Aphy
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I am hoping that I am not abnormal in finding some days easier to deal emotionally with ttc than others...then I get days like today where if one more person tells me to "stop thinking about it,stop planning,it will happen when you least expect it" then I want to scream. Don't get me wrong,I fully understand that the family/friend/colleague means it in the most supportive and best way possible but my mind wants to scream "how can anyone who really wants a baba NOT think about it?" And when this advice comes from someone who fell pregnant extremely easy then it's even more difficult for me. I sometimes just wish they would consider what they say since that advice is definitely not relevant to someone who has potential PCOS and has been ttc for a while without results...you have to think/plan it! I really appreciate their well meaning and loving advice but some days it either makes me want to burst out crying or scream in frustration. I honestly would just prefer a big hug without any words. Am I being mean? I know I'm hormonal currently which probably plays a role in this rant too and because I know I'm sensitive I will obviously never ever voice a single one of my feelings out loud to them but it still hurts inside 😔