daisydoo
Mummy to Oliver & Amelia
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Hi!
During birth I ended up with episiotomy and 3rd degree tear due to forceps and although its all a bit of a blur i can remember a doctor with his hands inside my bum stretching it. afterwards, he had his finger up (sorry tmi) asking if i could squeeze it with my bum muscles but i couldn't so he said he would have to mend it or i would be faecally (sorry sp?) incontinent. anyway, 3 times now i have not made it to the loo on time and have poo'd myself. im so worried this will happen when i'm out as it just comes i have no control over it. oh how embarrasing writing this. im just wondering if anyone has experienced the same and if it got better, and if it's just a matter of time (been 9 days) and i have to give myself time to mend or does this sound not right?
Thanks xx
During birth I ended up with episiotomy and 3rd degree tear due to forceps and although its all a bit of a blur i can remember a doctor with his hands inside my bum stretching it. afterwards, he had his finger up (sorry tmi) asking if i could squeeze it with my bum muscles but i couldn't so he said he would have to mend it or i would be faecally (sorry sp?) incontinent. anyway, 3 times now i have not made it to the loo on time and have poo'd myself. im so worried this will happen when i'm out as it just comes i have no control over it. oh how embarrasing writing this. im just wondering if anyone has experienced the same and if it got better, and if it's just a matter of time (been 9 days) and i have to give myself time to mend or does this sound not right?
Thanks xx