Rant & Update On Jordyn, OH + I

[kaylamariee]

So, this may be a bit long..
First off, went to an OB appointment last week, just a checkup and such.
She gave me the results to the test for down syndrome and its a 1:17000 chance , I knew everything was fine !
Jordyns been kicking me more and more. She's close to my ribs now, which is scary because this kids like a pro boxer !
I almost peed my pants doing the dishes the other day because she kicked so hard, OH is like what are you doing? While I was crossing my legs trying not to let go LOL, so embaressing..
We started her room and as soon as I'm at a computer ill post pics
Its adorable, I got a pink animal crib set and it has polka dots on it.
I got pink and brown dot wall decals and put them just on one wall. Can't wait for my bbg to see it

Also, its been kind of stressful over here because valentines day I had to go to court with OH for charges he had over a year ago..
He got 3 months house arrest and 12 months probation.
He will be off house arrest May 14th, we only have a month before the babys here.. We wanted to get married before she's here, get pictures done etc..
Its so stressful sometimes !
But atleast he didn't go to jail, which was what he was supposed to get at first for 14 months !
I wouldve been so depressed.
I love him sooo much..
Sometimes it seems as though he's not as connected to baby as I am though, which irritates me.
He hardly feels my bump.
Also, I don't think we'll be having sex till after DD's here..
He told me in the beginning after a certain point I won't want to have sex because it "weirds him out"..
Wtf !! What am I supposed to do for three months?!

Anyways, rant over.. Just needed to get that out x

 

[magic93]

Lol its only guna get worse on almost peeing your pants...
But thats great for your downsyndrome test results
Sounds like your guna have an adorable nursery!
Thats too bad about your situation with your OH but jus be happy hes not in jail.. It could be alot worse! I can relate to that, because of old shit my OH has been in jail since i was 5 weeks along, and i am now 39 weeks so unless theres some kind of miracle i will be giving birth without him n starting off on my own.
Anyways i am sure he is jus as connected to the baby as you jus in a different way obviously, but once she is here everything will change.
And as for the sex dont really know what to say.... Since i havent had sex since i got my bfp pretty much lol
Good luck hun hopefully he changes his mind.

 

[kaylamariee]

Thanks Magic
Yeah.. She always goes for my bladder! When I wake up in the middle of the night and have to pee, it hurts so fcking bad.
How long will your OH be in jail? it sucks eh, on his courtdate I thought he was going away and I wouldve balled my eyes out. If you ever wanna pm, feel free
And as for sex, I talked to him bout it today and he said he was always uncomfortable with it since like 3 months, he just did it to make me happy ! Lol, what an ass he said 'well guess you'll have to get a vibrator' and was completly serious
Well, I might just have to haha

 

[magic93]

Omg i know in the middle of the nights the worstt!
Thatll get worse to my LOs head is so low and its putting so much pressure on my bladder.
Yeah it totally sucks more then anything, but gotta stay strong for the LO! I dont even know if or when my OH is getting out. Jus taking it day by day right now, hoping for the best and preparing for the worst!
Oh man i dont know why some guys are so uncomfortable with it. But hey your little girl will be here soon and things will go back to normal in the bedroom eventually.