kaylacrouch93
Mommy of 3 little monkeys
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Here is a lil background
1. i left BD when i was 9 weeks pregnant due to abuse
2. met OH when i was 3 months got married when i was 6 months.
Okay so Since i left my BD he wanted nothing to do with me nor "our" child until my son was almost 3 months old and then it was just phone calls every couple of days. He says horrible stuff about me and my oh like "He aint his dad and other stuff" my oh is the only dad my son has known. BD came and seen Evan 1 time when he was 6 months old & he wouldnt change him or nothing he really didnt spend time with him either all he did was feed him in the 6 hours he was there. Well fast foward a month later BD is in jail for 3 months now Evan is almost 10 months old and he wanted me to let him come get him 2moro for a few hours and take him back to where he lives ( 2 hours away) this is what i said.
i aint keeping him from you but he is 10 months old and u havent seen him but once and thats your fault we had a agreement that once u and him have a bond u could have him for a couple of hours...
& now he is on this thing about getting a lawyer what would you ladies do in my situation. oh just to add he has never contributed to be a dad in any way shape or form
1. i left BD when i was 9 weeks pregnant due to abuse
2. met OH when i was 3 months got married when i was 6 months.
Okay so Since i left my BD he wanted nothing to do with me nor "our" child until my son was almost 3 months old and then it was just phone calls every couple of days. He says horrible stuff about me and my oh like "He aint his dad and other stuff" my oh is the only dad my son has known. BD came and seen Evan 1 time when he was 6 months old & he wouldnt change him or nothing he really didnt spend time with him either all he did was feed him in the 6 hours he was there. Well fast foward a month later BD is in jail for 3 months now Evan is almost 10 months old and he wanted me to let him come get him 2moro for a few hours and take him back to where he lives ( 2 hours away) this is what i said.
i aint keeping him from you but he is 10 months old and u havent seen him but once and thats your fault we had a agreement that once u and him have a bond u could have him for a couple of hours...
& now he is on this thing about getting a lawyer what would you ladies do in my situation. oh just to add he has never contributed to be a dad in any way shape or form