I am 35. Opted out of all the testing. Instead had a level 2 ultrasound at 20 weeks. I wanted nothing to do with the stress of false positives and high ratios when they are just that.... Ratios. Would do it exactly the same if I was to do it over again.
Thank you. I am so sorry for all you went thru but am thrilled you beat the odds! My husband and I had a long talk with my doctor and we all agreed that if something was seen at 20 weeks we still had plenty of time to prepare for whatever may come our way. I have seen too many people (in life and on here) who get these random ratios and suffer with severe anxiety for weeks on end until their next test. Unfortunately, on the flip side I've also seen the sad cases where someone was given an amazing ratio of 1:20,000 and lost a baby to one of these awful abnormalities. I respect everyone's opinion on the subject and did what was right for my family.I am 35. Opted out of all the testing. Instead had a level 2 ultrasound at 20 weeks. I wanted nothing to do with the stress of false positives and high ratios when they are just that.... Ratios. Would do it exactly the same if I was to do it over again.
I really admire you for that, I wish I had been brave enough not to, particularly what I was put through and had two perfect babies xxx
You're most welcome, it's so hard to know what to do for the best! Im lucky that my children were ok but you are so right, severe anxiety it was, especially with my son as it ruined the rest of my pregnancy, the birth and his first few days before I could accept he was ok. Everyone has to do what's right for them but it's a hard decision when the tests have been so wrong xxxxxxThank you. I am so sorry for all you went thru but am thrilled you beat the odds! My husband and I had a long talk with my doctor and we all agreed that if something was seen at 20 weeks we still had plenty of time to prepare for whatever may come our way. I have seen too many people (in life and on here) who get these random ratios and suffer with severe anxiety for weeks on end until their next test. Unfortunately, on the flip side I've also seen the sad cases where someone was given an amazing ratio of 1:20,000 and lost a baby to one of these awful abnormalities. I respect everyone's opinion on the subject and did what was right for my family.I am 35. Opted out of all the testing. Instead had a level 2 ultrasound at 20 weeks. I wanted nothing to do with the stress of false positives and high ratios when they are just that.... Ratios. Would do it exactly the same if I was to do it over again.
I really admire you for that, I wish I had been brave enough not to, particularly what I was put through and had two perfect babies xxx
1)What was your risk rating?
2) What is your age?
3) Would you have it done again?
Thanks