some :hugs: and support and to let you know I am thinking about you and understand your fears and frustrations.

If it helps, please message me privately if you want. I am a medical scientist and am going through the same as you and although I may not have all the answers, I hope I can help you make sense of this awful situation.

It's hard when you are still recovering from the MMC to then be told even more bad news :hissy:. I felt just how you did when I found out about the possible molar - like I'd just been thrown against a wall, not knowing what's going on with your body/feeling like it has let you down in some way :cry:

It's awful when no-one understands what a molar pregnancy is and you have to explain it to them - it's worse that there's not enough information out their either - but please get in touch if you need more info or just for a good old rant and rave about the unfairness of it all :hissy:
 
I can't offer advice on any of it, so just wanted to let you know I'm thinking of you and hope you can get back to TTCing as quickly as is possible once your body and heart heals from this horrible time you're having to go through. :hugs:
 
Hi again, my hcg was rising, although slowing and it think you probably would be rising, however I am not 100% sure if this is always the case.

I also didnt bleed the whole way through, I had a few days on and a few days off for 6 weeks

You have a right to see what is on file. What is the next stage? Do you have a follow up, and if not could you get one to discuss the hcgs at the very least.

I really want to take some of your pain. This has been tortourous for you. XXX
 
dan-o said:
Thanks guys & for all your advice & hugs.

I've spent the whole day wondering what happens next... & wondering why..

Why after 6 ultrasounds did they never see any sign of a mole?
Why have I not had any symptoms of a molar pg?

Maybe I can't see the wood for the tree's, but I'm actually starting to doubt the diagnosis until I get concrete evidence.

I'm so stressed out already & sitting around waiting 4 weeks for the report from the specialist isn't going to do me any favours either.

I called the gyne ward today so I could get my hCG results from yesterdays blood draw & they wont tell me even though it's there on the screen :growlmad:

For gods sake it's MY body, why am I not allowed to know whats going on? :grr:

This is all getting too much, I think my heads going to explode :hissy:
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Crucify them! Oh sorry, wrong era. *hugs* hang in there Dan-O, you've been so strong this far. They all sound like a right bunch of twats don't they?
 
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