OMG I am sat at my desk crying, but it is spot on.
I sent this to my hubby and check out his reply,
"I'm sorry that I didn't really understand the full picture of how hard it is but that has cleared a lot of things up I will try to be more supportive and I'm sorry if you fill you have been doing it all on your own x"
I am a blubbering wreak now but thank you for posting