I'm sat here crying my eyes out, I'm so sick of people doubting the choices that I am making for me and my little girl.
I've got a couple of dummy's in the house but I don't intend to use them unless I really think there's a need but just get comments like "if they're in the house you'll definitely use them"
Then comments on breast feeding (my whole family are bottle fed babies) with comments like "oo it's hard, don't put yourself through it. Formula is easier"
And the latest one is that I've decided to cloth nappy Millie and within the last hour of deciding ive already had two comments to the effect of "hahaha yeah right that won't last"
I'm going to be a single mum, a first time mum and I just feel like no one has any faith in my ability to be able to raise my daughter and make my own choices without being ridiculed I'm just so upset. I don't know why I bother trying to keep people informed about the baby or our future, most of the time I think I'd just be happier staying alone and keeping her all to myself.
Sorry for the long post just needed to get it out.
I've got a couple of dummy's in the house but I don't intend to use them unless I really think there's a need but just get comments like "if they're in the house you'll definitely use them"
Then comments on breast feeding (my whole family are bottle fed babies) with comments like "oo it's hard, don't put yourself through it. Formula is easier"
And the latest one is that I've decided to cloth nappy Millie and within the last hour of deciding ive already had two comments to the effect of "hahaha yeah right that won't last"
I'm going to be a single mum, a first time mum and I just feel like no one has any faith in my ability to be able to raise my daughter and make my own choices without being ridiculed I'm just so upset. I don't know why I bother trying to keep people informed about the baby or our future, most of the time I think I'd just be happier staying alone and keeping her all to myself.
Sorry for the long post just needed to get it out.