Question and advice, please...

[xclairex]

aww honey well its up to u now and we are here to listen to u do what u want as its ur baby and ur body dont worry bout anyone else its u and ur bean lol hope everything goes ok and u make the right choice for u xx big hug your way xx

 

[Rumpskin]

Hi Nikky

I was just thinking of you.

At least you know now that you are defo pregnant and you have some time to really think about what you want.

This decision is a very difficult one for you to make. Your parents may be disappointed at first but I am sure whatever they decide, they will be behind you 100%.

If it helps, keep chatting to us.

Good luck with your decision xx

 

[nikky0907]

thank you,you guys are great.Currently only one of my friends now so you help.Surprisingly,it's a relief to know for sure and not a nightmare,I've calmed down,I'm functioning and I'm not freaking out.But I am been very very sick most of the time....I think that I will decide by myself and when I do,I will tell people...xxx

 

[TashaAndBump]

You're doing well. Keep us updated. x

 

[BurtonBaby]

Hello,
I know it can be very scary finding out your pregnant. I'm married, but am only almost 21. Me and DH had a lot of plans for the near future, and we didn't plan our pregnancy, but its turned out to be the best part of our life. Even still, when I saw that BFP, and waited for DH to get home and tell him, I was scared. We went the next day and took another (digital one) to make sure! We were both terrified of what our parents and family would say, since some of them thought we were too young to be married anyway... But surprisingly they have ALL been incredibly supportive and loving. It has even brought my relationship with his family closer, and vice versa. I've had a couple friends that have had abortions, and to be honest, I didn't even consult with them about it for a while. I knew that I would not have one, but still, I could imagine that would be some of their advice.
You probably would feel much better if you tried talking to your family about it. It might be scary at first, and they may have a negative reaction at first. But when they think about the reality of a new baby coming into their lives, they will support you 100%.

Good luck, I hope you make the best decision for yourself. And dont forget that if you decide you can not raise the baby, adoption is another great option. Oh, and one more thing, PLEASE try to remember, that although birth control is USUALLY good for preventing pregnancy, it does not protect against STD's.

 

[nikky0907]

congratulations...but I'm sure that my parents are not gonna be understanding like yours,I know them and that's why it's important for me to decide before telling them...

Actually,I'm kinda having a hard time thinking about an abortion,I can't imagine it...but I'm sure that in about 2 hours that will change...xxx

 

[bird24]

why in 2 hours hun?

Have you spoken to the guy about it?

Hope your ok xxx

 

[nikky0907]

That was just an example...I meant to say that one day I keep changing my mind...I haven't told anyone but my best friend...xxx

 

[bird24]

Oh sorry hun just thought you were getting to tell someone or something in a few hours

how you feeling?

Is your friend being supportive? hope so

 

[xxleannexx]

hiya jus wanted to say i kno exactly how you feel as i fell pregnant and im only 18 and im no longer with babies father. i was completely shocked as i had taken the morning after pill, i booked in to have an abortion but obv didnt go through with it, for me that was the best thing ever, but everyone is different. luckily when i did tell me parents they were suprisingly supportive, but shocked that would be having a baby in the house! i kno how you feel about keep changing your mind as i kept doing that, its the worst thing i have ever had to go through so my sympathy is with, and whatever decision you make it will be for the best. good luck with everything hun, it will turn out fine in the end

 

[nikky0907]

thanks,I appreciate your advice,it's nice to talk to other people in similar situations and see how they feel...xxx

 

[lfc_sarah]

Recently I broke up with my boyfriend and had a one night stand with the guy I know from campus.That was 2 weeks ago

My pregnancy is confirmed.I'm 7 weeks along(that's alot).

You said a few days ago that you had a one night stand 2 weeks ago....
Are you sure it couldnt be your ex's if you are 7 weeks along? and youve recently broke up with him?

 

[nikky0907]

Yes I'm sure that is not my ex's because we broke up 2 monts ago but we did not sleep together at least 3 weeks before breaking up....I'm not exactly sure when that happened...maybe at the time it seemed like two weeks but I'm sure now that it's been more...When I really thought about it I remebered that it was a little after new year but in all my fear and panic I spaced out...or maybe I'm carrying the next savior...ha

 

[lfc_sarah]

Yes I'm sure that is not my ex's because we broke up 2 monts ago but we did not sleep together at least 3 weeks before breaking up....I'm not exactly sure when that happened...maybe at the time it seemed like two weeks but I'm sure now that it's been more...When I really thought about it I remebered that it was a little after new year but in all my fear and panic I spaced out...or maybe I'm carrying the next savior...ha

Good luck in whatever you decide to do anyway xxx