thanks doddy0402
i daren't tell my DH how much i've spent on this whole ttc thing so far!
but your right, i keep thinking, if someone came to me and said i could buy a healthy BFP for X amount then i'd do it so its all justified.....somehow!....
How'd your doc appt go C&J?
I rang my docs this morning to tell them i'd mc because after the perfermance and time wasting i had with last mc i didn't think they'd be bothered about seeing me but they actually sent me to emergency gyaenacology at the hospital straight away.
Had a preg test there which came back BFN as i expected and had some swabs done for infections but they said they won't do anymore till its my third mc coz they reckon its just bad luck.
Actually C&J i felt the same as you- i don't think they truly believed i ever had a BFP. The doc must have asked me about 10 times, "so, you have had a positive test then?" and "so, it was a home test you bought from a shop then?" - what the hell else would i have used??!??! I told them i actually took about 12 tests, of 4 different brands, some digital, some not. All said positive. its because when i went to docs on friday to tell them i had a BFP they said "good enough for us- we'll scan u at 12 weeks" and did knack all else - i knew i should have made them test my bood to confirm it.
at least they treat like a complete idiot like they did last time and ask me if i'd bought my tests from a pound shop because they're not always reliable...
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sorry that turned into a bit of a rant but its so frustrating when i know that i know more about this stuff then the people who are suppoed to be helping me. I even had to explain how a OPK worked to the doctor last time! The doc today was like, "well how can YOU know when you ovulated if your not on any special meds" -
I should tell them they need to get thereselves on BnB to update their knowledge base shouldn't i?!