Really TMI ! So apologies !

Discussion in 'Pregnancy - Second Trimester' started by Laura--x, Oct 28, 2008.

  1. Laura--x

    Laura--x Guest

    I apologise in advance :blush:

    Everytime me n my oh go to have any sexual contact or actually intercourse, i feel really tight and it kinda hurts. :blush::blush:, he only has to use one finger ( SORRY TMI I KNOW !!) but i still feel unbelievably tight so i have to ask him to stop because it just starts to get sore. Sex is completely out of the question atm!

    Is anyone else like this? Or knows why im like this? It gets a bit stressful!
     
  2. Frankie

    Frankie Well-Known Member

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    maybe your getting to stressed about it

    get some slide n ride ;-)
     
  3. Laura--x

    Laura--x Guest

    :rofl:

    it's not that though, im always relaxed and ready.
     
  4. LongRoadAhead

    LongRoadAhead ♥Due 06/05/09♥

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    Might have something to do with your cervix or anything really?
    Not too sure why. Perhaps mention it to midwife hun, Im sure she'll be able to help in some way
    Xxx
     
  5. danni2609

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    Not sure why but get some lubricant and see if that helps
     
  6. FierceAngel

    FierceAngel Guest

    i think it can happen and although you are not stressed about it to start with.. you get stressed when you cant proceed and it gets worse..

    i seem to have the opposite problem... which isnt great either lol!

    def try some lubricant..
     
  7. tallulah_bean

    tallulah_bean Well-Known Member

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    I was like this until recently, I felt ready mentally but was a bit dry and tight down below, definitely get some lubricant and spend a bit longer on foreplay!! And try not to stress as it will only make it worse :blush:
     
  8. Dragonfly

    Dragonfly Mother of 4

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    I am always like that, I have no idea how I will get a baby out of that either. Def try lube! works.
     
  9. katieandbump

    katieandbump Well-Known Member

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    Yep i'm the same always like that, i think some of it is psychological but it does sting so bad sometimes and lubes can make the soreness even worse..... God knows how my baby's gna come out either, if only there was a cure. x
     
  10. sammie18

    sammie18 Mommy to Allison

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    When i have sex im really tight and it takes a minute but after words im pretty sore down there lol I think its cause I havnt been feeling sex and not wanting it i think holding off for a while causes me to get tight Maybe do it regurlary so you dont get to tight lol :p
     
  11. danapeter36

    danapeter36 Well-Known Member

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    I am EXACTLY the same and feel so reassured that others do as well. I think it's a large percentage psychological but I can't seem to shake it. Luckily my hubby is being really supportive of me. This is a big thing for us all! xx
     
  12. princess_vix

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    I am the same..am fine first round lmao but when we try later in the evening it kills and am really dry...hmm damn pregnancy hey


    hope all works out!

    luv you!! xx
     
  13. Janisdkh

    Janisdkh Well-Known Member

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    I get sore after he touches me for abit. I know its because of pregnancy. You can subconsiously be worried sweety and your body can be tense or you can just be super sensitive down there because of pregnancy. I would try lub the slipperier the better :D
     
  14. Laura--x

    Laura--x Guest

    I dont get it though because im always wet (sorry lol), but i will deffo try lube!

    Thanks girls x
     
  15. Lil_Gem_1989

    Lil_Gem_1989 Well-Known Member

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    i thought i was the only one! its been like this for me for over a year. dont know why it happens either :( even when i relax it still hurts x
     
  16. KatienSam

    KatienSam Mummy to Ella & Faith <3

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    maybe its the extra blood flow or something making things swell up etc!

    i just keep getting tiggly feelings and start laughing when OH tries anything, which is a bit of a mood killer in itself!! lol!

    Bit of lube and keep trying, then once u got it going on do it regular to keep it stretched!

    xxx

    ha ha we know far too much about each other lol xxx
     
  17. sophie c

    sophie c 2 gorgeous daughters <3

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    lol had this last night, he said to me "babe i dont mean to scare you but i dont know HOW your gunna push little alys through there cos im struggling with one finger now!" lol i was like ohhh great!!! lol


    xxxxxxxxxxxxx
     
  18. claire-eedie

    claire-eedie Expecting #3!

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    We were at it the other night, and I was feeling so rampant, I wanted him in me before I was lubed enough. I was ready, but not wet enough if that makes sense. Didn't even want to scrabble about for lube, so ended up quite sore... So next time: make sure lube is to hand BEFORE we start!!! Lol! xx

    edited to add: I've always been a bit anxious/sore/etc round sex to be honest and this is our third child!!! My first was c-section, but had the second naturally, and after I'd got over the birth 'down there' found it easier: probably cause stuff had stretched!!!!!
     
  19. fulltimemum

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    frankie slide and ride :rofl:
     

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