Really need willpower - Please help :)

[Margerle]

You want him trying to explain to your baby why he wasn't at their b-day party or school play?

You want your baby to grow up knowing it's mama is making excuses for a man that acts this way!?

(If you think he'll stop, ask some of the single mamas here who's OH was a guy like this.)

Ask someone like me 12 years ago!

It hurt, it stung, I wanted him back, I wanted to help him love his baby as much as I did, but in the end I was strong- and waited for him to have the balls to be a DAD. He never did, and my daughter and I are BOTH BETTER FOR IT.

Now the man that is my DD's dad and my husband loves her, and loves me, and LOVES THE BABY HE MADE IN ME. I'm not having to live with some snod who treats his baby's mama with such utter disrespect.

I'm with Mervs Mum!

Now go have a good cry over this guy, then pick yourself up, dust yourself off and get on track for being the best mama for your baby and quit trying to mama this jerk!

:: off soapbox ::

 

[Mervs Mum]

 

[Younglutonmum]

Lol thank you everyone. Your posts really made me laugh

His sister emailed me today saying how i'm not to worry, her brother will support me blah blah blah really wants to be there. I just had to tell her what he said. Obviously I understand he's her brother n all but stop thinking he's an angel u know!!

I swore I wouldnt discuss him with his family so as not to cause trouble but when I get emails practically praising him!! Grrrr how can you praise a BOY who wishes death upon his unborn? Absolute joke. Im really feeling more positive about things 2day. I know he'll come running at some point & he'll kick himself for missing scans, appoinments,first kick etc

His loss & I truely mean that now!

 

[Mervs Mum]

Good girl. x

 

[Ann-Marie]

and the bit that I'll add is...............

concentrate on going out, buying some really good quality spuds.... and then take ages perfecting the perfect roasties, and then enjoy eating them....

That should stop ya thinking about the loo-hoooo-serrrrr for a while :smile:

 

[Younglutonmum]

and the bit that I'll add is...............

concentrate on going out, buying some really good quality spuds.... and then take ages perfecting the perfect roasties, and then enjoy eating them....

That should stop ya thinking about the loo-hoooo-serrrrr for a while :smile:

omg lol I actually nearly wet myself reading that! Damn my weak bladder. The things we go through 4 our unborns lol.

So worth it though

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[leeanne]

I like Margerie's advice!

Keep strong! You are going to be a wonderful mom without that loser!

 

[Younglutonmum]

Thanks Leeanne

2day im feeling good about things. Just want the baby here now! 5 months 2day till my due date

Ive come this far on my own so im sure i'll do great!

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[nikky0907]

Opposite situations,I don't know how to tell him but I know he will be supportive...
But I agree with everyone,a baby is better with one great parent(that will be you) than two parents who are miserable together...

 

[Younglutonmum]

Yeh my thoughts exactly. Its only just dawned on me

lol

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