Maybe I am just being a bit over emotional due to hormones but my MIL really upset me this evening. I am about to go on maternity leave and my colleagues brought me some baby related presents and one of them is a baby record book. I am only taking 3 months off work which is not very much in the UK but I am a teacher so will only go back to work for about 4 weeks before I am off again for another 2 months. The reason for the short maternity leave is my place of work only gives me statutory maternity pay and I am the main breadwinner we just can't really afford me to take more time off. Anyway DH will be primary carer of our son whilst I'm working and I will take over so he can take on more work whilst I'm on school holidays. I already feel guilty about this. We have had a long emotional journey to get this far and our lil man is definitely much longed for. Anyway DH was showing her the baby record book I was given and my MIL said to my DH you are going to have to write in that as Louise (me) is going to miss all that. I don't think she realises how guilty I already feel. I know DH does as I've spoken to him about my fears. It just really upset me. I just want to do my best by my son. And I wish we could afford it that I could be a stay at home mum but our situation just hasn't worked out that way. I just not sure how I am going to cope with going back to work and feeling like I am missing out on so much.