RANT!!!! :( (Pointless thread)

[ItsMagic]

So I'm currently living with my father and brother until OH and I find our own apartment. The other day I got in a huge fight with my brother and his girlfriend who is ALWAYS here and does NOTHING around the house to help. Anyway...I complained to them about how they do nothing, and how she could very easily do stuff around the house since he sleeps all day and she just sits up in his room doing nothing....all day.....she even stays the night....anyway...She told me that she has No responsibilities here since she doesn't live here. She sleeps here, eats here, goes to the bathroom, she even showers here! She usually showers with my brother, but he's asleep atm and she just went into the bathroom and took a shower! How the hell is she going to tell me she has no responsibilities here because she doesn't live here, if she's acting like it??? If you don't live here, then stop showering here! Then I end up having to wash her towels. This causes me to have to do laundry more often as well because then people run out of towels because she uses a new one each time she showers. I'm not going to put up with this. What the hell do I say? Do I say anything? I asked my dad to say something to her about it, but he works all day and if he's not here, she's not going to listen.

 

[RinnaRoo]

Oh, she lives there. If youre paying some bills, then you have a say, if not, I guess thats just something you have to deal with. Good luck!

 

[Fiore]

Hide the towels xx

 

[ItsMagic]

Hide the towels xx

Haha. I'd love to do that but I don't have the heart to do that. I am paying bills. I'm helping out as much as possible, and I do ALL of the housework. Not some, not half, ALL. I buy food, I buy shampoo, toothpaste, soap, dish soap, laundry soap, just about anything that I could possibly buy, I do. I am dealing with it as best as I can, but it is so hard because she's enough that she can help out around the house, especially if she's acting like she's living here when she doesn't. I guess I let things get to me too much, which isn't good for me or the LO. I need my own place. lol

 

[ItsMagic]

Oh, she lives there. If youre paying some bills, then you have a say, if not, I guess thats just something you have to deal with. Good luck!

And by the way, your baby is gorgeous! He is so effin cute!

 

[Fiore]

Oh, she lives there. If youre paying some bills, then you have a say, if not, I guess thats just something you have to deal with. Good luck!

And by the way, your baby is gorgeous! He is so effin cute!

Haha! I was about to post the same!!xx

 

[Eskimobabys]

Oh, she lives there. If youre paying some bills, then you have a say, if not, I guess thats just something you have to deal with. Good luck!

And by the way, your baby is gorgeous! He is so effin cute!

Haha! I was about to post the same!!xx

i have to agree that 2nd pic in ur siggy makes me giggle everytime!

o.p is she saying she just a guest?! well then if so she has OVER STAYED her welcome! Bootter out! i'd tell her she cant shower here bc i buy that soap i wash those towels so go to ur own house and wash ur stinky twat! bc ur staining all my towels!! hahah okay that was mean but really okay she dating ur brother doesnt mean she can be a live in guest esp if she doesnt even have the common courtesy to help out around the joint!

 

[ItsMagic]

Haha, she just comes over everyday. That was hilarious, the twat remark. But I just don't want drama! I wanted so bad to say something to her, but I didn't want to deal with it. *sigh*

 

[meggabear]

I'm sorry your having to deal with this. and I commend you for trying to be patient and the better person, but you need to put your foot down because its your hard spent money going down the drain due to her lack of respectability, if she is going to stay there every night then she should have the decency and respect to help out. We all totally back you here about talking to her and putting your foot down with her, if she will not contribute in any way then she brings her own food, her own towels and her own soaps if she is going to be a rude twit