REALLY LATE AF AND BFN-SYMPTOMS and QUESTIONS

[indiasmommy1]

I am new to this site. I am obviously here because I have some serious questions and I'm very confused. I though if I received some insight from others, it might help me. Any input is greatly appreciated.

Here is the deal: I was due to start via a 26 day cycle (calculated according to last 3 cycles) on September 13th. According to a 28 day cycle I would have had AF on September 15th. AF NO SHOW. I have not been on any birth control and I have never missed AF before. The most I have ever been late is a day. I have two older children via c section delivery, no fertility problems with either, 1 is 11 yrs, the other is 5 yrs. According to my app I would have O'd on the 1st of September or somewhere there around. We were intimate on the 2nd and again on Friday the 9th. I was diagnosed with a 5 cm cyst in my right ovary in May and as of Sept 12th my cyst was 7cm. I have not missed AF since being dignosed with this cyst until now. I have taken several tests including this morning and they are all BFN.

Symptoms:
On the 12th I felt awful with cramps and queasy and tired
Sore BB's starting 2 days after AF was late
VERY creamy and wet cm all the time
Headaches yesterday and day before
Cramps only on sides not bad
Constipation
Do not want to wake up in the mornings
Very yellow Pee
Major Bloating
No signs of AF coming AT ALL
Cervix Moist and I think firm? Not to sure not an experienced cervix checker
Hot Flashes
Lower Back Pains all the time

I feel like I am, but I keep getting BFN's. I would say it is the cyst, but AF came May, June, July, and August with the same cyst. Not sure what is going on!

Any explanations or opinions would be greatly appreciated. I am now really late for AF and never have been.

 

[ladyV84]

Sorry to say India I cant offer any reason as I am in the exact same boat except I am 8 days late!
I cant get a doc appointment until thursday so all I can do is wait it out!
Some people do say that they need to be about 7 weeks gone before a test will show positive but I just feel like I should be getting positive by now!

If you can, go to your doctor and do a blood test, this will confirm for definate whether you are or not.

xx

 

[indiasmommy1]

That's what I was thinking! I feel positive that it should at least be faint by now. But if I wait till Friday I will be 11 days late for AF, so it should show BFP by then hopefully OR at least af. I am going crazy!

 

[3buutifulgirl]

I had the same problem I was due to start on Sept 4th kept getting BFN then on Monday Sept 12th I went to the doctor and did blood test and it came back NEGATIVE On Wednesday Sept 14th at around 4:30 pm I took a HPT and got a faint positive then Thursday morning two more positives...I took a digital Sunday Sept 18th and got pregnant. Going to the ob/gyn next tuesday...I didn't have any symptoms except severe heartburn and start getting tender bb's yesterday before the digi....Don't give up till you see af. FX for you

 

[indiasmommy1]

I had the same problem I was due to start on Sept 4th kept getting BFN then on Monday Sept 12th I went to the doctor and did blood test and it came back NEGATIVE On Wednesday Sept 14th at around 4:30 pm I took a HPT and got a faint positive then Thursday morning two more positives...I took a digital Sunday Sept 18th and got pregnant. Going to the ob/gyn next tuesday...I didn't have any symptoms except severe heartburn and start getting tender bb's yesterday before the digi....Don't give up till you see af. FX for you

So you were 10 days late when you got that...theres hope!

 

[indiasmommy1]

OK blood test in the morning! And results by Wednesday Morning! Waiting tap tap tap!

 

[ladyV84]

OOOOOHH cant wait to hear the update - make sure you post on here - really hope its good news!

Congrats 3 buttiful thats AMAZING and totally gives me hope - I do feel pregnant but the crappy stick keeps arguing with me!
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[Skelleron]

Thank you for this thread; 3buutifulgirl you have given me renewed hope, it had been seriously dwindling after my 3rd BFN yesterday! I am now 7 days late & am going to try to wait until 22nd to test again as AF was due on Sept 12th (27d regular cycle)
I have had sore bb for the last 48 hrs & today I felt a little dizzy/nauseous at times, but until I get BFP I won't dare to believe it!

Good to see you again LadyV & welcome Indiasmommy to our waiting game, fingers crossed for us all & let's hope we can follow in 3buutifulgirls footsteps Xx

 

[indiasmommy1]

Thank you for this thread; 3buutifulgirl you have given me renewed hope, it had been seriously dwindling after my 3rd BFN yesterday! I am now 7 days late & am going to try to wait until 22nd to test again as AF was due on Sept 12th (27d regular cycle)
I have had sore bb for the last 48 hrs & today I felt a little dizzy/nauseous at times, but until I get BFP I won't dare to believe it!

Good to see you again LadyV & welcome Indiasmommy to our waiting game, fingers crossed for us all & let's hope we can follow in 3buutifulgirls footsteps Xx

Skelleron we were due for AF the same day....Hopefully she stays away for BFPs.

I will definately post as soon as I get results Wednesday Morning....until then...I have one more stick in the morning to use...

 

[3buutifulgirl]

You are all very welcome anything is possible...I don't know why I had all the negatives and now BFP's, but I have an appt with OB/GYN next Tuesday so I guess he will give me some insight as to why it happend that way and exactly how far along I am....Again Good Luck ladies FX for y'all

 

[NotNic]

Hi everyone! India - I am going to be anxiously checking this thread for your results tomorrow! I am currently 16 days late (7/8 BFNs) and I have a blood test booked for tomorrow, and not expecting to get my results back until Friday at the earliest. I don't feel like I am pg, however I also don't feel that AF is coming either.

I have experienced a couple of the same things as you:

Increased CM (especially that first week I was late)
Bloating with cramps (not AF style cramps)
Bright yellow pee
Lower back ache and twingey hips

All seem a little bit odd and I actually felt a bit nauseus last night - though that could have been my cooking. LOL. Keeping my fingers crossed for you and everyone else still waiting. xx

 

[indiasmommy1]

I am so sorry I had blood test scheduled for this morning, only to have to call and cancel it thanks to the dreaded AF. She arrived last night My BFN on HPT's were right. I was so late, I was sure of getting a BFP. I hope for you ladies still. Please keep me updated on your results!

 

[ladyV84]

Aww Indiasmommy1 I cant believe she got you after all this time

I think I will be following you shortly. Did test this morning - BFN , just now - BFN

i have had majorly sore boobs today and felt uncomfortable and sick last night in bed so surely it should be positive by now ! I am 9 days late for period!

When is this ever going to end!??

Good luck Not Nic - it seems like such a long time to wait doesnt it.

XX

 

[indiasmommy1]

Yes I got really nauseated last night and then she came.....I hope you eventually get a BFP! or at least a definitive answer. This drives us CRAZY As for today, I am really heavy AF and very but work will not stop.

 

[ladyV84]

Yes at least you have an answer - I would actually be glad to see AF now as I am so sick of feeling like rubbish and with no period and BFN'S all the time its so frustrating!

 

[NotNic]

Thanks LadyV. How late are you now? x

 

[ladyV84]

Not nic - im 9 days late today! But have been extra weepy, had extra sore boobs & shooring pains in tummy tonight so it may all be comung to an end finally!

However no sign yet so we'll see, still no bfp for u yet? xx

 

[rogue53]

Im still a no show of AF, 2 weeks late did another HPT this morning and surprise BFN! trying to stay positive but wish i knew either way! fx crossed for everyone, pregnant till proven otherwise!

 

[ladyV84]

Im out! Knew it though as last night had a real change of feeling from "im pregnant" to periods coming. No surprise when she was there full force this morning!

Would have been 10days late today so quite relieved as was getting constant BFN

I hope everyone elses story ends happier - I guess this just wasnt my month but will be trying harder for next month!!

 

[indiasmommy1]

Im out! Knew it though as last night had a real change of feeling from "im pregnant" to periods coming. No surprise when she was there full force this morning!

Would have been 10days late today so quite relieved as was getting constant BFN

I hope everyone elses story ends happier - I guess this just wasnt my month but will be trying harder for next month!!

So sorry to hear! But like me at least there is an answer. I have surgery on October 28th to remove my right ovarian cyst, so we cannot try again until November or December